Do Girls Like Socially Awkward Guys?

Question

Im socially awkward and was wondering if girls are okay with it or are turned off?

Crumbles · Accepted Answer

That's a question that will be different for everyone, dude, because it's subjective. I'm quite an introverted and anti-social person myself. Still, every so often a woman knowing this, will come up and strike a conversation. Over-time after I become friends with some of them, I still acted as if I had just met them, so over-time they sort of fell trough the cracks. So from this I can say that yes, some women are turned on, some aren't. When someone does approach you, eventually, it's okay to be shy at first but after that first encounter you need to work really hard to open up or you're just going to lose them. It may be hard to hear, but everyone has things that they need to work on to make themselves better and more compatible, for you that's becoming more social and/or opening up more. Without working on that, you're not going to catch anyone, know that. That's my take on it anyway; hope it helps in some sort of way and I wish all the best in your future interactions.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not gonna sugarcoat my opinion as I'd rather be honest towards you about the reality.

If a socially awkward person is fairly attractive, and the level of awkwardness is not TOO serious, I'm pretty sure many girls can accept it. But if he looks like a creep and is very unattractive I bet no girls are gonna like him romantically. Reality is harsh.

You look fine to me mate so I wish you the best of luck.

Bleh-___- · Accepted Answer

It's a pain in the ass. Had a socially awkward friend who liked me, we hung out, dude didn't know what to say the entire time and I felt like I was pulling teeth to get something, anything, out of him. I just wanted to get out of there as fast as possible.

SapouraK · Accepted Answer

No. I need a guy who is going to be loud w me. Because the truth is the person who you are dating is the person who compliments you. The right fit.

TsundereMatrix · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it's cute but a lot of the times it's really hard to have a conversation with them.

Anonymous · Answer

No. No one likes socially awkward people. No one likes to be socially awkward. Awkwardness is not a pleasant feeling. Get rid of that identity if you want something to change. And the first step is to get rid of that "shy" in your nickname. Otherwise you just preserve that identity and you will never be confident.

passingby123 · Answer

I'm okay with it. Actually, most of the guy I've had a crush on were socially awkward and I don't know if that's a pattern or something.

GirlNextBored · Answer

Have you had luck with women? That would tell you more than an question/answer site will

GingerGuy · Answer

Most women are this way so they tend to want the opposite of them, confident and outgoing. Guys like us that are neither are screwed.

Midnight_Rose97 · Answer

I'm socially awkward myself, but I like socially awkward guys. It's really cute.

yashggorani · Answer

I don't know as I am not girl but I hope they should like them.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

No. I personally don't.

zagor · Answer

No, not even attractive guys, though they get a lot more leeway.

BBoy201 · Answer

Definitely no universal answer to that.

JosyJosy · Answer

How socially awkward are you?

Dim1213 · Answer

Only if your bold enough to go for them.

t_time · Answer

nope im socially awkward myself

EOTS1 · Answer

Of course they don't.

Anonymous · Answer

only if it's not too much

AutisticGurl · Answer

I like them... .

CT_CD · Answer

No..

rc532 · Answer

its weird

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