I used to date this kind of girl exclusively. Here's why:
Blinded by lust. These girls are hot, and show off their assets very well. Very easy to become infatuated, have your head up in the clouds, and not pay attention to any red flags. Of course, they know this.
Fake seems real. They adapt their personalities to fit into every situation as it suits them. You can't tell what is fake or real. They can act nice just like that.
Confident and aggressive. They come on strong, and don't hold anything back. It's very easy to have sex with them right away - because they'll initiate it most of the time.
Sexual manipulation. The tool they use to get men to do their bidding. Manipulation and deception in general is very common. They have it down.
Hero mentality. Wanting to save them of their troubles; viewing them as afraid, misunderstood, etc. Making up lots of excuses for everything they do wrong, and who they are.
Listening to what they claim - instead of paying attention to who they are. Believing them to be victims. They all claim to be nice girls finishing last. Not wanting to be another jerk, we act nice - not realizing they're jerks themselves.
Challenge aspect. Wanting to be the one to change them. Wanting what you can't have.
Very interesting and informative
this should've been best answer at least the guy was being honest.
'Always' is never a good word to use. BOYS may go for these types of girls, but men do not.
It seems like you had hope in a guy and you've been let down.
Besides, these are the types of guys that you don't want looking for you, right?
A gentlewoman deserves a gentleman, and vice versa.
You'll find that guy you long for, you simply have to love yourself and hope that you'll find each other.
yeah I guess I shouldn't have said always
Yes, same for girls... GIRLS date "bad boys", women pursue good guys.
I think the proper term for gentlewoman...is a "Lady"
You are completely right. Guys go to the trashy girls because they are easy. They aren't man enough to go for a respectable girl. Trashy girls are easier to get into bed than other girls. They are ditzy and easy to figure out.
Guys go for these girls, but they do not stay with them. If you really want a deep answer to this question read the book, "why men marry bitches." This book changed my entire relationship with men. It explains how women who try to be the stereotypical dream woman or what men want always end up alone.
Trust me. Guys are not spending quality time with those trashy girls. They are not taking those trashy girls home to meet their parents. They are not doing anything with those girls except thinking about how they are going to get them naked. And that's it.
If you feel like your surrounded by boys that only go for trashy girls, do yourself a favor and ditch the little boys and start hanging out with men. A guy who will go for a easy score over a good girl doesn't have to balls to take the risk of getting turned down.
Bottom line, those guys are p******. Trust me, there are real men who aren't cowards out there. Try hanging out with different people.
i agree! lol
amother eg of a woman putting other women down. I have never heard of a man call other guys "trashy" or "whore" or "skank" because they behave in a manner not considered totally "respectable" ...No woman is a skank. if she wants to live her life in a certain way its her choice. and if you don't like her way of living its your problem and you are insecure that's why her attitude bothers u
guys call other guys names like jerks, a**holes and players... girls who put out easily are NOT the kind that get taken home to Mom... they are the kind that get dumped as soon as the jerk\a**hole\player gets bored and finds a new plaything.
What a bunch of crap really...who the hell do you think you are? you are not princess here, the only princess here is Kate Middleton, you are just a peasant girl nothing else, you are just like every other girl out there, don't think so high of yourself because you are nothing. If it was the princess of Sweden then I would go through all the harship, and average joe with a foul mouth? pleaseeeeeeeeeeee
wtf! she has just as much right to express her opinion as you do!
The majority of women will not take the risk of getting turned down, either. They won't even approach, actually. So you have no legs to stand on when you criticize guys for that.
This only got best answer because it's what the QA wanted to hear: an echo of her own opinion.
I am just making her realize that she isn't as important as she thinks she is. She thinks that guys should go to mars and back so she can finally fell in love with her, take her out to dates, put up with her nagging, put up with her games, go incredible lengths for her to accept him as a boyfriend. pffffff please child, what else can she offer to me, more than companionship and sex? nothing else really and that is somethign I could get from any girl anyways. She is just an average joe...
