What do guys think of socially awkward girls?

Question

I do so many stupid and awkward things. I am walking with weird spots on my pants all day. I let my bike drop and then also almost myself. My voice cracks when I haven't said anything for a while. I fall on the stairs in school. What do guys think of that? Doesn't that make you cringe extremely hard? Would you stay away from me because I'm weird?

Battooot · Accepted Answer

What you mentioned could attract me more to a girl. I find that cute and it makes me feel like i need to pay attention to her and take care of her, and if i don't she might hurt herself xD hahahaa. It really depends on the girl though. By the way i will tell you a secret: Everyone has weirdness in them. Some will let it show, and some won't. Those who let it show tend to be more normal people cause they have less things to hide than others.

The only thing i didn't like about what you said is that you have weird spots on your pants. Now being weird is one thing, and not caring of what you dress and how you look is another thing. I like to see that my girl at least tries to take care of herself. Not going out wearing random stuff and has spots or stains. I mean... if you think about it... you can literally tell the difference between a homeless guy and a handsome business man by the way they dress right?

Taurus91 · Accepted Answer

I like this question and i think the responses show the reality of how different our opinions are but most guys find the mannerisms of a socially awkward girl to be cute at least after you get her to open up and have a meaningful relationship with her.

I really would like to see the response of females if the question was inversed, i am not sure if there are multiple factors or many many differences of opinions that contribute to their response; but from my perspective i dont usually see a clear or common response from the female side that i could understand from their perspective

PaintMeARiver · Accepted Answer

I'm TOTALLY awkward!! I LAVISH in mine though. Here are a list of awkward things I do:

I get confused quite often regarding where I'm going.

I can get so absorbed in something that I become deaf... like literally you could be right next to me screaming my name and I wouldn't hear you.

I talk to myself often when I'm doing something.

I snort when I laugh really hard.

I'm very absent minded.

I HAVE to sniff new food before I eat it. LOL

I have an obnoxious laugh

I can also be very loud at times. This usually happens when I get excited usually someone has to tell me I've gotten louder. I often times don't notice... Go figure.

Astoriana · Accepted Answer

None of this strikes me as particularly awkward or strange. You're fine. Once you get out of high school fully (in body and mind) you'll have the freedom to relax and be a little less self-conscious. The truth is that people outside of your circle aren't going to pay much attention to you no matter what. Once you realize that, you give yourself permission to relax.

Cloudy25 · Accepted Answer

Some will say they are cute... but tbh unless they are socially awkward themselves they'd prefer she wasn't.

Herald_207 · Answer

Actually, I'm currently going out with an awkward girl. It's kind of cute actually, but not in a degrading way. I wouldn't stay away or reject a girl because of her awkwardness, but it wouldn't be a major factor in my attraction to a girl. It's not a bad thing, nor is it an amazing thing, it's kind of just a thing. And no, we don't cringe hard at it, more often we smile.

Also, there's a difference between "awkward" and "quirky", and the latter is (Well, in my eyes) actually quite an attractive feature in a girl.

Bananaman177 · Answer

I like dorky awkward girls, not some perfect actress.

I swear, pretty much all men of any quality feel the same. We definitely don't judge women anywhere NEAR as harshly as women judge men and each other. You girls are fucking vicious and cruel:

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SaramadHill · Answer

These traits do not stifle a girl as much as they would stifle a man. If nothing else, you'd be thought of as the cute-klutz to plenty of guys. Don't worry about it so much! I'm sure you've got a kind personality, so whenever someone does actually get to know you, they'll cherish that chance encounter for awhile to come.
You've got nothing to worry about.

Z-100 · Answer

I've seen both males and females who were socially awkward. It doesn't matter what gender they are, it's still awkward and can be cringeworthy if they do some really awkward stuff.

But I wouldn't stay away from them, if they talked to me, I would talk back, the same way I would talk to anyone if they initiated conversation with me.

sociallyunawkward · Answer

Maybe you are a little anxious when it comes to public places. Socially awkwardness people are over thinking about themselfs and act how they really are.

FatherJack · Answer

This does NOT affect females , most men would find this endearing & it also takes pressure of any guy you may date , as we are not expected to be perfect !! Reverse the genders & a very different story , apart from the typical teen dorkiness , never socially awkward myself , but saw that girls / women are often very cruel to boys / men that are awkward.

ZeoCaliburn · Answer

Well to be honest, you'd be pretty fine in my books. I'm clumsy and sorta weird myself, but I don't let that stop me from being myself. a lot of people always said that i'd be a loner when I first started uni. Look at me now. I'm one of the most social and recognized dudes on the campus.

Nice_Guy_Last · Answer

I think it's cute. And deep down, awkward girls tend to be the most passionate. Get my wife to start talking about Harry Potter or something new in astronomy, it's the most empassioned and energetic deluge of words witnessed by man. When we met, she said maybe three sentences on our first date, and she was flustered the whole time. That, by the way, is downright adorable.

king_casanova · Answer

How can you be socially awkward? Isn't it always somehow every guy's fault every time? Say you trip over your untied shoelace. You yell at a random dude walking by, "Ugghh, that creepy dude united my shoelace so he could check me out." Or you never have anything interesting to say and can't hold a conversation, and you accuse the guy of being awkward when he is in reality talking at an unresponsive black hole. Yep, I just love those kinds of girls.

