I am going to pay for the movie but like if I sit next to him would my parents know?
They might, they might not. It depends on how closely they monitor you and how well you can lie. It's not like they can see in the theater though.
I can lie really good.
I don't recommend that.
than what do u recommend?
I can't tell the truth because they won't let me go. They don't let me have a boyfriend or hang with boys.
Well, they do have a right to set rules. Did I always do what maparents said? No. But can I tell you this is a good idea? No.
I have already tried to talk to them about having a boyfriend and they are very very stubborn.
yes it is because I'll get in trouble and how did ur friends get caught?
Oh okay. Their parents sensed that they were acting a bit strange so they stayed around without them knowing and caught them but if you have a good cover up story and you are good at acting you should be able to pull it off.
how would they catch me inside the movies though? they would have to pay to see which section of the building we're in watching the movie anyways.
Would they be dropping you off?
Yea they would but I'll tell him to come after they leave.
Oh that sound pretty safe actually, my friend met up with her guy without knowing whether or not her parents were gone. I think you should give it a shot
okay I will! I can't let my parents run me for the rest of my life and I won't do anything dumb with him
Good luck :D
I did say this but I was thinking of sitting with him but leaving after the movie and waiting outside with my female friend because she's taking her boyfriend too
sounds good to me if your parents get you home nice idea for both of you
Yea so should I go do it? 😮😮
well wouldn't hurt to try
no I'm 16
Ahhhh, then you might have a problem there. Are they super strict or what?
yes. super strict.
how can I go through with this? please help😭
Being honest would've been my first choice, however if you must be secretive, act like you guys are classmates from school who just happened to run into each other at the movies. Better than creeping away and being found out.
okay well that's smart and I would come clean and tell them that I'm with a boy but they'll overreact because they're crazy
Just what parents do but that's the best thing.
how is overreacting the best thing?
Having to deal with overreacting is better than lying and being found out later with bigger consequences and no trust. That would just reinforce the reasons for them being strict in the first place.
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