I can and did. I met a gal in Minnesota and I was in California, over a social art gallery website called deviantart. I commented on an image she did, we sent a few notes back and forth, and eventually got to Skype and later Facebook Messenger. We fell in love after a few months, but it took 4 long years before we could finally move in together. We lived single but together for 18 months before marrying. Then she left me after 9 months.
You can fall in love when you connect on an emotional and mental level, but relationships can fall apart if you're both not on the same physical level too. We tried 2 years difficult to make it work, but she finally left because I didn't want sex as often as she did.
You can fall in love, the trick to /staying/ in love is knowing yourself honestly and conveying it honestly to your partner. I wish we had figured that out before it was too late.
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I've met some really nice people here and some I really did want something to do with to. It's true you can't attract through text and most aren't willing to meet you so. The website seems like a time waster. It's a shame too.
Oh dear. Of course you cannot. If you do you are falling in love with a total stranger, a dream, the fantasy of being in love or being loved or the person being what you want them to be and very often when it is online, text or phone only they lie to you and you not even know anything much about them, only what they tell you rather than the truth.
i. e. Hi Beth, I really need your help. I have been online chatting to this guy in the army, he is out fighting and we are in love, but he asked me to send him money as he needs help.
Which really means Hi Beth. I am looking for love and very naive and vulnerable. This person said he is in the army and needs money. Really he is just a teenager arsehole who tries to scam women online out of money by pretending to be a hero who is good looking and successful.
I had read this story where two people start liking each other through texts and then the finally meet and it's so good. They end up getting together and one day married.
Yeah. It was a story. I don't know if it's really possible. Oh it is a Wattpad story by the way.
Yes, because it's easier for people to show their best sides when they text. It's difficult though, because texting and verbal conversations are very different. I've experienced so many incidents where people were awesome texting with but they can't be the same way f2f
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A guy fell in love with me over texting, we never met before either, which really creeped me out. He was really clingy and it was so annoying. He had one of those personalities where he had to always have someone to talk to… ugh I get annoyed thinking about him! I ended up ghosting him because he was ugly more than his annoying personality. 🙄
You can like their personality, but frankly some people are different via text than in person.
Yeah you can. I fell in love with my best friend whos also my crush through texting and i get to see him in July.
No. I find it ridiculous to "fall in love" without ever meeting them.
Of course, manners in imaginary that you drawn can enforce you to fall in love than the real presentations...
Yeah I suppose anything is possible. If they talk enough they could grow a deep love for each other. *shrug*
I guess anyone can but it's very shallow. It might not even be really love.
A 3h text conversation can be said in 10minutes.
Texting slows things down and gives time to think about it.Yes, happened to me multiple times and also resulted in relationships.
I'd rather have the real thing in front of me than build everything up through text
Nope. How did you even get that idea
Simple answer is yes. But its something to try avoid
Yeah we love and we text. We are married in the sight of the Lord, i am white she is black , I am American she is Ghanaian, I am in America, she is in Ghana. We take care of each other. She is mine, I am hers forever.
... Did that so i can only say yes.
As for how was it. it all turn bad, maybe it's just me being naive.Maybe
Just be careful, it might hurt more than a real life relationshipfall in love? i'm not sure
fall into romantic obsession and infatuation? yes, cuz thats exactly where i'm at right nowNo, for all you know you could be texting a catfish some middle age loser. You need that face to face contact
Yes. I tend to ask a lot of deep questions. Lol. I get to know the person ig based on how he answers.
it can be a start... nothing more , its just virtual
You can think you're in love, butt irl it can be so diffrent
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