If a guy pressure his girlfriend to have sex when she doesn't want to, does it mean he doesn't love her?

[danii363]

Yes, he doesn't love her

No

[ryslostthought]

I really don't know. Depends on the people.

In the past I've had both a boyfriend and a girlfriend that told me it's my job to pull it out of them. But that's specific to my a couple of my relationships.

But it also depends on the situation, if one person never want to do it, the other has to try or leave to get their basic needs met.

So I guess no, pressuring (not forcing!) is sometime needed to express your needs. But I dont think it's a healthy relationship if you need to.

Does the person denying the desire constantly, does that mean they don't love their so?

[danii363]

It has nothing to do with lack of desire, the girl can be saving herself for religious reasons

[ryslostthought]

Then again, I would repeat it is unhealthy for the relationship. It's incompatibility which is always a strain on a relationship.

Also I don't see this as just a woman's issue, it happens in gay relationships too. But pressure isn't where it turns bad, force (mental or physical) is where it becomes a problem. It's a nuanced situation as many are in a relationship.

[Mexicoman101]

People in love might have different libidos & there's just Going to be pressure to perform whenever one wants it & the other isn't quite in the mood. Its way too absolutist to say that pressuring someone for sex who doesn't feel like it means you don't love the person. Now raping them when they refuse, that's an obvious sign the love was a lie.

[deraz24]

Maybe, he doesn't respect your wishes though bc he should wait on you

[HGG3805]

If you say Love to a guy he is thinking SEX. If you say Sex to a woman she is thinking Love. Make is clear to him where you stand. He needs to understand and deal with it. His little head is doing the thinking. So either you compromise with him or his big head (on his shoulders) needs to deal with it. There are other things you can provide him other than intercourse.

[serious]

Yes, that means he doesn't have any love nor respect for her.

[ChrisD85]

I agree with what most have said firstly it is not possible to tell if he love you from what we know. Second no one ever has the right to force you to do what you don't want to do. No is No. Only you can decide when you are ready.

[Samurrr]

I would say the hormones are just stronger than his will. You can't tell whether he likes you or not from this situation.

[pervetedsycho]

It means he has a painful erection... and you are the luckiest girl in the world cause you get the chance to be his saving Angel and multiple orgasms for you... it's a really a win. win.

[Anonymous]

It's also rape too, especially if he forcefully puts it in her

[sofaking]

Dudes just a horndog lol just cause he wants to get it in doesn't mean much more than that

[BigKuntry]

Should never be pressured

[alice55]

I don't know, i think it depend on the case.

[shanu0909a]

what if ur boyfriend forces u?

[alice55]

@shanu0909a Depend how much time we're together and all.

[shanu0909a]

m sorry @alive55, no matter how long u have been in a relationship with sumone, but even ur husband does not has the right to force u for sex (legally as well as morally)

[danii363]

@shanu0909a i agree with you

[shanu0909a]

thanq @danii363

[GTIpenguin]

He was to have sex to show her how much he loves her.

[Anonymous]

Before asking why he pressure you, why you don’t need?

[apple24]

I think she doesn't love herself

[kenjaminSlutton716]

No it means you don't love him reverse psychology

[Anonymous]

No it means he’s horny but not very considerate

[Anonymous]

He doesn't love her