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I usually avoid women with children because women sometimes don't have a body after they have a child. but I know a girl from high school whose always been cute even after.
Agree. But after making a new life and bringing it into this world, I personally don't think men have any right to judge our body. Men can be fat, or have unattractive bodies because they're just fat and unattractive; whereas mothers actually have a reason to have that body. I agree we must look after ourselves and eat healthily. But things like stretch marks etc; things we can't physical stop, a man that said we're unattractive because we went through what your own mother did are not men. Now! I'm not saying you have to feel guilty and date them. But to think lesser of them because they had kids? Doesn't sit well with me. I'd probably be the one avoiding you.
Most men do think lesser of prospective partners when they
have kids and have gained weight and have stretch marks.
Simply because we didn't help make that child. And we're not wrong to feel that way. I understand you not liking this, although you won't change very many men's opinions about this. Fact of life.
I see your point marinepilot, and I totally agree. But if you read some other answers on other questions, men are so degrading it's disgusting.
I really don't care to be honest. As anyone that knows me, knows I am more than happy to stay single. I don't ever see myself bringing a new man around my children. But to call women disgusting, vile names etc: is just inappropriate and shows how much of a man they are NOT! If you wouldn't say it to your mother. Or think it about your mother. Why say it to others?
Most men would like a woman who's in shape. just like a woman would want a man who's in shape. All it means is that to get more attention you'd just have to critique yourself. That's my only thing with women with a child.
I agree! Everyone should look after themselves. I mean; I have 3, and my youngest is 10 months. I'm already down 30 kilograms. BUT! I still have stretchmarks, and all those other things that come along with bringing new life into this world. And my husband stood next to me through thick and thin (Pun not intended.) I hope that when you find a woman and have babies; you respect her enough to not sound so cruel. I would truly hate to be with any man that wants to use his dick, have kids, and then treat me like shit. Sometimes I wish we could swap roles and you can all see how horrible you sound.
Bitter much? Face it, you're damaged and used goods and that's
how most men view you. Nobody made you have that kid, There are
legal alternatives. Welcome to the real world of single mom dating. Have fun.
@Marinepilot - Well there, someone that gets it.
I was gonna say...
"Agree. But after making a new life and bringing it into this world, I personally don't think men have any right to judge our body."
WTF does a 'new life' have to do with judging your body? If it's whooped out then YOU didn't take care of it and men are gonna judge regardless - it's call discernment. You're either HELL YES or HELL NO. Having a child doesn't ruin a womans body. Just so much bullshit.
Nope. Been there, done that. Whenever I have dated them or tried dating them, you're always second. They're generally too busy to do anything and plans tend to get canceled because of issues of not having a babysitter.
if I were to date a guy it wouldn't be a guy with kids or a guy who wants kids because I don't want kids because I don't have the tolerance for kids and I don't like kids
Date yes. stay with probably not
Prefer not to deal with a father and prefer to start fresh
I don't know... depends on the entire situation but I won't date her possibly...
Maybe if she is super hot in this case and she has to be perfect
No. I prefer my women to have no baby weight
Nice thigh gap! 😮
@characterJoe yeah you could jam it up her with her legs together
Lol. I never thought of it like that. I bet she is really flexible though! 😉
@characterJoe nothing better than a woman who's in shape.
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Here's my friend who's had 4 kids. So screw your "mom's can't be in shape" theory
Yeah because every woman that's had a kid has baby fat. lol it's called proper eating during pregnancy and getting back to the gym and not making excuses.
@WriterAndPainter that woman is like a man. She isn't soft in the places men like a woman to be soft. Also check out those thunder thighs is she hulk hogan?
I have plenty of crazy skinny friends that have multiple kids too. Although your style seems more like 15 year old girls smh
@TuMeManques or skinny attractive women with intact vaginas and no stretch marks
think about the children, what are they going to think about this, "is my mom cheating my dad, or betraying/leaving us"
women hav no hert ;(
You're 16. Quiet.
No if I was 16 I would be very primitive computer.
