Why do some men like trashy girls?

[Anonymous]

Girls who swear and have babies at 19, work dead end jobs, are on welfare, over classy girls?

[LaFemmeFatale]

Maybe because most classy girls act to be respectable instead of loved while most non classy girls act so that they'll be loved? Maybe they're more lovable, I don't know. I have a cousin, She had 12 boyfriends and she's only 16 now. Guys confess her love all the time, they fight for her and so. She's not classy at all but she's cute and lovable.

[Wonderer89]

Probably because they don't come off as judgmental assholes like the so called "classy" ones using this definition.
To look down on others like that and group that sub selection into "trashy" shows a lack of kindness and compassion which is a truly ugly trait that very few men would want their partners to embody.

[linds34]

Not everybody perceives all those things as negative qualities, plus those girls each probably have other good qualities too.

[lobate]

Exactly one of my better friends probably fits that description, but she is personable, fun as hell, and definitely does everything she can for her kid. I don't understand how that's trashy at all.

[AbleLearner]

Honestly, "classy" is over-rated. A lot of women in this category are "asexual" and ridiculously hard to please, won't even respond to "hello" from a guy, etc. No thanks.

Middle class women believe they "deserve" an upper class man, and if the woman makes 100k per year she's holding out for a millionaire.

[SwedishTruth]

Some men can't get better. Some men don't know they can do better. Some men settle. Some men find it attractive. Some men see them as better sex partners. Last but not least most men understand that they should avoid them like the plague.

[lobate]

So the three things you listed would not really influence my opinion on dating someone. People make mistakes, swearing or not is a cultural thing, and I could care less whether your job makes big time cash or not. It's just if you like her or not, is there a real connection, can you have fun, and can you relate to them. I guess my definition of trashy is different.

[BronzedAdonis]

this

[JohnDoe3000]

I don't think many men like those girls. They just put up with it to get sex if she's hot, or they're just as trashy themselves and can't get any better (or think they can't get any better). Plus, trashy girls are more forward than classy girls: they actually put themselves out there, none of that self-sabotaging "I'm shy so I freeze/run away when he talks to me" bullshit that classy girls seem to excel at.

[genericname85]

i don´t see anybody "liking" any of those features... except the "swearing" part. i generally have more sympathy for people who occasionally cuss and swear. cause to me they seem more genuine and honest than people who control their emotions all the time.

[BronzedAdonis]

Say what you will about those girls but they keep it real and they're likely down to earth. Not everyone's life conforms to the middle-class white picket fence narrative.

Just because you look down on them doesn't make them bad people or unworthy necessarily.

[AdamKar]

if you throw that much loaded emotional language you can make anything look bad.

"Spoilt, upper class, materialistic, fake, plastic, snobby rich girls". see what I mean?

[Atreyu]

they don't know they can do better.
same reason some girls date trash guys

[TheUglyMonk]

Do you really want to be in relationship with those sort of guys?
Thank god their leaving you alone.

[TheUglyMonk]

They're*

[Anonymous]

Guys like pretty girls. If you're ugly being 'classy' whatever that means will do nothing for you lol

[desidoll]

True 😂

[activemyhrt]

tbh those girls as much crap as they have to deal with are most likely less shallow and let him do his thing.

[has-a-key]

umm maybe some people like people for who they are not how much money they have.

[Anonymous]

behaviour I guess. trashy girls are bitches but honest most of the time

[wankiam]

because they are real

[backtoblackkkk]

They don't like trashy girls.

[Pomegranate139]

Because they are easy

[emerald77]

Because they're easy to get.

[hellacray]

Ewww what the hell. That's not attractive at all.

[Anonymous]

Because they are trash cans

[WeirdoWerdo]

I don't know... I wouldn't sink that low...

[Anonymous]

So you think the classy type?

[Chico_brah]

We don't?