Is it possible to develop feelings for someone through text messages?

[Anonymous]

Let's say you have been texting for a while,

Yes

No

[tallSteve69]

Yes I was texting this girl for a few weeks and she even sent me some pics. Met her IRL for a date and she was a lot heavier than her pics turned out to be. Either old pics or she photoshopped them or just took great angles. It was hard to tell. After the date, I paid the bill and took her home. Once I got home I said I didn’t feel a spark and this was going to be the end of it. She asked a bunch of follow up questions and I said I just need o work on myself and stopped responding. Then she texted something about killing herself and it was fucked up. I checked on her a few days later and she was fine so now I have blocked her everywhere lol

[DanishSaint]

I would say yes for the most part. I don't believe that it is possible to actually develop true, deep feelings for someone - especially if you have never met them. I do however believe that some people for some reasons, very easily feel like they are in love very fast. Maybe because they are used to be treated bad, so in reality It might not be much more than being actually being treated with respect and kindnes that triggers a lot of emotions, and makes people feel like being in love.

[pinkzoesbb]

It can happen. It’s more of a fantasy. I had a guy friend awhile back. We would text constantly. When we both had time we spoke on the phone. That changed things. When I read his messages I created this whole idea of how he would sound if our messages were spoken to each other. After a few months I got bored. It wasn’t the same. I think of it like reading a book. You add your own emotions and interpret what’s being said differently. In order to know the person you need to spend time together. Otherwise you’re reading your own love story minus the happy ending.

[PrincessPie]

A idea of them sure.
But you wouldn't be able to clarify that unless you met them in person.

[Anonymous]

That's how I fell for my soon-to-be boyfriend, so yes, it's very possible.

[huckleberryhound]

Why not, you're learning their personality, emotions, and beliefs the same as you would by talking any place else. Granted, you are just assuming that they are being honest, but that still doesn't stop one from being able to feel attracted to what they hopefully learn about them.

[PianistProdigy]

Yes, this female who been texting me for few weeks. She live in different city than me. But she confess her feelings for me on my birthday this month on 23rd. She got feelings because of my personality and interest we shared and I felt same way for her. Fact that we would always text/call all the time. But we aren't in relationship at the moment, she still need time think about that though, so yeah anything is possible.

[Goingnutsslowly49]

I sincerely believe that's true. But remember one thing you cannot hear the inflection in a person's voice through a text message. So something said could easily be misinterpreted. But finding out about a person and the things that you have common can definitely Inspire feelings.

[MiamiMadness]

Those late night texts keeping you up? Grab a mitt because you're about to catch feelings

[Blondie80]

If your share same opinions, you understand each other... yes, it can be possible.

[Listening5]

You can develop feelings for someone if you spend a lot of time with them and specially sharing personal things and feelings. doesn't mean it will work out when you two are in person tho.

[outsidecurve]

How do you fall for a text message? I live in the real world folks

[ohshee]

Of course you can if you can be blind and develop feelings for somebody

[20yearsolder]

Sure is, most people are more open so you actually get to know them when it's not face to face

[GingerGuy]

Yes I believe so, at least partly if you're getting to know them during these texts.

[Nik1hil]

According to me Yes!..
According to @Quintessence No

[karahiri]

yes. if you're a lonely fuck.

[Anonymous]

I can't even conceptualized how that is even possible.

[SpokenYT]

its happend to me a lot but its not only texting its also facetime.

[vishal28]

Totally depends on personality of individuals, however trust is issue

[LaFemmeFatale]

Probably It is. In past there were letters.

[Belorum]

Definetely yes. Happened more than once to me.

[Cowboy6666]

Everything is possible in love lol.

[kentlevi]

Yes, totally.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes it could happen.

[hasrett]

I don't think so.

[cupidkisses]

Yes it's possible

[CT_CD]

Maybe

[Tohru]

Yeah