I text with a guy that I really like but we are just friends. I think of him more than a friend I'm scared that he might not think the same way about me. But one think catches my attention everytime I text him that I'm going to sleep or that I'm busy he writes "cutie" and he said I should write him when I'm back. Ok maybe I'm overreacting and this could just be a friendly meaning. Guys what do you think? Could he be interested in me or does he sees me just as a friend?
I think you should keep the flirting going, but don't let it get farther than that until you feel like you really know what he's up to. If he's a nice guy then, he will want to take it slow and be all romantic and shit. If not, then the first thing he will do is want to stop somewhere in his car and hookup. Just be careful.
I think he's comfortable with you and wants to talk to you. He tries to get your attention by saying cutie playfully. This is a high possibility that he likes you. If he doesn't, maybe he just didn't realise his feelings for you.
He is probably fishing. Not to be confused with catfishing, I mean he simply throwing it out there in a flirtatious manner hoping that he can see or hear a response to let him know the game are close. Once he has you on the line (he has the sign he was looking for) time to reel you in (make his move).
I would never say this to a friend that I thought was cute. I would only say this to a girl who I thought was cute who i wanted to be my girlfriend. Otherwise it's too awkward and sends the wrong signal. You wouldn't say to a friendzoned dude "You look hot." or "you're a cutie."
I'm a guy. I call my girlfriend all sorts of stuff like that, as far as other female friends, the closest I come is calling one of them "kid" affectionately cuz she's short and a bit younger than me.
He is a senior and you are a freshman. This leads to a large problem. He is going to be going away after high school probably to college or regular life. You will be at different points in your life.
Because of this, if you start a relationship or something with him, it will most likely fizzle out. I had seen it many times before in my high school. People had "summer breakups" where the relationship would be cut off.
Honestly, I wouldn't put in the emotional investment for something like this. Besides, it may get a bit odd with the age gap during this point in life. ------- Also, be careful of him actually being a creepy guy. Many creepy guys come off as nice guys until it is too late and you've done some things you've regretted. I'm just saying to be careful.
I despise the fickleness of girls when it comes to receiving compliments. He finds you attractive, and that's all that matters.
He gives you attention, he likes you, he compliments you, he hangs out with you, you have chemistry together, and you're stressing over being called cutie instead of the most beautiful goddess in the whole wide world? How big is your fucking ego?
Forget what guys mean when they say cutie. You need to be honest with yourself and KNOW what you are without someone else's interpretation.
He went a little off the deep end, but he is right. You shouldn't expect a guy to call you beautiful or anything of the sort until your either dating or very close to dating.
He seemed to have his chance when you asked him to stay over after school. I think you are chasing this guy too hard. I think you may have messed it up. Sorry. Guys like to do the chasing. You may have killed the mystery. Women need a mystery to them to keep guys interested. If you come out in the beginning and profess your love for him, it just kills everything. It's better to be mysterious and a bit elusive. You want to maintain your femininity at all times. Asking someone out like that is more of a masculine trait. It's an aggressive action. You are kind of taking his role away from him so he's like..."well, what do I do now?". Guys like to lead so let him lead if you really like him. Next time, let the guy do the chasing and the asking. Maintain your femininity ! Be lady-like.
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Well I didn't tell him I like him. He told me. We were talking about music and I had to leave for a minute to do something and when I returned he was just like "I know you like me." And I was a little confused. And as for staying after, at first I meant him stay after alone but he seemed a bit nervous about that so I offered to stay after too. Because we are somewhat friends. But thank you. As you can see, this isn't really my strength. I'm more book smart...
There might be. Does he ever approach you to talk or does he ever call you? Is he ever the initiator on any of those things? You have to give him control of the situation. I know it's difficult but that's the only way because guys don't respond to forwardness from girls. That doesn't mean you can't win him over, you just have to do it in a different way. Be really sweet to him. Make him feel good. Take on a supportive role rather than a leading or aggressive role. continued
If you are someone who likes to give advice or take command then you need to kind of suppress that a little more. Guys like girls who are supportive, compassionate, feminine, and understanding. That's the key to a man's heart. The hard part about this is that the ball is ultimately going to be in his court whether he asks you out or not. Once you start dating him, you can start calling him on the phone but I'd still let him do most of the calling and stuff.
continued...if you are currently calling him on the phone or texting him, you need to stop doing that. If he texts you, then you can text him back but don't initiate any kind of communication. So now you will become a responder rather than an initiator. That means you will stop chasing him. It's okay to talk to him at school, though, of course. I hope that makes sense. So you are basically handing over control of the situation to him.
That makes sense. Well, he's rather shy but he does attempt to initiate conversation at school. However, I think my friends always being around me somewhat intimidates him. Thank you for the advice. I will try my best.
I'm going to say he more than likely likes you back. This is supported by his eagerness to keep the conversation going even when you get busy. With that said, I seriously think you should confess your interest to him. Because he may or may not do so to you depending on his confidence levels, and you may lose your chance if he gets tired of waiting and moves on.
A lot of guys feel like girls don't respond to 'hot' very well, and 'beautiful' is a little over-the-top unless they can tell the girl changed her appearance for an occasion or something. So yeah, we will say cute and pretty instead of hot and beautiful.
Considering he is a senior, he is going to graduate for college and leave. He is going to move on and date girls his own age (hopefully). I wouldn't even bother.
You're a really good friend... Right now, that's what he's implying, if you want and try, more might happen, but in fairness, i say the exact same things to my bestfriend
It means you're hot, and your picture seems to make a great case for that. but if it seems like he's overdramatizing it probably means he's nervous or perhaps trying to find a unique way of telling you what he feels you probably heard a million times
Well, at my size I'm hardly what I'd call "cute". However there have been other compliments which are perhaps more fitting. "Stunning" comes to mind.
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He thinks you are a really good looking woman. Cutie means he could think you have really cute features. Could be him just being nice or wanting more. Such as a relationship or sex. Or maybe just trying to make you feel good.
It doesn't have to mean anything really , maybe he just thinks you are cute it doesn't necessary mean he is interested... But if you like him then go tell him😘
He probably likes u and not sure if u like him back the way he likes u. i usally say cutie to girls that i am attracted to but some girls call me sweetie or hun so maybe he that way in a text.
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