What you mentioned could attract me more to a girl. I find that cute and it makes me feel like i need to pay attention to her and take care of her, and if i don't she might hurt herself xD hahahaa. It really depends on the girl though. By the way i will tell you a secret: Everyone has weirdness in them. Some will let it show, and some won't. Those who let it show tend to be more normal people cause they have less things to hide than others.
The only thing i didn't like about what you said is that you have weird spots on your pants. Now being weird is one thing, and not caring of what you dress and how you look is another thing. I like to see that my girl at least tries to take care of herself. Not going out wearing random stuff and has spots or stains. I mean... if you think about it... you can literally tell the difference between a homeless guy and a handsome business man by the way they dress right?
I like this question and i think the responses show the reality of how different our opinions are but most guys find the mannerisms of a socially awkward girl to be cute at least after you get her to open up and have a meaningful relationship with her.
I really would like to see the response of females if the question was inversed, i am not sure if there are multiple factors or many many differences of opinions that contribute to their response; but from my perspective i dont usually see a clear or common response from the female side that i could understand from their perspective
I'm TOTALLY awkward!! I LAVISH in mine though. Here are a list of awkward things I do:
I get confused quite often regarding where I'm going.
I can get so absorbed in something that I become deaf... like literally you could be right next to me screaming my name and I wouldn't hear you.
I talk to myself often when I'm doing something.
I snort when I laugh really hard.
I'm very absent minded.
I HAVE to sniff new food before I eat it. LOL
I have an obnoxious laugh
I can also be very loud at times. This usually happens when I get excited usually someone has to tell me I've gotten louder. I often times don't notice... Go figure.
None of this strikes me as particularly awkward or strange. You're fine. Once you get out of high school fully (in body and mind) you'll have the freedom to relax and be a little less self-conscious. The truth is that people outside of your circle aren't going to pay much attention to you no matter what. Once you realize that, you give yourself permission to relax.
Some will say they are cute... but tbh unless they are socially awkward themselves they'd prefer she wasn't.
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Actually, I'm currently going out with an awkward girl. It's kind of cute actually, but not in a degrading way. I wouldn't stay away or reject a girl because of her awkwardness, but it wouldn't be a major factor in my attraction to a girl. It's not a bad thing, nor is it an amazing thing, it's kind of just a thing. And no, we don't cringe hard at it, more often we smile.
Also, there's a difference between "awkward" and "quirky", and the latter is (Well, in my eyes) actually quite an attractive feature in a girl.
I like dorky awkward girls, not some perfect actress.
I swear, pretty much all men of any quality feel the same. We definitely don't judge women anywhere NEAR as harshly as women judge men and each other. You girls are fucking vicious and cruel:
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These traits do not stifle a girl as much as they would stifle a man. If nothing else, you'd be thought of as the cute-klutz to plenty of guys. Don't worry about it so much! I'm sure you've got a kind personality, so whenever someone does actually get to know you, they'll cherish that chance encounter for awhile to come.
You've got nothing to worry about.
I've seen both males and females who were socially awkward. It doesn't matter what gender they are, it's still awkward and can be cringeworthy if they do some really awkward stuff.
But I wouldn't stay away from them, if they talked to me, I would talk back, the same way I would talk to anyone if they initiated conversation with me.
Maybe you are a little anxious when it comes to public places. Socially awkwardness people are over thinking about themselfs and act how they really are.
This does NOT affect females , most men would find this endearing & it also takes pressure of any guy you may date , as we are not expected to be perfect !! Reverse the genders & a very different story , apart from the typical teen dorkiness , never socially awkward myself , but saw that girls / women are often very cruel to boys / men that are awkward.
Well to be honest, you'd be pretty fine in my books. I'm clumsy and sorta weird myself, but I don't let that stop me from being myself. a lot of people always said that i'd be a loner when I first started uni. Look at me now. I'm one of the most social and recognized dudes on the campus.
I think it's cute. And deep down, awkward girls tend to be the most passionate. Get my wife to start talking about Harry Potter or something new in astronomy, it's the most empassioned and energetic deluge of words witnessed by man. When we met, she said maybe three sentences on our first date, and she was flustered the whole time. That, by the way, is downright adorable.
How can you be socially awkward? Isn't it always somehow every guy's fault every time? Say you trip over your untied shoelace. You yell at a random dude walking by, "Ugghh, that creepy dude united my shoelace so he could check me out." Or you never have anything interesting to say and can't hold a conversation, and you accuse the guy of being awkward when he is in reality talking at an unresponsive black hole. Yep, I just love those kinds of girls.
They are awesome! I believe I'm an understanding person and I also get socially awkward so I can relate. 😊😊😊
Thats cute... You are like a cute girl who is either a bit nervous of surrounding.. Or a bit scared of.. This is normal in everyone's life.. Just the levels are different.. Off course love to be around you
Social awkwardness isn't cute. I should know, because I'm a socially anxious, awkward and shy person. None of my mannerisms are cute. It irks me when people are like," Aw, she's shy." NO. It sucks. Those girls that act all shy and cute are usually faking it. O
We all weird in someway or another. I am social guy, but also socially awkward. The girl is not perfect, so am I. I guess, that one thing we would have in common.
The issue with socially awkward girls is... I can never tell if they like me and are nervous, or are bothered/annoyed by my presence.
A constant guessing game that is!
I do not have a problem with that girl.
Some people refer to me as Sheldon, so our dysfunctions might work well together.
Social awkwardness is a major hurdle for a guy, but it's at best a minor inconvenience if you're a woman. Guys mostly don't judge women for that kind of stuff.
Not my cup of tea, but most guys won't care or will even find it cute. But what could be a problem is that they won't notice you're interested in them.
I love socially awkward girls as I am socially awkward then we fuse into the ultimate ball of fuck up
I would say you still have just as many chances as the other girls do
No it is fineyou are perfectly fine 😊😊 these are only small things
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