You can't even spell.
L-i-v-e. See, I spelled it correctly. How about you spell supercalifragilisticexpialidocious?
Go to bed.
You're not my mother! Don't tell me what to do!
WELL CLEARLY YOUR MOTHER DOESN'T SUPERVISE POOR LITTLE RAZOR ENOUGH ON SOCIAL MEDIA! So hunny! I will be your mother tonight. Go to bed and stop talking to strangers; you have school on Monday!
I'm just sitting in my garden listening to my neighbor cutting his lawn
come on moom, i wanted to have some fun :((
I could care less what a single mothers kids think. Not my circus. Not my monkey.
You're 65. Highly doubt you'd need to worry. lol
@Marinepilot It has been great. But. I think I will be going now *backing away*.
mom Because my intelligence exceeds what you can only dream of
It depends if she would want to have another baby with her new boyfriend if they get marred.
Yes, because you know she is experienced in the "act" of creating children.
If I was older, I would consider it. However, being 24, I don't think that is really what I want. For me it's a turnoff, but later on in life, I wouldn't care near as much. That's just my position.
Yes I would, provided it's a case of 5 kids with each kid having a different father.
I'm 26 with nearly a 3 year old. Never had any issues with dating or men not wanting to date me because I have a child.
Yeah but they may just see you as short term company/fun. That's the only thing. I don't know your relationships of course but at the same time you don't know what's in their heads.
Good and good. I'm glad you are open minded and also finding men who are also open minded. Hopefully enough that they respect your child and are loving as your child deserves.
@TheUsername27 men are upfront. I'm sure I'm sure if they didn't desire long term they would make that known upfront. The men I've dated dont mind being a father figure and talk long term relationship goals together. That's just the men on here. It's honestly not that difficult. Plenty of men don't mind
Men on here are also quite sleezy and just hanging to bust a nut. 😂😂😂😂
I guess it depends on a mans age. There are men in their 30's who are thinking oh shit i don't want to leave it late. All i know is men from 20-25 would likely be all perfect seeming to have sex. Men on here get talk in a anon environment. I wouldn't say half the shit I say on here in person because i don't want to lose my job etc. I don't say anything crazy don't get me wrong but if i said ''No i wouldn't date clare she is damaged goods''... good bye professional job and hello the Nation feminist prosecution society.
@TheUsername27 the age range is 21-30. I appreciate your comment however I've been on here long enough to not take anything these bitter men say on here seriously. Real life doesn't work that way 😂
It does and it doesn't. There are a lot of bitchy. bitter women on here as well. This site attracts the worst kinds on the male and female side. Men in real life do use women for sex... there is no denying that. Men can come across as nice and loving to get what they want.. as can women.
@TheUsername27 been there, did that. I've used men for sex as well. The opinions on this site is a joke. After 5 years of being a member, people come and go but the mindsets are the same. Plenty of people are used for sex as childless, just like plenty of people are in long term relationships with people who have children. Can go either way. Anyhoo I'm done here.
At some point you will encounter men who won't date single mothers. Be prepared.
I assure you, most really good men are that way, Furthermore, what man in his right
mind is going to play second best to a child who isn't his? Damn few if any.
The thing is the ''mothers'' assume that good men will accept them and their child. Wrong. Unless the guy is in his 40-50's and wants a family to settle down with he likely won't date a single mum. That doesn't make him a bad guy what so ever. I mean we all carry baggage and of course @OP carries a crate of it. If you're a successful, good looking, nice man you won't settle for a desperate single mum who probably lacks education.
@TheUsername27 You're so very right.
You're just a booty call to most sensible men. Fact of life.
I would not have a problem dating a woman with kids.
only date 'em if we're gonna become fuck buddies friends with benefits lol
really hard to date a woman that doesn't have children
Maybe. it depends on why she got divorced in the first place
I don't know if I can have children if my own, so yeah.
Hell no so what you can pay for her and her bratty kid? Its a trap.
I wouldn't date a man with children
No. I don't want to be seen as a potential father figure.