Boyfriend has a bunch of random girls on Snapchat, and Snaps them fairly often. Should I ask?

[Anonymous]

Whoever they are, most of them aren't on his Facebook and he's okay with me looking at his phone, even conversations because he has nothing to hide from me.

But Snapchat, random girls? Conversations disappear and not having them added on Facebook (as a very active user) seems fishy.

So should I ask now? I'm obviously insecure, but this seems odd.

[bizzz]

It doesn't hurt to ask. If he had nothing to hide, and seems like it then he's alright. Don't get insecure if your boyfriend had girls talking to him. I'm in a relationship and when girls talk to me or comment on my snap story, I keep it short, boring, and dull. No flirting involved and no fishiness. Most of the girls on my Snapchat are not on my Facebook either. I have family and personal stuff on FB and random Snapchat girls aren't important enough to see that. If you trust him then you guys will be alright. It depends on his response when you ask him. You can tell if he's hiding something. But messages are messages. It doesn't matter who it's from, it matters what is being said and how they are acting

[ImMackFreeze]

I mean, why even have social media in the first place?

[sidvt]

I don't think it's a good idea leave ur insecurity if not it will destroy ur relationship