What what you do if your boyfriend told you to fuck off?

[Anonymous]

After a year and 7 months my boyfriend and I had a bad argument last night he basically told me to go fuck yourself and was saying very nasty things to me we haven't spoke in a day. How do I handle this?

[iwannalicku]

sweetheart I would find a different boyfriend I'm a guy and there's no reason to talk to a woman that way I'm sorry but if he's talking to you like that now and you're just boyfriend and girlfriend if you ever marry someone like that it will become violent and he will be beating on you instead of Loving You like I said I would find a different boyfriend someone that is kind-hearted gentle with his hands and his voice and does not have a crappy temper that looks like you might get your ass kicked I watch my mother go through that I have never in my life raised my hand to a woman I've been beat down by a woman because I would not do it but I don't care I would take an ass-kicking anytime before I would ever raise my hand to a woman because it is not acceptable and I repeat it is not acceptable to treat a woman like crap they are a gift to us men and they should be treated as a precious gift not like a punching bag

[KingDio]

well I've been here before its ether a heat of the moment or he had it build up inside him and best moment to let it out... what i would wait for a apology from him

[youtoo]

First off, don't do anything if you feel emotional. Calm doen. Next, take it very seriously. Don't let this go. If you do it will only get worse from here because then he'll feel like he can treat you anyway he likes. Start off by giving him some space, like a day or two, and then ask him if he'd like to talk to about what happened. This is key; don't TELL him that you want to talk to him about it, ASK him if he'd like to talk about it, because then it feels less like an ultimatum and more like a choice, which of course it is. If he says yes he would, then ask him what he thinks happened and how he'd like to make it so that it would never happen again, and go from there. If he doesn't want to talk about it, give him that space. But if he STILL doesn't want to talk about it after that, then he may have a problem that goes deeper than your relationship, and then you can just ask GAG about it. Good luck :)

[Ylyhbi]

Been through and still am going through the same thing. Simple, move out if you live with him, don't go back. Let him feel it for acouple months. And DONT text him until he apologizes. Or don't post anything via social media. Guys have a real short temper no matter what. But it's almost like we have to condition them to know what's up

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I suggest giving him some space, just wait a day or two more and then try talking to him like an adult. Don't be accusatory but ask about it and try to see if you can make up or if you two want to break up.

[Kaylove96]

The best way to go would be breaking up because it could get worse and violent.

[Anonymous]

Go away for 3 days 14 hours 15minutes 6second 29 milliseconds exactly then talk it out

[Pablo3000]

He doesn't love you. Accept it