Agreed! You got thumbed down from men who don't like being called out and girls who don't like coming face to face with reality! :D
girl power, that's stupid lol just because a woman doesn't agree with another woman's lifestyle doesn't mean she's insecure and yes there are a sh*t load of women who are skanks
JackSparrow you don't even know who this girl is lol shut the f*** up talking all that sh*t! you are not coming off as powerful or effective or anything lol you just look like a sensitive, whiny man who got his feelings hurt so now you wanna talk sh*t and attack a stranger!
obviously not all guy go for that type of girls, majority do and that majority of guys are lazy, do not feel like putting work talking to girls that are not like that, not ready for a relationship and want to have fun and quick fun, cause face it its much easier to talk to a player b.c. he is fun and outgoing and doesn't give a sh*t, than to a nice guy who plans your dates and does cute stuff making you feel special etc. I don't want to be in a relationship or hurt guys feelings, I do what guys do I'll talk to a guy who is well "player" I have zero expectations of having him around for long term, so probably how guys think... however, older guys get this changes, after age say 27 a guy is so busy with his work, and career and life no time to play around they look for quality. so basically know what YOU want and that's what YOU will get. IF I want a nice guy I go for a nice guy, if I want just fun I go for someone who has the same mentality. its a pretty simple concept
Because many guys your age tend to think with the wrong head lol (no offense guys but it's true however, notice I said many and not all). The slutty, trashy girls are quicker to put out than girls like you. DO NOT become skanky just to increase the number of suitors that you attract. The guys that the skanky girls get are NOT the guys you want to attract, trust me on that. Boys will chase the skanks, men look for classy ladies, so stay classy and when the time is right, the right man will find you.
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Booty call. They are cheap, easy and reliable source of getting sex. But don't get me wrong, they're not a good relationship material.
Besides, it's way far from being "always".
You see, not many guys are that happy to spend truckload of time hanging out with a girl, take care of her, satisfy her, entertain her etc just to get that boner in his pants fixed. So they use those girls to satisfy their sexual lust, that's all. But don't worry, they're just a cheap f*ck material, nothing much. Nobody dates those girls for long.
What is your concern about a guy going for a "slutty fake" girl because they are easy? Are you upset that "real" girls are missing out on opportunities to be treated poorly by a guy who only wants sex from you, nothing more?
I guess I would be more on board with this rant if it made sense. I personally would have no interest in getting the type of attention a girl gets by being easy, as you put it. I don't even fault guys for wanting sex. We want what we want and if a girl wants to just jump into bed with a horny guy, well that is her right to do so. It is my right to choose what works for me and only spend time with guys who fit the bill. Same with you. So why not leave the guys who are looking for casual sex to get it where they can? Enjoy the attention of guys who have other things on their mind.
Guys like both types of girls...listen...I'm in my early 40's, been married twice with girlfriends in between. Most men believe the IDEAL woman is believe it or not..."a lady in the street and a freak in the bed"...yes from the song...its true. I am married now and my wife is a complete lady outside our bedroom...but in the bedroom...she treats me to the sluttiest, freakiest behavior that I could ever imagine...doing things that only dirty girls could think of...but guess what...she does it for me as so I don't stray to real sluts on the street, and because she loves me. Be slutty for him in the bedroom..dress slutty for him when it just you and him going out..there are many many things you can do...and also be a classy lady treated with respect...
Basically..most will always go for a slutty type woman...its bread into us.
not true
Well obviously, they're better at sex which makes them better human beings. Actually you got a lot on it, men that are attractive, nice, and smart tend to do this because they want to help and they think that it'll work. Other times, it's just for the sex that doesn't take any work to get. Men go through this until they grow out of it or they learn that there are girls that are worth much more than the casual sex and the fake. Love is a war, and you got fight to win it. Good luck if you're going against those slutty girls, B.
God I am tired of these questions
"Why do guys go for ugly girls instead of the pretty ones? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys only care about looks? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys like bitches? It pisses me off!"
"Why do guys want virgins? It pisses me off!"
It all comes down to:
WHY DO GUYS GO FOR ANY GIRL OTHER THAN ME? IT PISSES ME OFF!
lol. bullseye!
Haha too true... +1
lol there is some truth to that but that doesn't take away from the honesty in her question
Best answer OMG
Well those are good questions & this is girlsaskguys.com So if there is a question bothering us we should have the right to answer it. Don't get mad at the questions we girls ask because we don't understand you guys.
Wildcat is right in a way, but the turth is that "trashy" girls are just easier and less of a headache to deal with. Trashy girls don't play games, they don't play hard to get, they don't make you jealous, they don't ignore your calls on purpose. They are pretty forward and go for what they like, they dont't wait until the "prince in the white horse" comes to their rescue, they just go for what they like and they go with the flow. Something that "good girls" should definetely have.
