anyway, I've known him since a little before Christmas. I looked a flustered mess, but he smiled and shook my hand. for the first few weeks, he came to me for help and I helped him happily. after that, work got hetic and it was me who needed help. even though it was his not his job to check on me, he would cross the room to ask me if I was doing okay. he'd suggest coming over to him.
i don't remember his exacts words were but it was along the lines of "you belong on our side" (his side of our area where he stands in front of)
after chatting about a party he was excited to go to, he found out I'd be staying at work alone and even though he was not being paid extra for this, he offered to stay with me. I waved him off twice and each time he hesitated to leave.
it was after a few months I really developed a bit of a crush on the man.
right now, its hard for me to even be around him without being curious, excited, and of course shy.
but these are the things that make me wonder:
he always makes sure he says something to me before he has to leave
he always tells me when he's going to see me again
he'll always try to get a conversation going when I'm around
he'll tell me stories about his childhood, a bit about his family, how his week went, what his current situation is like, and how his friends are (some things I find a bit odd.. admitting to stomach flu and how his friends may or may not still being doing party drugs and how he's really not a fan)
he'll tease me from time to time (not very often)
he will show concern for me. (talking about going out at certain places and he'll make sure to remind me to be careful)
we'll laugh over coworkers and oddball things that happen
he'll tell me when something funny happens to him while around
he starts tapping his thumbs/fingers on our desk
he'll start whistling very loudly when I'm around (ive only ever noticed it with me)
he'll always looks at me when we're speaking, his body towards me. when he's speaking to more than just me, his body is still facing towards me.
and recently he kinda looked down and blushed when admitting he thought if I owned a giant dog it would definitely "love you".
there is a 5 year age difference. and he NEVER talks about girls or dating with me (he has with a mutual coworker of ours-- my friend)
he's never asked for my number
he's never asked me out
he's never touched me
he;s never complemented my looks
and lastly, he asked the same coworker if she thought it was okay to date someone who was 21? though he wasn't actually looking.
i don't know..its frustrating. mostly because I really want to be this guys friend, and I wouldn't be opposed to maybe seeing him. what do you guys think of the situation?
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