A shoulder to cry on really becomes?

[harvest]

Does it really? I want to hear from all of you. Girls, guys - what do you think about this matter. Is it possible for a guy friend, whos just a shoulder to cry on to become a dick to ride on one day?
Possible? Not possible? Not likely? Very likely? WHat's your opinion on the matter?

No, it could never happen.

It might happen, especially if a guy she's dating is a jerk...

I could happen, especially if she's a bit loose...

Yes, it could totally happen.

[BrittBratt2416]

lol no.. if that was the case a lot of guys would be out the friend zone. The guy just ends up being a rebound because the the girl is in her feelings and she's vulnerable. She'll realize what she has done and it will be a grave mistake to her, she'll tell you that this was a misunderstanding and that you hope you guys can still remain friends or the friendship ends all together, or "mr. brokeherheart" comes back into the picture, apologizes for everything and she goes back running to him cause she's still in love with the dude.

[harvest]

Well, even in your scenario, a shoulder that you cried on became a dick to ride on... Just not for long.

[BrittBratt2416]

Not always. there's plenty of women who have cried on a guys shoulders and still didn't ride them..

[existing_not_living]

I mean, it's possible. Anything's possible. But it depends on the kind of friendship dynamic they have and the people involved in general. I have many guy friends and if this were true, well, all I'd have were f*ck buddies then. So, it's possible, but it doesn't mean it will always happen.

[xMiaxBuerx]

I agree, because this happened to me way too many times and it ruins everything.

[harvest]

you agree with what? that it could happen?

[xMiaxBuerx]

yup!

[Phoenix98]

A shoulder to cry on really becomes?

It becomes a wet soggy shoulder and I have to keep changing shirts.

[rommmmm]

Its possible but that usually happens because she's feeling vulnerable and maybe just looking for a rebound.

[Anonymous]

It is possible.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

It's very possible.

[Anonymous]

i hate that concept

[harvest]

what concept? that girl can sleep with jer friend when her boyfriend is a jerk? and why?