A few months ago my neighbor I've had a crush on for a while now and I ended up naked in his bed one night after a drunken wrestling match gone wrong. That night we kissed and fooled around but he said he wouldn't have sex with me because I was his neighbor and especially not while drunk. I was a little disappointed but whatever. I assumed this would be a one off thing that would never happen again. Wed sober up and act like it never happened. But surely enough we've made it a habit of me sleeping over. He kisses me openly so he doesn't seem to mind people noticing us. Weve started hanging out more (going to ikea, movies, sharing meals together, etc). I spend days at his apartment at a time even tho I live across the hall. We've continued to fool around a few times but nothing ever goes past hands and mouths. I'm use to men who can't keep their hands off me. If I'm naked in their bed and they are spooning me, they usually want more. But this guys got the restraint of a champ if you can even call it that... It makes me feel self conscious and even makes me wonder if he even likes women! We are both very attractive fit people. His best friend (my roommate) says he likes me and he hasn't really seen him hang out with a woman as much as he does with me ever but for some reason that doesn't make me feel overly confident in whatever's happening here. This guys really quiet and reserved and to himself most of the time. I sometimes wish he acted like he wanted me more. He's really work oriented (he's a 34yr old artist) which is cool and it's not like we are officially dating or anything but I'm dead confused on what's going on with this guy. Any help?
I think he probably respects you a lot more than any other girl he's been with. Guys who sleep with girls the first chance they get, get so bored of the girl. Its as if they already "conquered her".
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Maybe he really respects you and doesn't want to rush to have sex. This isn't a bad thing. This is actually a great thing. You know he really likes you and isn't with you just for the sex.
Could very possibly gay or just not interested enough in anything more than having a few free feels.
Maybe he has herpes? Could be afraid of pregnancy, something from his past maybe? Time for you to make the move I guess unless he has small one
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Tell him you want to fuck him
Are you under age? If not he's gay.
Maybe he's a virgin
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