Ever dated someone you weren't physically attracted to?

[AustinTXGuy]

Whether it's their physical attractiveness or just their body type, did you ever date someone you didn't find physically attractive at first?

Yes

No

[futureislands]

Yes and guess what.. it didn't work out! Surprise! :D :P

Sometimes I'm so attracted to everything else about a guy.. his mind.. his sense of humor.. his drive.. his creativity.. etc... that a part of me really really really wants it to work. Like.. 'on paper' they would be a perfect match.
And then they stick their tongue in my mouth and I can't help but feel slightly disgusted.. or I don't like the way they smell.. or the way their breath smells.
Unfortunately to me that means it's game over. Even though it might seem trivial. If I don't feel like ripping a dude's clothes of when I see him I know it could never work.. the chemistry is just not right.

[Anon98]

yes. he was just so cute (his behavior). he was a doctor and it was just the way he cared about his patients and everyone around him and he was funny. we went on one date and at the end of it i really wanted him to kiss me but he didn´t. we never went out again.. he was 12 years older than me, maybe that´s why

[PinkMichae]

Yes. But I was extremely attracted to his personality. I was happy until he cheated and I left. Now I'm with a man I am extremely attracted to mentally and physically and I can say I love him more than I ever loved my ex. And I want to have sex with my current boyfriend. That wasn't the case with my ex.

[Belorum]

I did. I met him online and somehow managed to get feelings for him before ever knowing how he looks like. wouldn't do it again, it felt a bit weird... >.< He was shorter than me and 10 years older, I kinda felt like a freak next to him... and hated myself for being a bit ashamed.

[brocklee]

I had the reverse happen. Initially, there was this magical chemistry that made me attracted to her physically. Our chemistry began to fade after we moved in together. I went away for 2 weeks on business, came home and suddenly I was no longer physically attracted to her any more. She did not change a bit. My perception of her changed. I stuck it out for a year hoping it would come back, but it never did.

[taleswapper]

OF course. Physical attractiveness is just one small portion of the overall person, and I've noticed that my tastes shift as I'm more involved with a girl towards her type. What you like is malleable, and based on experience.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Nope. That'd be pointless. I've gone on dates with guys I wasn't super into but no shock, it didn't work out.

[TripleAce]

Nope... and it's pretty hard
You care for them but you don't have that fire... that super spark... which usually comes from strong sexual desire for each other

[Anonymous]

I've dated a few that weren't that great looking but as I got to know them they became really attractive. And I took it from there. But luckily now I have someone that is amazing emotionally AND physically. I can have my cake and eat it too😉🙃

[Yuntome]

Part of the reason we broke up. I can't help not being attracted to them at all. And it got worse the more I hung out with them.

[goddess87]

I have. I wouldn't again. If you aren't attracted that means the chemistry just isn't there

[zzzondarrr]

But why did you do it?

[goddess87]

Beacuse i thought he was good on the inside, but no it matched the outsidr

[zzzondarrr]

Hahah well yeah, I think you should always trust your innermost feelings about a person

[CoffeeGirl456]

yes, I chooses one for go on relationship and he not my standard for date anymore.

[Aurbrey1980]

Can I inbox you? Ivwant to see that lucky guy

[CoffeeGirl456]

@Aurbrey1980 OMG , he is simple Indian guy and also Hindu nothing special haha sorry I keep his privacy

[Aurbrey1980]

Uhnn Indian? where hindu not accept foreigner to be fiance? Are you sure he is right one? What ur purpose with that way , Im learning how good girl like you selected him.

[CoffeeGirl456]

@Aurbrey1980 , For now he differently from another guys that came to flirt me only desire , by the way I v more time to learn him for real meet, yes I will even future we will face more sad but I will.

[rgb008]

Nope.
I need to be physically attracted to be interested.

[thechico79]

I did when I was in my early 20's Dated this one girl, not the cutest thing but not that ugly, I didn't find her physically attractive but I did have fun with her.

[Sparkzs]

For four years, yes. Not my type at all, and still isn't; but I grew to love her for more than the looks.

[snugasabug]

I can go on a date, but i can not date someone i don't find attractive

[OlderGuy965]

I have no problem with it. Once you fuck, you really don't care anymore. I mean, if she's not a total troll. I won't go near someone who grosses me out.

[redeyemindtricks]

“Once you fuck, you really don't care anymore.”

^^ Fascinating... because it’s so opposite of what I’ve heard from most boys.
For the most part, the male perspective I’ve heard on this (pretty damn blunt and unvarnished — I have 4 brothers) tends to be more along the lines of, “I’d fuck almost anything once, but only the special ones would make me wanna do it again [... and again and again]”.

[OlderGuy965]

I've been told I'm different

[redeyemindtricks]

Ahah

[OlderGuy965]

The way I see it, if you're that picky, you'll never get laid. I get laid all the time. They're not model quality like most guys seem to want, but at least I'm getting fucked VERY regularly!

[redeyemindtricks]

Well, boys’ wet dream girls tend to be three or four sizes bigger than models, but, I get what u mean.

My marriage is still a wet dream come true after 16 and a half years.

[OlderGuy965]

That's awesome! Congrats

[redeyemindtricks]

♥️ Tx

[lovelyhoneybones]

Yes and I kept trying to convince myself not to make that an issue, but I couldn't help it.

[macix670]

Yes and I regret it. Since then I don't date guys I'm not attracted to.

[Aguamarina]

Yes and it never went anywhere. I no longer date guys I'm not physically attracted to.

[BroKenWinggS]

I tried. Didn't wanna think of myself as shallow.

[AustinTXGuy]

But it didn't work because of the attraction issue or other reasons?

[BroKenWinggS]

Mixture of both actually. And because of lack of attraction it was easy for me to walk away.

[BroKenWinggS]

Do l still get points for trying? Lol

[AustinTXGuy]

That makes sense. Haha, yep its good karma I think. I've sometimes grown attracted to other aspects of them but if it's too much an opposite of "my type" it's hard to move past that.

[BroKenWinggS]

So true. Nothing worse than an ugly asshole. Like you are already not hot but l gave you a chance anyway. How dare you not have your attitude together.

[AustinTXGuy]

Lmao, you just begging me to break up with you fool!

[BroKenWinggS]

EXACTLY... The nerve! *hand over face*

[neurolove]

yes, and i'm not going to do that anymore

[oksurething]

I haven't dated anyone, lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes a couple of times but just never worked

[Anonymous]

no i wouldn't do that

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Yes...