3.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. For girls it is an easy way to get free meals.
And like other guys have said, this is one of the reasons why I am firmly against being expected to pay for the first date. It sets guys up for being used and the same girl who expects me to pay has likely spread her legs for free for other guys and if she's going to lose interest in me for not paying them she wasn't that interested in me anyways. Not paying is a good way to filter out both the girls who want to use you and the girls who really aren't that attracted to you.30 Reply
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+1 yWith losers yes. Usually attractive men on Tinder won't really take her out for dinner, they'll just invite her home, fuck her, and not spend $1 lol
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Asker+1 ylol unfortunately that's so true.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYou are either rather shameless (not necessarily a bad thing) or you need some help if ya can't afford food. Whichever it is, i guess it is a good way to get free food. But if it's not the latter, you should offer to either pay or split the bill every once in a while.
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Asker+1 yit's more because I'm shameless Lol
Opinion Owner+1 y😂 lmao!!! Fair enough.
You shouldn't use guys for their money (for food or anything else) unless you have something to offer as well. Be it more of your company or something you're both comfortable with. If you can't afford the meal then you obviously don't need it.
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+1 yYes then after your date is over and once you're in ur car driving back home text him "I catch meals, not feels, byeeee"
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Asker+1 y😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
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Yea, you can. Bring a taser or something and keep it concealed just in case he tries something you don't want him to though.
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Asker+1 yGood tip! Thanks! :)
Anonymous(30-35)+1 ylmao yes. I even tried that once even though I'm a dude. I just didn't make a move and waited for them to ask me out and lo and behold they actually paid. So if a guy can do it a woman can do it 100x more.
But I felt like a douche, not the least because it felt so unnatural to let her pay on a date. xD Don't do it, using people is never okay.10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yIt works for the date and ditch guy who screws women like you over.
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+1 yIt is a good way but it's also risky.
So it's a humble request don't do it and better you earn your meals.20 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not all dates will buy you dinner. You might be able to get some free meals, but you will probably have to hang out with a creepy guy at the very least.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySure I guess. I mean, if you lack dignity that is...
00 Reply859 opinions shared on Dating topic. I would rather pay for a meal than sit through a weird date! But I admit I would feel differently if I was having money trouble and couldn't afford to eat.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYes babe, yes it is. Try to make him take you out to a fancy place and if he's a cheapskate who only wants coffee block his number. Good luck. <3
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That's good and bad advice at the same time :)
Opinion Owner+1 y@Lostsoulman how so? :)
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I guess I always thought first date was supposed to be coffee as it's something quick just to get an idea of a person.
It hasn't really worked out for me, so maybe I should start doing steak dinners or something.
I may get used for these dinners, but at least I have a better shot at the girl getting to know me.
The issue I see is that date takes at least 1.5-2 hours vs a 15 min coffee date.
So wouldn't the girl be paying with time?
Opinion Owner+1 y@Lostsoulman why has coffee not worked out so far for you? No second dates?
+1 yjust this..
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+1 yAnd this is why I don't buy women anything until I've already been fucking them for a few weeks. Then they might get breakfast.
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+1 yYou better be pretty hot if you expect guys to be buying you meals on a first date... why do you think coffee dates are so popular? Men don't want to buy free meals for freeloaders.
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+1 yYes, but eventually one of your victims will snap and you're going to end up in his freezer.
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+1 yIf i went on date from Tinder I'd have no problem
giving a girl a meal and i even give buy her grocery
order i don't like to see people go hungry.00 Reply325 opinions shared on Dating topic. You'll get a free coffee from me, if you want more I can point you to the nearest homeless shelter.
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+1 yIf that I'd the type of woman you want to be. I don't use tinder myself. Too many sluts, male and female out there.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo, but it's a good way to get into trouble. Guys use tinder to fuck. Not to get scammed.
10 Replythis is the best thing i've seen on here
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+1 yyeah there are lots many desperate guys out there everywhere.
00 Reply if you're sad enough to the point where you can't afford to get yourself a dinner, chances are guys aren't going to be super interested
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYou cold hearted... self absorbed little turd... why would you do that you fool...
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Asker+1 y💋 💋 💋
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yLol can be true but wow you are looking for meals only?
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yLol, yeah probably unless he doesn't pay on the first date because of feminism then you're out of luck but that's using guys
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySomething bad is going to happen to you doing that. And frankly, whatever it is, you have it coming.
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+1 ythis is exactly why i never pay on a first date ;)
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+1 yYea but you might get raped for that free meal.
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+1 yThis is why I don't pay for her on the first date.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo.. Being a female that's 7 or above should work alone.
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We all know tinder is free sex00 Replywhat the actual fuck 😂😂😂
30 Reply383 opinions shared on Dating topic. you go on dates for the free meals?
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+1 yYes, I use it a lot for that purpose...
00 ReplyYes. That's why I use it
00 ReplyWow that's really fucked up
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySure, why not 😊
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+1 yI guess so.
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+1 ywow you are a bitch
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Asker+1 yfor you always, sweetheart.
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you basically go on dates to get free food... who the FUCK does that
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Girls on a budget duh
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@Ladyslipper and how do guys on budget do it?
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Wait for a girl to offer to pay
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@Ladyslipper how shallow are you? xD
Asker+1 yI make good money, I just enjoy free stuff, who doesn't?
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