How to attract single mom?

[Anonymous]

I like this single mom. She knows I like her as I have told her. She used to invite me for walks during lunch time at work. She lets me touch her playfully during the walk. Recently I asked her out for dinner. She refused without saying no and said she might surprise me one day. I felt dissapointed & felt I was wasting my time and tried avoiding her. But when she realise I was trying to avoid her she tries to keep in touch by calling me out for lunch & go for a during working hours. I am confused and not sure what are her intentions. I sense she still want to keep in touch even though I am trying to distance myself. I still like her and would like to bring her out for dinner & have a good time. But i don't' want to waste my time if she don't have the same feeling. What should I do? Continue to avoid her or work harder to get her out for dinner & yes have sex. What can I do to make her come out with me?

[Cola7248]

as a single mother, you must give her time. she either afraid she will get to close and get hurt or she is just not ready yet. plus when dealing with kids it's a lot. Maybe offer to help her out with the kids. Maybe offer to do dinner for her and her child/children. and dont push the sex thing. It's not gonna happen until she is ready. Avoiding her is not the answer. give her time. she will come around

[Asker]

Thanks. It is frustrating not knowing what her intentions are. It would be easy if she just states her intentions even if she does not want an intimate relationship and move on. I hope she will come around but not sure if I can wait that long.

[Cola7248]

i understand this what you have to tell her. be honest with her. talk how you feel. but come on too strong ypu dont want to scare her away. give it time. you dont know what she has went through with the child father. she might want to wait but if you dont express how you feel and charm her into wanting to go out with you, you will never know.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Cola7248]

welcome

[mjz00]

wow dude, you had me right upto yes have sex... wtf... single mum you dont go there unless your intentions are real commitment and acceptance of being a man in a relationship where other mens children are involved otherwise leave this woman alone.. xx