What does it mean when a guy doesn’t want a relationship but wants to continue having sex with you?

[Anonymous]

Is he unsure of his feelings? Not that into you? Getting serious with someone eles? Been hurt before?

Men, please tell me the possibilities.

Updates

+1 y

He told me before that he needed more time to be sure on deciding who he’s gonna be in a relationship with. In the past, he said that his ex had left him during hard times. Could that be a reason? Or is he just a player.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

My buddy in highschool told me the only reason to talk to a woman was to get your dick wet.

Some guys aren't interested in dating anyone and would rather just have sex and play COD.

But there are a ton of reasons. You listed some of the other more common ones.


I don't usually have sex with people I don't want to date so I can't really explain it in detail, but a lot of guys just don't want to be in a relationship.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

After reading the update,

He could be telling her truth. That is a very reasonable explanation.

Or, he could be leading you on because he wants to keep having sex.

I can be hard to tell, but you could always invite him over but mention you are on your period so you don't want to have sex, and see if he shows up or not.

[Sweepthelegjonny]

It means he ONLY wants to sleep with you. He has NO desire to have a relationship with you. You’re being used for sex plain and simple. You deserve better.

[Woke51]

He literally had told you that he has trust issues because of being hurt in the past, so he doesn't want anyone close, so that doesn't happen again.

[spartan55]

None of the above. He just wants to fuck.