When he says he’s not looking for a relationship?

[Anonymous]

To you guys; what does it mean when a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship because he’s got too much going on right now for all that?

[Anonymous]

It means "he doesn't want a relationship with you" I know it's hard but it's true, if a guy wants you he will say that he's searching for a relationship in front of you... But don't get sad or hurt about it, it's totally normal to find someone who wants you and someone who doesn't no matter how pretty you are or how good your personality is... So forget about him and find someone who wants you and who is committed to you

[Asker]

It’s just a bit confusing because we went on a date and both had a good time. We admitted that we wanted to see each other again & I also made it clear that I am not interested in just hooking up because I don’t prefer to do that. He was respectful and still wants to hang out again

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because he is nice or a gentleman and likes you as a good friend but from my experience guys could be flirty or overly nice to their female friend that they're comfortable with... So it's better to not catch feelings till he says he wants you and makes efforts for you

[Asker]

I suppose. We barely met only a couple months ago but barely talked and it wasn’t until recently that he asked me to hang out and I went with it. I wasn’t even interested at first lol but after we hung out and had a good time I enjoyed his company

[Opinion Owner]

It's a good sign that you two like hanging out together, enjoy your time together, make memories and don't worry about anything if there's something he will say it and prove it

[LaNc3L0TT]

It is weak excuse but like boys mentioned here he doesn't want relationship, as for you, you should keep moving and forget about him.

[BarryLiverstone]

He thinks you want a relationship so he’s making an excuse not to commit

[Anonymous]

I've been told this and it basically means you're not the one he wants.

[Anonymous]

In my experience that means they don't want one with you

[In_Trance]

it means he's not interested in you