Guys, are you attracted to the mean, hot girls OR the nice ones?

[Anonymous]

Let's say there are 2 girls. One who is hot but mean- and the other is nice but "cute" / "pretty" type of person- aka- not hot. Which one would you like more and WHY?

The hot mean girl

The nice and cute girl

[guilly18butnot]

I HATE mean girls. No matter if they are super models or not. I understand that they are hit at often, as they are hot, but that is no reason for being mean. There are many other ways to get rid of the horny crowd that do not involve being mean.

A hot mean girl is usually a girl who despises you and sees you as an inferior, and thinks that her hotness will help her get away with anything. Karma comes back to them with age, trust me.

Of course this is a generalization. Sometimes a person can be mean at a certain point in their lives due to things that are happening to them. But as such, I'm referring to the average hot mean girl.

I'm OK with them nowadays. They used to make me feel very insecure when I was young. Later I realized that there was nothing wrong with me (neither with my looks), but with them.

[StainedClass]

I thought it was a good movie but to each his own.

[guilly18butnot]

@StainedClass Ahaa...

Answers like this make me wonder wtf I'm smoking.

[StainedClass]

Whatever it is, double it.

[murpherface]

I see these types of questions posted by girls a lot on here. I'm not really sure why girls here are thinking that men don't care about personality, or that it doesn't matter of someone is kind of a bad person as long as they are physically attractive. While that's certainly the case for a sizeable number of men just looking to get laid or looking for arm candy more than a partner, I can assure you that for most men this just isn't the case. Most men want someone who is attractive, sure. But we don't tend to keep people around with terrible personalities, and women shouldn't either. Good looks and good personality are not mutually exclusive things, and just with most things in life, there is a huge amount of gray area. the vast majority of us fall somewhere in the middle, and are looking for someone else there.

[guilly18butnot]

Well said!

[PrincessPie]

I think most prefer nice :)

[domskidoms69]

umm most of the guys would pick mean hot girl cause they play hard to get and the guy wouls really love to chase them and in the long run it will just not work out DEPENDING on how handle it. when it comes to nice girls some people would just hurt their hearts for being so nice and everything but, soon, in time they will realize that they lost their most precious treasure.

[Asker]

And do they usually try to appreciate the nice girls afterwards, or still run after the mean ones?

[domskidoms69]

they would appreciate the nice girls. its always the nice girls.

[guilly18butnot]

I think there's a difference between being mean, and being introverted and overprotective. Although the second could be mean, she might be just too sensitive or have distrust from previous experiences, and has a barrier for protection. These girls (and men) are often mean only under impulses, but not in general terms.

I think the question refers to mean HOT girls (and there's a reason why she specifies she is hot), which are the ones that feel superior and are arrogant due to their physical beauty, and make a quite evil, disrespectful, demeaning use of it.

[soul1112]

You can't expect me to pick one. That's like asking if you're only attracted to a nice (like actually nice and not boring) guy and a bad boy. Take it you like both, maybe with some preference to one side or the other.

Which would I prefer between the two? Again, it depends. The nicer girl inspires more romantic feelings and that kind of relationship, while the other girl inspires a more wild side, but doesn't necessarily mean it can't go the other way.

This is actually something I think about often. I find myself either liking a really nice girl or a really bitchy one.

[Lynx122]

It can be a interesting experience to be with a girl who's very into sex, but if they're not really into you or playing games or whatever it's just stupid. I don't want to deal with that shit. I'm way more into cute nice girls. Cuteness is a bug weaknes for me and I just like beeing with someone who cares about me and there's trust and beeing sweet o each other etc. It's just a great feeling and really nice :3

[Anonymous]

For sexual attraction, nothing beats hot. If the girl turns out to be mean, then she'd only be worth the effort if you're having lots of hot sex. As long as the frequency and intensity of the sex is greater than her disposition is shitty--it'd be worth it to stay with her. Of course, in the long run the sex will die down and you'll be left with a girl with a crappy attitude so eventually you'd have to dump her.

Long term the nicer girl is the one you want. But short term, don't count out the hot bitch. But to be honest, she's only worth it for a guy who can get her to put out in a couple of dates or less. If you need to put in a lot of work, it's not going to be worth it.

[CoolSky01]

mean hot girl? whats good about that besides that she's hot? and being hot and asshole loses its charm pretty quickly especially from a mans point of view, i am college student and plenty of such girls around some cute and nice, shy , and others are kinda mean bossy and hot , and i never ever choose the hot ones.

being a cute , shy and nice girl is perfect being mean and bossy is not

[cth96190]

Being hot does not mean automatically that the girl is a bitch.
I have dated a couple of hot girls (both were models and one was also a television presenter) who were sweet and gentle human beings.

[Asker]

Yes, I am talking about the traditional mean and hot girl. Not pointing out anything against girls in general.

[ADFSDF1996]

Nice and cute ones. From what I've personally noticed, the hot women usually live a poor lifestyle and might end up cheating, while the nice and cute ones live a positive lifestyle and are more likely to be loyal for life. So yes, I prefer the shy and cute ones over the wild and hot ones. Of course, I don't mean to generalize though.

