Why would a guy continue communication when you say you aren’t ready for sex?

[Anonymous]

Is it to genuinely be friends or is he hoping I’ll change my mind?

[RespectfulGuy]

Assuming there is no breakup and you're still considered dating.

Girl: I'm not ready for sex.

Guy (thinking): time to start the chase. Personal target - 1 month to bed.

Simply putting, it's so common for girls to say "not ready" and guys are so seasoned to hear it.

As long as the relationship is still ongoing, he'll try to get into her pants. That's the meaning of "chase".

[Asker]

Yeah so true

[OlderAndWiser]

"I'm not ready for sex" usually means that you want to know the guy better before you get physically intimate. That is different from "I'm not attracted to you and us having sex will never be anything more that just your fantasy."

So. . . which one of those two do you feel, and which one of those two do you think he perceived as your message?

[Asker]

Probably that I’m waiting to see how I feel

[ZackBan]

I'll let you in on a little secret: it's very common for girls to say no to sex but then change their minds.

Most girls a guy meets will at first be skeptical and try not to appear as sluts but once they confirm he's a worthwhile sex partner they will have sex.

So yeah I think he's hoping you'll come around.

[Anonymous]

Could be. But it could be he's just putting you in the bullpen. You can f*** another girl while you're waiting for that first girl to come around and give up the skins.

[Asker]

Good insight

[spartan55]

Playing the long game.