AlexBlack007 · Answer

They are awesome! I believe I'm an understanding person and I also get socially awkward so I can relate. 😊😊😊

ankitchopra7 · Answer

Thats cute... You are like a cute girl who is either a bit nervous of surrounding.. Or a bit scared of.. This is normal in everyone's life.. Just the levels are different.. Off course love to be around you

GirlThatDraws · Answer

Social awkwardness isn't cute. I should know, because I'm a socially anxious, awkward and shy person. None of my mannerisms are cute. It irks me when people are like," Aw, she's shy." NO. It sucks. Those girls that act all shy and cute are usually faking it. O

Awesom · Answer

We all weird in someway or another. I am social guy, but also socially awkward. The girl is not perfect, so am I. I guess, that one thing we would have in common.

Prof_Don · Answer

The issue with socially awkward girls is... I can never tell if they like me and are nervous, or are bothered/annoyed by my presence. A constant guessing game that is!

cth96190 · Answer

I do not have a problem with that girl. Some people refer to me as Sheldon, so our dysfunctions might work well together.

tyber1 · Answer

Social awkwardness is a major hurdle for a guy, but it's at best a minor inconvenience if you're a woman. Guys mostly don't judge women for that kind of stuff.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

Not my cup of tea, but most guys won't care or will even find it cute. But what could be a problem is that they won't notice you're interested in them.

toopsok · Answer

I love socially awkward girls as I am socially awkward then we fuse into the ultimate ball of fuck up

Sam19XX · Answer

I would say you still have just as many chances as the other girls do

nbbn5 · Answer

No it is fineyou are perfectly fine 😊😊 these are only small things

Nephilim000 · Answer

social awkwardness is not an automatic turn off. it can even be endearing

Anonymous · Answer

typically I would befriend them. Most times they are greater for me to talk to then anyone else unfortunately once their confidence builds up they start to change

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

I rarely see socially awkward girls, I think that award goes to guys. I have been around guys who had boners in public, being super drunk or super high and saying dumb shit, reeking of B. O and the list goes on and on.

mmmhhmm · Answer

they like em too, bitches are the anti social ones.

Anonymous · Answer

if your also witty and can reply with funny ass shit ima marry you asap

OnceUponAtime18 · Answer

Awkward and stupid things are funny af. I definitely wouldn't stay away from you.

Anonymous · Answer

I can be pretty awkward sometimes too but I've never had any issues. My boyfriend has told me he thinks it's cute so I don't think you should worry about finding a guy. :)

Dravyn · Answer

i lile socially awkward girls i think they're adorable. and would your friend BECAUSE you're weird

JhonnyMA · Answer

I`m Very awkward and shy too but my boyfriend says it`s cute... May be it`s only cuz he want`s to do me later in the night...

GingerGuy · Answer

It's normal. Lots of guys like this to. Not an issue for most.

Anonymous · Answer

I cringe at myself but i think guys avoid me because they don't want to deal with that... awkwardness is sometimes too time consuming so most guys rather not take the time to get to know you

deadpool1992 · Answer

I don't know how the fu many of this makes u weird st a. I date a girl who use to talk to herself and a deaf girl

FidgetSpinner · Answer

It's kinda cute. Aside from the strange stains, but I can sympathize with you. I try to be cool, got this swanky jacket and all but it always comes up not fitting because of the weird stuff my friends and I talk about.

GoldFan1001 · Answer

When a girl is awkward its cute when a guys awkward its creepy.  Go kiss my pasty white ass.

Anonymous · Answer

i wouldn't stay away from a girl who was like that. i'd find it more interesting and "cute" than ever because it's way better than being a walking robot all day haha

HonestWhiteGuy · Answer

If a girls socially awkward its cute, if guy he's a weirdo?

ThePagal · Answer

carefree, introverted, fun to be with, could be a good cook and few more things..

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Depends on how they're socially awkward lol. If you're attractive to me physically and personally then why wouldn't I like you?

Anonymous · Answer

The problem is you can't tell if they're nervous/awkward or just not interested.

Tomsta · Answer

I can relate to social awkwardness so i'd find it cute

Anonymous · Answer

They try to make them more open but if they can the girls annoy them quickly.

BanterBlitz · Answer

Would it kill you to change your pants? Sometimes complex problems have simple answers.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nothing wrong with socially awkward girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I love them! 😍😍😍 I wouldn't have too worry about them judging based on my stutter, so yeah.

Dudeman1234 · Answer

As long as they are hot, who cates

Anonymous · Answer

That there's really no difference between them and regular girls cause I know I have been rejected by socially awkward girls

Iron_Man · Answer

I like awkward girls I think they're cute

Anonymous · Answer

Remind s me of lizzie mcguire. Im also awkward and clumsy. She makes it look cute. Were ok

StickStickity13 · Answer

Sort of annoying actually

Chris_68 · Answer

I think this is super-cute! <3

Hollywood-Glam · Answer

I'm the exact same way, lol!!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm literally the same way hahah!!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It doesn't bother me.

49erfan · Answer

r u fat? id tap that

Benk111 · Answer

I'll tell you when I meet one.

almadafie · Answer

that's more cute than weird

Anonymous · Answer

It would help because I'm sort of that way

StainedClass · Answer

Hopefully easier to convince to have sex.

LéThinker · Answer

Not really sometimes I find it cute

Nahid1234 · Answer

Not weird

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