[Anonymous]

I have been burned by "nice and cute" girls before. I'll try for the mean but hot one. At least with her I will know where I stand and she will communicate with me. The nice ones just bottle it all up until the quark comes off and they explode at you.

[guilly18butnot]

Are we talking about flirting for a one night stand or for long term relationships? Thing is, when out of the environment of a bar, club, disco, party, etc... mean girls are interesting to get to know and it can be a challenge to do so. In these cases they might be mean for other reasons rather than the one I mentioned in my response to the question.

Yet it is important to keep your guard up. If a girl is mean because she has some dark secrets behind her, or some deep reasons you can't control, once you cross her barrier and start having a relationship those issues might come back to you. Well at least, as you imply, you see where they are coming and going to some extent.

[Opinion Owner]

@guilly18butnot I'm not sure the situation. However I find that nice girls hide their issues more and take so much longer to let you past their barrier if they let you pass at all.

[Asker]

Like long term relationships. But you have an interesting point of view.

[SteeleSplit]

nice ones. however, I realized later I was dating a mean one thinking she was nice, I ended that relationship

[Asker]

Ouch. I feel ya bro

[SteeleSplit]

yeah, she was nice to me, but a brat to her friends, I hated being around that

[Asker]

I understand. I hope you're all done with her now and have found someone better.

[SteeleSplit]

done with her, yes. found someone else, not yet. but that's ok. I keep saying and looking for that girl that knocks me flat

[Asker]

Yeah...

[SteeleSplit]

? oh, and I meant dating, not saying*

[Asker]

I figured when i reread your text , don't worry😂

[guilly18butnot]

That happens. To my surprise.

[Mexicoman101]

I kind of like bitches, women with very fiesty dispositions, especially if they're smoking hot. Cute girls really can't pull that off

[Shadow44]

Nice and cute. Treating people like crap is a turn off.

[lordpokerface]

For a relationship? The nice, cute one.

One night stand? Hot one.

Call me shallow, but I've been through some shit.

[sp33d]

Possibly, both. Much would depend on their choices in lifestyle. I often don't like disorderly people, irresponsible people. Doesn't matter whether she's hot, bad, nice or any concievable combination of the three.

TL;DR I don't know.

[RationalMale]

Hotness is the primary attraction, sorry. We guys will put up with a lot of shit for a hot lover.

[Asker]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[Probably_Friendzoned]

I would be sexually attracted to the bitch. I would absolutely fuck her given the chance.

But for a relationship? Nice girl hands down. They are sexy in their own right, and way more fun to be around.

[AlphaStyles]

nice 1nce because how can u be mean and think I will still be with u or even near u

[Asker]

I mean the hot girl is a challenge, and guys usually want to prove to themselves that they could get whoever they like.. etc

[AlphaStyles]

well those are their own way as for me u are beautiful but mean sorry no way

[guilly18butnot]

Hot girls are a challenge, yes. Demeaning girls do not diserve my attention.

Nowadays I found out that the best way to attract the attention of a hot girl who is mean, is not fall in her game. They are very competitive and if they see that you don't care much about her demeaning behavior, and flirt with other girls with success, you will become the challenge, not the other way around.

If you are not as ugly as a turd, of course.

[JayCasper777]

men like nice girls with good personalities. we want to fuck girls that are rude then move on with our lives. might seem like we like the ride girls from your point of view but its far from the case

[guilly18butnot]

I don't want to fuck rude girls. I don't do hate sex.

If I get intimate with someone, if when it is casual sex, she better be someone I feel comfortable around, apart from her looks.

Hopefuly time will show you.

PS: Beware that I recognize that my views on this matter, and my response to you, are not 100% accurate as many variables can be involved.

[JayCasper777]

yeah that's cool. ain't no hate fuck involved tho. just wanna fuck. don't hate em, just don't particularly like em, or at least don't like them long-term. just a fuck, no feelings, leave hate and everything else at the door (including clothes) get the show on the road then hit the road.

[guilly18butnot]

Ok. Good enough. I could do that, afterall I'm very sexual and have no problem flirting.

However I don't feel comfortable around mean girls, not even for sex. If I'm intoxicated enough, perhaps.

[JayCasper777]

I get what you mean. its not nice. rarely do that because it makes you a hate fucker after a while

[JayCasper777]

your just in i t for sex and its not fun until sex you resent her cos she delaying sex. it just a vicious circle kinda

[guilly18butnot]

we men are very keen to fall on girls who make things difficult. And when I say difficult, I don't mean difficult as in "having sex with them", but in the sense of "making our life a confusing living hell". Dangerously addictive!

[JayCasper777]

so true dude we love a challenge but its gotta be the right kind. your cool man don't change. :)

[guilly18butnot]

thanks for the compliment! you too!

See? We might be hot, but not mean!

[Snyxthetics]

i would prefer a girl with at best both sides - not too much of one overwhelming side sounds best in my opinion

[4Freedom]

I'll take a nice, hot, and cute girl. I cannot tolerate mean people of any kind. I have zero patience for people who are unkind.

[fueledbythc]

Personality wins over anything else. I have a small crush on an older woman just because i looked into her eyes and saw how attracted she was to my personality.