I would’ve done the same thing you just stated. Hang up and tell him never to talk to me like that again. I don’t give a fuck if he is depressed. You are his girlfriend. You have NOTHING to do with his depression. He needs to learn how to control his emotions and speak to you in nicer tone. You deserve more respect than this. And why is he ignoring YOU when he’s the one that messed up. That doesn’t even make sense. You should be ignoring him if anything, he’s acting narcissistic.
I also don’t like how you’re defending his behavior because he’s “depressed”. Depressed or not, you don’t talk to someone you’re with like that. I’m not telling you to leave him because this isn’t my relationship but ask yourself this, if he’s speaking to you like this now, imagine the things he will say to you when he REALLY gets mad. Trust me, I have dated someone like this. First it starts off with little shit like this and then they start calling you derogatory names, and emotionally abuse you, and sometimes that can lead to physical abuse. Don’t ignore any of these signs or brush them off.
I think i would give him space.
I have told my husband this before.
We would argue about something needing fixing and he would just talk and talk about how my feelings are wrong and how i am taking it all wrong... Then i am the only one actually doing something to fix the problem so i just felt like what he was saying was irrelevant plus it was pissing me off because he was just annoying me.
Take a step back.
What were you saying that upset him?
What was it that he needed done?
I would text him that about how I didn't appreciate being disrespected like that and you want stand for that to happen again, but also let him know that you know he's having a hard time and just remind him that you're here or him, not against him. Then tell him that you love him and tell him you're going to give him some space, after a while reach back out to him once you believes he has calmed down.
If I were you, that's what I would probably do.
That's what I would do considering the circumstances you've given.
I understand why he would be frustrated, as its important to be able to express your opinion and being interrupted is aggravating, but telling you to shut up was way across the line. I used to be in a relationship where I wasn't allowed to express any opinion against hers, with the addition of impact as punishment, but no matter what the level is, it doesn't make it okay to snap at someone like that. Definitely don't forgive that without a genuine apology
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You guys should probably break up, it doesn't sound like a fun relationship.
I'll tell him put some respect on my name, I won't tolerate the disrespect.
nothing. you take him back and that reassures him to do it over and over again.
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