Why are girls so selective in dating? (Page 2)

Question

I see most the girls I have met, they want guy to please them and chase them at least for first few dates. Why are girls so selective at this stage? Why dont they date more guys, like most guys do at once? 1) Is it because girls tend to get attached more to partner faster, so they know if they go out on 3-4 dates, they get attached 2) Or its just the type of girls I am meeting?

Anonymous · Answer

I think this is just you and the women you are hanging out with. Seriously might want to stop dating multiple people at once. Most people don't find that attractive.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i have dated a good amount of guys and a lot of guys just want sex. it's hard to find ones who want a relationship AND are your type.

Blake0048 · Answer

Because they have to raise your kids and it helps if the man that impregnates them can or even will do that.

kuipers · Answer

Girls are more emotional they don't research a lot they are bound with emotions and give up fast.

TANDOSMOJO · Answer

Because their father taught them to always have high standards for the men they choose so they'll be well taken care of out in the real world... Get in good with her dad and you'll never do any wrong in his eyes...

DonkeyRick69 · Answer

Biological instincts to find the strongest possible mate

Sparkzs · Answer

Girls are selective in dating because too many men try too hard, too frequently.

Anonymous · Answer

I am personally selective in dating because a lot of men who approach me are just not very interesting, or they act like jerks.

BronzedAdonis · Answer

because they can be, if you were in their shoes wouldn't you exploit the opportunities, lets be real. supply and demand

aboringuy · Answer

Its just like when you go to a shop for anything. You look for the object you can use the most you can.

es20490446e · Answer

Because they assume that dating is like going to the supermarket, and buy something.

KatherineJ · Answer

Because we are the ones that have to deal with it if things don't go well.

pavlove · Answer

i disagree with the premise. women are not selective about dating just some are selective about sex

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Smart woman are selective. Stupid and desperate woman settle for anything that gives them attention.

Anonymous · Answer

It's like buying a house, you be very selective because it's an investment

Anonymous · Answer

We have to there's no chance to mess up. We can't afford to be with a guy who's no good

Anonymous · Answer

Not selective. It just takes money and power. I mean unless you are a ugly, average looking, or naive girl, then you might not.

DaTruth01 · Answer

the simple and short answer... because they can be.

Anonymous · Answer

They just don’t want to waste time on someone they don’t like

Justwanttoolaugh · Answer

Not true i think its on there past relationships. And they want and that trust and respect!!!

mr_sailor · Answer

It's a human nature... we all go for something better... something best... something extraordinary

Anonymous · Answer

They won't come as desperate, easy going, they want guys to chase them. They need time to feel comfortable around u.

maritahalabyy · Answer

2- because if she wants you she will chase you and also some girls are shy so.

Anonymous · Answer

if you're looking for a SERIOUS relationship both genders should be selective. both are selective.

Anonymous · Answer

Because feminism has corrupted the entire dating game, thanks to people who cannot accept how our societies have evolved.

brownbeauty23 · Answer

Even guys are like this.

RuneScimitar · Answer

We dont wanna seem easy hehe

Anonymous · Answer

Because they hate fat guys and god allows them to be that way,

Markella95 · Answer

Cause I like women and dating women.

Anonymous · Answer

They don't want to get hurt

hibyehibye · Answer

He looks like Lorenzo from vampire diaries

ShannonMG · Answer

Because we aren't guys.

OlderGuy965 · Answer

Oh... And most guys aren't? Please!

AlphaStyles · Answer

Maybe it has to do with taste

GrayWhi2 · Answer

Because they are girls lol

CT_CD · Answer

Because they're shallow

happyness28 · Answer

How selective are you with a smorgasbord

Anonymous · Answer

We want everything in one

Howieeee · Answer

Not all are selective

loverboysandy · Answer

Coz we boys are so hot

sportyy · Answer

They always wanna feel they r wanted

Darkrider10 · Answer

Because they come to know about the guys

ke2930ja · Answer

Why I like sex more when I see a sexy woman.

relarer · Answer

They dont want to cheat by anyone

RandyMike90 · Answer

Mixing feelings, I guess. Unable to make decisions

CaramelCookie · Answer

Why not?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I have seen this first hand

fredrick27 · Answer

They want more

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Because they can be

sim_rangi · Answer

Loving girls

jyd713 · Answer

Type of girl

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can

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