Why does my boyfriend add random girls on snapchat?

[Calixx]

If he sees the snap in their bio on insta/twitter and they live somewhat near us, he will add them. It's weird to me.

[Yes-Man]

Why would anybody add someone geographically close to him on snapsh*t? Another mystery of the world...

He's probably gonna try to hook up with some of them if given a chance. Duh.

[Calixx]

He doesn't know them...

[Yes-Man]

He can get to know them, after adding them, no?

[Calixx]

Why would he need to/want to if he has a gf?

[Yes-Man]

I don't want to be rude, so I'll put this simple: male psychology differs from female psychology. They can easily get bored of their partners (not everyone, but majority of guys), doesn't matter if the partner is friends with benefits, girlfriend or even a WIFE. And they start looking for a new one. Reasons may vary from one-night-stand to a full fledged relationship so I can only guess for his reasons, but if I were you, I would be cautious.

[thisguy24]

There is nothing wrong with looking a sexy or good looking women

[Calixx]

Yes there is.

[thisguy24]

Why?

[Calixx]

Okay. What if your gf/wife was adding random men on snapchat?

[thisguy24]

At the end of the day, I'm still fucking my girlfriend

[Calixx]

lol, where is the respect for your partner in relationships !!!

[thisguy24]

I have full respect for her and she does for me. But you are worried about snapchat and nonsense and in reality. Who gives a shit. In the end I come home to her and she come home to me.

[Calixx]

What if they are flirting/interacting with those people on snapchat?

[thisguy24]

I trust my girlfriend and vice versus. It's playful flirting not a big deal, plus it would break our agreement.
Have you asked your boyfriend straight up why he adds these women?

[Calixx]

He says to me "idk, I add random people all the time."

I just don't understand the need. I don't add random guys. I don't need to. I don't want to.

[thisguy24]

If he can give you valid reason then maybe he is hiding something. If it bothers you this much just tell him

[Calixx]

I did. He told me I am trying to control him and who he interacts with.

[thisguy24]

How old is your boyfriend?

[Calixx]

He is 24. I am 20.

[thisguy24]

Tell him to stop acting like a douchebag and grow up. Your not controlling him or who he interacts with. You just don't like it and feel that it's not good for the relationship. If he can't understand that then he's an idiot

[Calixx]

He has added random girls on social media since the beginning. He would go onto random girls' profiles and like their photos too. I don't understand why.

[thisguy24]

Yeah he's a dick. Maybe he is looking , I don't know. I guarantee you though if you would do the same thing he is doing, he would get super jealous and start asking you the same questions.

[Calixx]

I feel that he is sometimes. I feel that he is interested in other women, and uses social media as a way to gauge their interest in him as well.
He told me he isn't looking to cheat.
But, I often feel my self-esteem plummeting.
He changed his tinder photos once before, and updated his bio. He told me "I didn't use the app. I deleted it right after I changed my photos. I did it for fun. I wanted to show off"

Then he followed some girl who he claims is from school, but I don't know. There isn't really a back story. He added her to Snapchat and I saw he added her best friend on insta too.

He likes photos of tons of girls.

Some people say it's just social media, but, how am I not supposed to feel jealous?

[thisguy24]

No you are completely in the right and should be concerned. If you guys have been dating for awhile then there is no reason for him to still have tinder. Sorry to break it to you young lady but he is looking , he might not touch but he is definitely trying for something

[thisguy24]

So what are you going to do or think about?

[Alohav]

Why did my boyfriend add a random girl on snapchat and then they chat a lot even though they not flirting and share personal problems with each other?

[JenDB]

Because he want's to be social?
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Nope he just want nudes
-XOXO Jen

[Svennedude2]

Why do you think? He's obviously looking for a backup plan for when things are go to shit between you two, or even worse, he's trying to replace you.

[Svennedude2]

going*

[zappzoe]

My brother oogles girls all the time but he's faithful to the one he got. Just make sure to tell him to give you some attention also or you will be hurt. Or try not to look at girls around you.

[salbin]

Before answering this question.. First tell me how your relationship go on? Usually chit chat or anything more?

[Calixx]

We have been bf/gf for a year. Our relationship is more than just chit-chat. We talk about deep and serious matters, and we spend our free time together.

[salbin]

I can say he need sex

[Calixx]

I give himself.

[Calixx]

I Give him sex *

[salbin]

Does he simply go for random girls or try to talk, try to spend more time in texting them?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes it's weird he adds girls from Snapchat from your area
i would be asking him questions instead of being left in the dark
about things ,.

[Anonymous]

After a few days things might be like "Eeenie meanie miney moe caught you cheating with that hoe"

[anametouse]

Sounds sketch, I would say he is just an extrovert being a social butterfly but that would be inaccurate, more like, he is unzipping his fly for those girls.

[zeussuez]

If that's the case, he isn't getting enough from you.

[Anonymous]

All girls be like "omfz he's totally going to cheat on me!!!"

[roy_ricky09]

Even after knowing it you still consider/address him as boyfriend?

[shubhamchachapara]

It's ok if he imagine those sexy girls while having sex with you

[Nice222]

Because they are hot.

[Calixx]

I'm hotter.

[Nice222]

Of course you are that's why he stays with you.

[CT_CD]

he's gotta have some backups

[BrianMerritt]

They are other options.

[Anonymous]

he's your boyfriend... not dead

[Calixx]

Why does he have to engage with random girls around the city?

[Calixx]

He can admire someone on the street.

[Calixx]

I don't go adding random people.

[Opinion Owner]

He's your boyfriend, not dead

[Calixx]

He's an Idiot

[Opinion Owner]

He's your boyfriend, not dead!

[Calixx]

He cheating lol

[Calixx]

Like all men do

[Opinion Owner]

Am I, all men... do you see me cheating?

He's your boyfriend.. not dead

[Calixx]

I don't know what you do. I assume if you act like my boyfriend, your idea of loyalty and commitment is different and concerning...

[Calixx]

He can admire women in a magazine. He doesn't need to add them and engage with them. Does anyone know what loyalty means?

[Opinion Owner]

He's your boyfriend.. not dead. How many times do i need to tell you that

[Opinion Owner]

"I would like to go to a strip club. I think it would be cool. If my boyfriend wants to go, I'd let him and ask to come lol"

You're upset with him snapping women, but, you'd take him to a strip club?

[Calixx]

Yes. Because it turns out. He was actually cheating on me with those women.

If it’s ME and him at a strip club, i see what’s going on. Snaphatting women is an a more intimate thing.

[Alohav]

I agree with you girl.

[Alohav]

so you tryna say he is her boyfriend and he can do anything he wants? so what is the point of having a relationship if he gives attention to random girls.

[pooper89]

Wants to cheat

[Calixx]

And he did :/

[pooper89]

Sorry to hear that

[Triggering]

Bc he likes booty, duh

[Revolver_Ocelot]

because he doesn't like you very much

[turdchaser]

He wants to bang them

[lumos]

He's a hoe.

[OohRah0621]

Maybe he's thirsty for pics or some shit.

[Anonymous]

he's got his options opened

[theocray19]

Trying to get nudes

[Wingedz]

For them tits

[disgustingweebtrash]

Why not?

[Calixx]

Why yes?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Do you trust him?

[Calixx]

I don't.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Then your relationship will not work together

[Calixx]

I don't see why he feels the need to add random girls?

[Calixx]

Why trust someone that does that?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Have you talked to him about it?

[Calixx]

I have. He tells me "trust my judgment".
How do you trust someone's judgment when they do peculiar things that can signal messages to other people?