Do you still have feelings for your ex?

Question

If you do how do you kinda get them to ask you out again?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I kind of have a weird opinion to this question, so sorry if this confuses you.

I've been in a relationship with the best guy ever for about four and a half months, although we've always been friends and fairly fond of each other. He recently told me that he's liked me ever since we met, which was about ten years ago. His love for me has survived the cooties phase, the "girls are gross", and the "girls are actually kind of hot" phase.

I know for a fact that if/when the breakup occurs, I won't be the one to break up with him. I don't think I could ever do that to anybody even if they were the biggest player ever. I'm so sensitive and I'd never be able to live with myself if I were to break someone's heart.

I KNOW I will be devastated when the breakup happens. I KNOW I'll still have feelings for this amazing guy who I get to call my boyfriend. I KNOW I won't date for a while after the breakup.

Part of me hopes that there's not going to be a breakup or a fight, but reality is reality and that's life. Shit goes down and people change. The perfect relationship to me is what I have now. It most likely won't be the same in ten years.

I know I'll still have long lasting feelings for my future ex, I'm not one to fall out of love.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes I do. I'm angry at him. Angry for how he handled the break up, how he behaved after our split, how he rubbed off his "new girlfriend" to my face only two weeks after we stopped dating. I'm angry at him for trying to manipulate and control me when I wasn't his anymore, how he refuses to let me move on and tries to get me thinking about him and to show him I still care. I'm angry at him for trying to make me jealous when I'm not the jealous type, for the fact that he's still talking about "us" as a thing in the future and flirting with me, even though he now has a new relationship he's supposed to be happy about, I'm angry at him for making me confused and sad, for cyber stalking me, for getting jealous about anything I do, for trying to see me without actually asking if I want to see him and for doing it all behind his now-girlfriend's back. I'm angry at him for the fact that I do still care, I do still want to be with him and I'm angry at myself for the same reason. I know better, so why do I still feel this way.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Nope, not at all. I don't have any negative feelings towards him and I wish him the best in life but I am glad to be out of that relationship, I'm much happier now.

In my opinion, an ex is an ex for a reason. If it didn't work out the first time, what makes you think it would work out again? I understand you may still have feelings for that person but you have to be rational too. If the relationship ended, then clearly there was an issue there. Has anything changed? If not, it's unlikely that it will work out the second time around.

Pepefeliblu · Accepted Answer

Well you never forget an Ex, you just get over them. To make myself clear: all the stuff you had it's not gonna dissappear magically, and it shouldn't. Cause it makes you a better person. But of course, you gotta let them go and continue. If you feel like you didn't try your best and you both deserve a second chance maybe you should ask first. To take the initiative doesn't make you desperate or "an easy one". If you are not confident enough maybe you can befriend them first. Make a fresh start, now the things that brought you together in the first place might take a role and bright you both together once more. Yet again, if you don't remember what made you split up in the first place then that can happen to, so be aware of that!

jimmy30 · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry but exes are for a reason so even if I did have feelings for an ex I wouldn't go back out with her for many reasons eg the trust would be broken or I'd be wondering if they're seeing someone behind my back etc

ffsxx · Answer

I still love him. We're still friends. I want him to tell me he's going to make a real effort for me so we can try again but I know realistically I have to move on. I'm giving an effort.

Fitness-Fanatic · Answer

No. I moved on long ago. After a relationship ends , my feelings fade quickly and I move forward with my life. I don't hold onto something that I put behind me

LaFemmeFatale · Answer

Nah I don't have feelings for anyone from the past. I have memories and feelings about this memories but I don't love them anymore. What's in past should be left in the past.

austinottom · Answer

I severely still have feelings for my ex yet it kind of is hard for my situation not too.

We were going to elope and explore.

Yet a week after we planned the secret marriage without parental consent she couldn't handle the world for much longer and so she committed suicide.

Still a year and a half later and I can't get her body out of my mind as she was swinging in the barn.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I do. Disgust is the first one as I found out he is a porn addict. And found out he has 4 fuckbuddies all over 30 and with kids, and he pays to watch the low quality fucktard Felicia Vox to jerk off. I literally puke to the fact that I dated him for 7 months.

HOAAH · Answer

Once in a while i would think about them because they were in my life but i would never actively pursue them. We Have moved on in our lives. I Am extremely happy with the decisions i have made.

Mihikko · Answer

Nada, but its awkward when I see him since we're neighbors.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah when I do start to think of her, I immediately kill that part of me and let it sink to bottom of a river somewhere. You know use them as an example. It's like 20 bodies down there now 😂😂😂

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Answer

Nope not at all. I was confused and miserable when I was with him. Deep down I’ve never been happy in any of my past relationships because I never excepted myself

Jonathan1989 · Answer

I moved on. The message was on the 29 of June. Im with a new woman now thank god. It is what it is. I was supposed to receive a message on the 31 of July. Nope. Its over. She had a debt $5730. Debts ruin relationship. It's her fault.

