What does it mean when he says he doesn't want a relationship but still likes hanging out with you?

Anonymous
So before you jump to conclusions he's just usng me for sex let me explain. So from the very beginning, my ex told me he wasn't ready for a relationship because he just simply wasn't looking for one. He was in school and had a few jobs and other goals plus perhaps the simple fact he just wanted to be free and single. However, I was in love with him so obviously I was stubborn with my feelings and whenever I got a chance to be with him I went for it. So in other words, even though he said he didn't want a relationship, he still invited me over, watched movies, and didn't always have sex. Plus, he included me in some family stuff here and there. Overall, I knew he had a thing for me but when the whole relationship thing would come up, he would directly say no he doesn't want one at the moment. I started thinking he probably just wants his cake and eat it too which isn't necessarily a bad thing. He liked me but didn't want a serious relationship. Now that we have broken up, it's funny how the last few days he was very sweet to me. We even had sex after not having sex for a while as a real couple. It's almost like this psychological thing happens where knowing were in a relationship, there's pressure, but once we know we're free, we're more open and free to each other and there's just positive vibes. So this brings me to think about when he said he doesn't want a relationship-is he just afraid of commitment and responsibility? Or did it have to do with me? he didn't like me enough to be in a relationship? What does it mean when a guy says they dont want a relationship yet still shows he wants you?
What does it mean when he says he doesn't want a relationship but still likes hanging out with you?
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