
Do you think it's hard to find loyalty?


It's not something you find.. Its part of someone's character.. If you don't Guage what people are capable of being loyal to, or for, then you never even had a real relationship, because you didn't get to understand them. Thinking about loyalty, how the picture describes reality is part the formula to superficial relationships. If you only look to loyalty test your partner, you are taking a gamble. How to build real trust, is part of a pattern of direct negotiation of a shared understanding, and how compromise gets intelligently handled.. Trust cannot be built from loyalty to someone, only loyalty to an internal character, which if it doesn't have truth as its cornerstone, will always be subject to capriciousness.
Loyalty is primarily a leadership trait. However, loyalty is earned much like respect and bestowed only when a person feels it is deserved, and so is dependent also on the character of all parties involved. Expecting or demanding loyalty is a narcissistic ideal and probably works against itself. In some cases loyalty is metered in a person usually by what they recieved in return for it. So gaining loyalty generally has a price. An exception, would be fealty or loyalty inspired by fear or blind indoctrination, but they require constant reinforcement.
Exactly my boyfriend is the most trustworthy mature smart strong guy I have ever met I feel like I stepped on a gold mine with bombe s around it and I'm not letting him slip away I looooove him
It's not as hard to find loyal people as people think it is. But it's not easy to find them as well.
Lately i think it may be... but loyal people tend to attract other loyal people I think.
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It's not hard to find loyalty, you just gotta look in the right direction! "Nice guys" typically are very loyal. People say they finish last because they aren't really chosen first by women, but a cool way to interpret that is that they finish last in terms of relationships. Nice guys are the gentlemen you've been longing for and will marry/have your final relationship with.
I was incredibly loyal, kind, caring, patient and understanding and I got a text saying basically saying he never wants to talk to me again but before that he said we would do something, changed his mind. Then I said goodbye then he made plans again and he woke up the next morning and changed his mind again... i don't know if he's confused or if he truly wants me gone.
I think he's genuinely confused. You cannot control his actions though. Whatever happens, I hope you'll look at the bright side of things. Tragedies occur every day around the globe, whether they are break ups or natural disasters. It sounds like things are complex and that he should consider seeing a specialist for 1 on 1 meetings.
Loyalty in a relationship requires a maturity of knowing your goals in life and knowing what kind of person can walk that journey parallel to you. Most people say they know what they want, but its not until they get into a relationship that they realize they were wrong about what they wanted. Sometimes they repeat the mistake multiple times before learning the lesson of what they actually want in life. C'est la vie.
Yes.
Extremely, but I know for a fact, I'm 100% loyal to people who mean a lot to me, family and my very few close friends.
All I need now is a relationship.
But no females want me based on my skin colour/ looks...
To me it's a yes. Trying to find a person that has a very good personality that you are looking for is a little difficult to find. And the thing that sucks is you may have had past relationships that guys may have f****d you over and it may ruin the chances for the next guy that may want to step in your life. Just because you had bad experience with another guy you feel insecure. But there are guys out there that are loyal and very open minded. I wish you luck vmm90.
I'm going through a bad experience where I was loyal among other things and I just got a text saying he doesn't want to talk anymore. First he said we'd do something, changed his mind after. Then I said goodbye so he suggested something we spoke about it then he changed his mind again in the morning.
Yes its hard nowadays, look at how many problems people have in relationships now and how hard it is to maintain one. People say they love their significant other but end up hurting them, thats because love and loyalty are two different things.
So u say this is what u do if someone like ur boyfriend hurts u and is not loyal or made a mistake
With this question, I am reminded about Katy Perry's hot and cold, i think some people are loyal on the outside but are more changeable on the inside, some people do change their mind like a girl changes clothes
It actually is pretty hard to find for the most part, but not just in intimacy but in almost all facets of life.
I don't know. It depends. Loyalty like not talking bad things behindert peoples back is not that hard to find but real loyalty is hard to find... Maybe it's even hard to find someone who is not talking bad things
Most virtues are hard to find now since our societies have abandoned honor
99.99999% of people aren't loyal these days to anyone
Absolutely... a lot of people have fucked up values in life. That's why I have a lot of associates but I keep a tight circle of trusted friends.
No, loyality isn't hard yo find but, it is hard to keep. We all are human and, we change with time. Some stay loyal while, some don't.
I have a hard time being loyal myself. just honest..
Yes but some people abuse it im loyal but if the person is shady and takes me for granted i play them
Yeah, sometimes it is hard to find. People can be real assholes lol.
Yes. Its very rare, short lived and conditional too. If u get it by any means, never let it go.
Ohh princess loyalty is new luxury & expensive. Don't expect from cheap n poor people.
Loyalty can be found anywhere, no matter what economic status one has.
Well, I had some inloyal LDRs, and they all said it was due to a lack of near.
No but we common people do kill loyalties of a good person by hitting and targeting them i believe
No if you are positive. Yes, if you are pessimistic.
nope. you just need to find a normal partner
Yes. It's rare. There's no other answer than that.
Good question... I don't know actually :(
When I come to level 2 the first thing will be to pm you
What does that mean?
I have known you for about 6 months through gag it's not a day1
Oops my bad
Yes, especially with all the feminism nowadays.
This is the only answer that should take precedence over the anything else. Feminism has completely eradicated loyal women. You see.. The bad apple spoils the bunch, so it's hard to find a bunch of women without a feminist bad apple spoiling them and urging them to cheat and monkey branch over to the next man and, and , and, and , I LOVE THIS ONE!! "KEEP HER OPTIONS OPEN" , and that is when she is in a relationship, engaged and even married. FEMINIST BS.. YOU GO GIRL>> KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN! Uh, have the women figured it out yet , why they can't find a loyal man or even a man that even gives a shit anymore, lol. Keep up the good thinking women.. and marry your vibrators!!
Yeah. It's rare. Usually, it's effortless.
not with the right person
if you're ugly then yes.
So true 😩😩😩😩
no. not really
its too damn hard
Yeah
Highly
now adays YES !!!
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