LVGirl · Answer

No, not at all. I don’t feel the need to check up on what they’re doing and there are no feelings when I see them or they “check in”... but my husband seems to. He talks about his previous relationships often and is very interested in his ex... I just don’t understand.

KRock323 · Answer

Who doesn't. I don't restart relationship. I figure they ended for a reason and understand why I have them. I how ever want them to be happy. And moving on is my way.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

There were a few that i had feelings for long after the break up and a few that i had resentment for. The thing to remember is that it didn't work out for a reason. That reason will more than likely be there if you were to rekindle the relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

i did for quite some time after she broke up with me, but i got over it after about a month of not seeing her anymore. when i do see her on social media or around the city, i still kinda have feelings but they're not as "strong" as they were when we were dating and when she broke up with me

Lelaila · Answer

The only feeling I get when I would see him is disgust :')

pooper89 · Answer

Yeah I do. But I think it has more to do with wanting what I can't have. Which is powerful

DesiBeautyLover · Answer

Hell no! That crazy bitch and her uncle threatened to kill me.

Anonymous · Answer

For most if I ever see them again it would be too soon. But there is one I miss very immensly as a friend. However since I screwed up that particular relationship I have to live with the circumstances. Won't make that same mistake again.

Logically I know I will most likely never hear from her again for the rest of my life. But the heartbroken bitch part of me is something I have to manage.

fallsunrise · Answer

Yes. When you have been close to someone you will always have the makings of a close connection.

Anonymous · Answer

Like I sometimes imagine what it would be like if we didn't split but no I dont still like them but the girl in that picture looks freakishly like my history teacher

Anonymous · Answer

i have no exes. only my husband. and if he dies i'll stay single.

Queen_gamer · Answer

I do for one of my exes we only broke up because of I had to move

mooky06 · Answer

Nah. That shit was dealt with as soon as I dropped him.

Hidden_P · Answer

I have feelings yes. I hope he dies a slow and painful death.

lucifer1298 · Answer

Lol make sure that you have true feelings and nothing else otherwise its a bad move.

foolishsunset · Answer

Yes and it's been almost 8 months 🙃

rocksongwriter · Answer

Why did you two break up in the first place?

CuriousZimmy · Answer

I do have an ex which still talks to me after breaking up. And everytime I talk to her, I feel a mix of pain and sadness, but my heart still races. So I'm not even sure about it at all. Maybe I do.

edrolnosam · Answer

Nope. About time. I got over that a little late. But I realized she didn’t really want me. I’m perfect though. I found someone much better. I’m happy.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

They are not romantic though. More like motivational.

neoagent1 · Answer

Not a single one. They are exes for a reason and will stay exes.

MrFro · Answer

Sure, even more when you think you could have done some things differently. No going back now though, moving on, always looking up.

Reddwolf · Answer

no I don't and if you broke up with them then there has to be a reason

mrkdvsn · Answer

I don't have any feelings for her, but I wish it hadn't ended when it did, or how it did.

BlackParade · Answer

All the guys seem to be yes and no while almost all the girls are like no.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. To be a bit blunt, she can go f*ck herself with a rusty pitchfork for all I care.

Slothium · Answer

Don't we all? It's a human thing, I think.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

They don't want to. That's why they're your ex!

ManOnFire · Answer

Not by a long shot.

tattooedhandfet · Answer

Why not ask them out?

GrayWhi2 · Answer

I'd rather go to hell

8string · Answer

yes. sexual feelings.

Halucinator · Answer

Only if I had an ex😂😂

rjroy3 · Answer

I do, but I don't trust her so it's null and void.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. As much as I hate to admit it.

Ranude2011 · Answer

Ya. I miss her so much

godcomplexx · Answer

No. I wish her nothing. Literally nothing.

Anonymous · Answer

not any doubts... yeah I do..

AtomicCheesing · Answer

Just hope karma is a thing.

pinkzoesbb · Answer

Nope not at all.

daniel_shalome · Answer

I Would ⚡

JenDB · Answer

Nope not anymore

vetrn · Answer

Nope

CoffeeGirl456 · Answer

Funny, I moved on.

edgyfox · Answer

Only as a friend.

Anonymous · Answer

Wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire...

itsallover · Answer

Not at all.

harpieladysisters · Answer

no I don't, only for my player "ex"

king34 · Answer

Definitely

whilstinlove · Answer

not anymore.

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