Most Helpful Guys
You shouldn't be so picky, as long as you're happy together, that's all that should matter. You really shouldn't break up with him over his looks unless you're absolutely disgusted and can't stand the sight of him. This isn't settling for less, yes we'd all like to settle with our dream partners, but that's just what it is: a dream partner, someone that's not likely to exist. Instead we should really settle for someone who treats us right and makes us happy and we feel the same way about them in return.
It’s important for your own good, that you don’t get too caught up in your “physical type” because if you did find someone that matched your physical type, it would just show you how unimportant and how those physical traits are good enough to create a relationship where you would be happy. You should instead try to fixate and appreciate characteristics in personality and chemistry because if you do, then all of a sudden that attraction will lead to finding whomever attractive regardless of looks.
When I was younger I had all these criteria and only considered certain looks, and allowed myself to overlook things, red flags, simply because their looks smoothed things over. Over time, I started avoiding my “ideal looking girl” as it just meant trouble and wasted time usually
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Most Helpful Girls
We all want a blond hair and blue eyes guy who supports us emotionally but some times you have to wake up and smell the reality coffee that the guy who treats you like a queen might not fit this description. I have the same problem but I am trying to be close with guys who are just nice but also not ugly. My current guy is not what I envisioned but he does support me emotionally. It is a good thing really because if he shows to be a cheater or a jerk later on I will be like "fine its over I wanted a blond hair blue eyed boyfriend anyways" inside instead of crying him a river.
I am sorry do disappoint you honey, but you don’t love this man. You should break up with him, because he deserve a woman that will really love him for what he is, not what he give. Life is not an otome game (those Japanese game when you simulate flirts with hot guys that you chose) you don’t chose a man for his look but his personality. And you said that you were a Latina, so you’re probably a brunette, would you be happy if the man you love told that he wanted you to blue eyed blonde haired girl? Then something you can’t be, untile you do change yourself? If you really loved him, you will find him attractive even if he was ugly. Be sure that a carring and loyal man is really hard to fine these days, so you should know that it’s not blonde hair and blue eyes that will make you happy. I never had a type of man, so I can’t really answer your questions but I know that a pretty face will never equal a beautiful soul.
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