Why do girls always go for douche bags who treat them like crap and then complain that all guys are jerks and why do girls always put all guys into one category?
haha: all the girls can go for the douche bags and then the sweet, kind ones will be left...
:)
Just as all guys can go for the skanks and then all the sweet innocent ones will be left. lol :)
Lol That was a really good comment. Habakkuk,you're a cool dude.
Because they know tht they can't get into the good girl pants! Don't worry about those jerks,just be yourself and keep respecting yourself.I've many slutty friends who got many attention from guys but well who f***ing care tho,they keep changing boyfriend because they can't find the real guy for themselves after been dumped by those guys.Anyway thts their body and its their right...Im sure you will find the guy tht really respect yourself as much as you do...have a nice day;)
not all guys are like that...
on the other hand I see a lot of beautiful, nice, intelligent, perfect girls go with absolute jerks...and absolutely ignore guys like me...
I guess nice guys who really are honest and faithful seem to be too boring...and so the circle of everlasting pain begins.
Because the "good girls" like you are always bitching about other women. Being a bitch is a very unattractive quality.
I'd rather date someone who is 'skanky' than someone who is as judgmental as you.
stfu I'm not judqemental! and I'm not bitching about other women I'm just asking a simple question! but if you want to see a bitch ill show you one!
fine maybe it was judgmental but its true and I never said I'm better than them... and my own failure? wtf? who says I'm a failure?
can you be my dad?
wtf?
perfect comment.
don't judge all guys because a few will go for the 'skanks'.
She wasn't saying women are slutty. She's specifically saying why do girls go for skanks. If a girl is obviously a skank, there's nothing wrong than calling her what she is. And there are many skanks out there so by her saying why do you go for skanks, she literally means skanky girls. Not just every girl that we don't like, that doesn't make her a skank.
She's not being a bitch, she's just expressing her opinion. If someone automatically says that someone is bitching just because they're expressing their opinion then that person just needs to expand their vocabulary. You honestly just sound like you're getting defensive because maybe this applies to yoyu
what do you mean by "trashy " girl. just because she is enjoying a lot of male attention and does not behave in a so called "respectable" manner it means she is not a good person?...or she is evil and should not be liked by guys? I don't think so. and even if guys are after them for sex then fine... its their problem...what are all this complaints for?
I prefer skanky girls over "nice girls". Skanky girls are less complicated. Unlike "nice girls" that have a long list of requirements a guy must possess to be datable, skank girls give you an opportunity as long as they find you attractive. Moreover, when skank girls are ready to settle down, they are not judgmental over a guy's past. On the other hand, when "nice girls" want to settle down, they are very judgmental to a guy's past. So, in conclusion skank girls are nicer than "nice girls".
Skank girls are nicer than nice girls? Hahahaha that's because neither of you are attatched enough to each other because you both just wanna screw.
You're a great visual aid to the QA's point :)
Why do girls always make false generalizations about guys on here?
i avoid trashy girls at all costs.. I'm not like that
not all guys but most guys
they do that because your picture creeps them out...
The real issue here is that you're judging all guys by the guys who want a quick lay and nothing more. Guys who want a quick lay and that's it will of course go for the girl who will give it up with no objections or no questions asked. But not the guys who want relationships.
I hate to say it, but most guys are the way she described.
Not all guys go for trashy/skanky girls even though the majority of girls now a days are. I would rather find a ride or die girl, but are hard to find. I think the girls who don't know what they want and are still slutty and fake are still young even if they are 25.
That's almost like asking why do girls like jerks? Its because we see that bad girl image and are impressed by the looks. But once we go out and get to know this person a little better, we realize that we don't want to be with that person because they are very liable to cheat. Hope this helps.
Things are not always what they seem to be , you can't put girls or guys in a category , people have many sides in their personality and there are "pretty ones who have respect for themselves and know what they want" who only have respect for them self's and not so much for you , even if you respect and try to be the best that you would possibly be able to be , just to have her smile while looking at you and have her appreciation .
Yeah, it really sucks for us virgins who love our virginity and want to save it for the right guy because most guys would leave us or cheat on us for some other girl just because she would suck his d*** and spread her legs.
Cause slutty girls offer things "classy" girls don't. First off sluts are easy, so there's none of the stupid games that most girls like to play. Second, sluts are fun cause you don't feel the need to actually talk or connect with them. Finally let's be really honest sluts are great cause usually know what they're doing in the sack, the same cannot be said of nice girls.
