Should I sext and flirt back?

[Anonymous]

By sext I mean having sex through text. So I'm texting a few guys who are interested some I've known for a year some a few weeks or days. I don't have any intentions other than to talk/hangout to be honest but some I do find attractive and would date if it went there when I'm ready. A few have flirted with me and have wanted to "cuddle" or sext and a part of me wants to but another part doesn't. I have a big sexual appetite so I want to indeed but I view sex a certain way and don't sleep around or just sext anybody so I'm having a bit of trouble with if I should or not.

I am fully single however I don't want to just do this or flirt back with these guys knowing I'm not exactly looking for a relationship right now as well as if I were to want one with them I don't want them to think of me as a slut or anything. I'd personally be comfortable with doing it if I was closer to some of them but I don't want to do that knowing I'm not really looking to date. Don't want to lead anyone on or waste their time. So should I just do it or not?

Do it but only if you're comfortable, no harm will be done

Don't do it if you want nothing more than just talking or a friend

Don't do it, it could make you look bad if you want to date later

[thatdudegabe99]

I think that though it could seem minor to sext now you should think about the long term with technology the way it is today anything you send can be saved and resent to others so the best thing you could do is avoid sending stuff like that

[Asker]

I just meant texting sexually no pics I'd never do that.

[thatdudegabe99]

oh then expressing how you feel is perfectly okay but don't let it go to far or it can seem like a let on to the guy and they might be expecting something from it

[Asker]

Very true, thank you! :)

[rzvcam]

It's not a big deal. Do it. Hell, i'll even do it with you to prove that it doesn't need to be more than just a bit of fun.

[Anonymous]

Don't do it

[Shadowfury522]

If you want to date these guys you should make them want more than just your body so try and get to know them first

[Shadowfury522]

that is probably not a best first move

[Asker]

Of course! I agree I couldn't really be specific didn't want it to be too long but some I do know well and they are interested in dating I'm just not yet.

[Shadowfury522]

date them first you need to know what they are like a little before that happens

[AzraelG]

well sexting is something good for a lot of people, it's not rude and it creates trust, i would love to sext with you and show you that i can be trusted

[Anonymous]

Do it while you are young and use protection. When you turn 40 years of age, the desire will be gone.

[117Surya]

you should not sext with them