The... uhhh I guess moral (or questionable moral) of this response is basically sluts are more fun. Too many "nice" girls are yawn inducingly boring, there's a reason Tinder is so popular and here's a hint it's not because of the prudes who "aren't there for a hookup."
Hope this helps. Now go out there and be less boring.
I'm not so sure they do. The girl I had the biggest crush on throughout most of my high school years was a vadectorian, star athlete, and is now in medical school. Neither trashy nor skanky.
"Girls like that are attractive, but don't get asked out."
She's married now, so she must have gotten asked out at some point.
And by "vadectorian" I obviously meant "valedictorian". I didn't catch the typo.
They are more exciting. I am not attracted to the plain Jane type. "I don't do that" or "I won't wear that" are my biggest turn offs. I am not attracted to women who say that. I am far from alone. I have a good job, and I treat women with the utmost respect, by the way. Figured you'd appreciate an honest answer for a change.
I could say the same for girls... A lot of them date trashy guys.
I don't, I want a girl like Elizabeth Shue's character in The Saint (with Val Kilmer 1997?)
Dr. Emma Russell, damn, still remember the character name
I feel in love with her and her character when I saw that movie
because they're not afraid to approach or make it clear to a guy that she's interested. they're not trashy or skanky, they're confident and self assured. try it sometimes instead of bitching about them
Exactly what I'm saying shaun. She didn't say what a skank was, so you jumped to conclusions as to what she meant. She didn't say a girl who persues a guy is a skank. But like shaun says if there's a girl going buck wild and going into rooms with guys she has no connections with and she just screws them, yeah she's a whore.
why is a girl with a high sex drive a skank? who are any of you to judge? I'm not saying I agree with it, I'm just saying it's her life, she's confident, she goes after what she wants. what is the big deal? people only put down others (like QA and you guys for that matter) when they're feeling insecure about themselves.
We don't, not even most of us. You probably just don't notice the guys that don't, they're invisible to you.
Not ALL guys do that. Don't generalize.
The majority of guys in your age group are just looking for sex and don't really care about anything else. It's unfortunate.
Skanky birds are alright for 1 thing... as you said they're easy!
I'd never be in a relationship with one but they're good girls 'to dip'... they're easy
Answered your own question mate :)
lmfao at your hair cut!
It isn't me but cheers :)
I wouldn't be stupid enough to have this done :)
um, I don't go after girls like that, don't just assume all guys do either, that's ridiculous. I love girls who have respect for themselves but really, I don't see too many of them.
most guys do
I don't know :S there are far better girls out there.
Girls always go for the douchebags. It goes both ways. I hate trashy girls, but even the non trashy ones go for the douches. That's just how it works I guess
Some girls want sex just as bad as men do. So f*ck off. It's not your problem.
lol you know it's true. that's why you got so defensive
no you are sexist and he got mad at you
Guys go for slutty girls just as often as girls go for the "bad" boy.
Yes really.
No way, "nice guys" love the "skank" and will devote their entire lives to her because they like the idea that they might get sex. And judging by sites like this, there are a lot of "nice guys" out there.
^A lot of good guys want relationships. I'm not looking for a girl to get sex, I'm looking for a girl because I want to be with her, commitment... Sex can wait. In fact, I would never pursue a skanky girl.
Because they are awesome & fun. I've met some pretty hot slutty girls & believe me, they are as real as you can get & knew exactly what she wanted. What I don't get is why do women even care if guys decide to go for that type.
Cuz all they want is sex.
So true. Guys get upset when girls view them as horny pigs who can't control their sex drives, yet most of them just wanna f*ck around until they grow the f*ck up and are ready for a seriosu, committed relationship. I don't care what these guys say. It's true.
Because they are straight forward & don't play f***en mind games. They also know what they want.
That's not true at all! I wouldn't go for a girl like that
it could be because the "slutty fake girls" have something that guys like, that they can't see in you. or a matter of preference.
I am not interested in women like that at all. So not 'all' guys like that.
I dont understand how a girl who spreads her legs wins, Im honest, loyal and a sweet girl and still the whore wins!
Totally understand you!
because usually they are the hottest, good-looking ones
You are very judgmental hun.
Because they're easy!
They are better looking.
They don't always stay. Though
PREEEEEEEACH! :D
That is an interesting question.
I agree. I think the people who are getting defensive and attacking her are just pissy because something she said applies to them
why do you respond to every single answer?
I was really bored, Eddie lol and it wasn't every single answer
why girls always judge us that we don't do always
They only want one thing
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