Because many don't know what loyalty is nor how to be loyal and those whom knows what it is seeks it. Now days most people have three thoughts in their minds ''Me, My self and I'' i meet these people all the time and their argument is : If i don't put my self first ! Who will? It sounds logical at times abut on the other hand if you don't others first (partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, family member) who will?
The last 20 or 30 years becoming selfish people made it a ''good'' thing somehow and they are passing it through generations and it leads to loyalty becoming old new (rare)
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A wise man once said a woman is only as loyal as her options. And in the world of online dating her options are vast. So give up on women they are a lost cause. Instead improve everything else in your life and live as best you can
People are becoming self centered and so absorbed on how they feel in the now. They can't deal with not immediately getting what they want. And mainstream media is so obsessed with rimancism and sexuality. I am so sorry though.
You can鈥檛 get loyalty from a person who is not fulfilled by you. True loyalty is based on what you can provide them.
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Because we live in an age of instant gratification and if it doesn't work out like that most people lose focus.
You must be asking for the wrong people
Because of instant gratification and swipe culture. If person A doesn't provide you with exactly what you want right now, then just hop onto social media or swipe apps and find an upgrade within a few days. It's easier for women to do this than guys, though.
A skewed teaching of independence and that makes being spiteful, hateful, a liar and a cheat as an ok way to live an independent life, scavenging from trusting and loving people.
Yes I know some people are hopelessly gullible good friends fix that. But not all people are so lucky or problems so simple. But these people take full advantage of these people and often get away with it. Often resulting it the good guy or nice gal getting fucked over royally.
Lucky if they "ONLY" get screwed over.Loyalty is too much to ask for from guys because most of thre females are going for idiots who has good looks and popular with him having his way on the girls because of his looks and popularity among womens, making girls look like an idiot chasing the guys who is just having his way on the girls, same goes for the guys aswell, except for some trully loyal person
It's not! When you are a well rounded person all the qualities necessary to make a person whole is what they represent to themselves if they are aware of it as well as to the world. Good you dont have to ask for, bad you dont ask
It isn鈥檛. I鈥檓 sorry you feel that way. Youve just not chosen your relationships well enough.
Loyalty is not too much to ask of me in any kind of relationship. I guess some people think it is old fashioned. And perhaps their relationships suffer in some way as a result.
Not sure. Perhaps most people are only in it for themselves. Which is why we have a steady spike in individuals without friends, single individuals, depression etc...
No, unfortunately people are just selfish and idiots, loyalty is so important, it鈥檚 so easy for me to be loyal to those I care for
Nothing is for free even loyalty. If you want loyalty you have to offer something that has a value for your partner. Your loyalty isn't often that valuable for your partner as it's for you.
No, but you can't expect it or enforce it. It just has to be there as a conscious decision developed over time.
It's not. People are the same as ever. Maybe your expectations are unreasonable, or you are placing trust in the wrong people.
It's only not too much to ask for if you're someone who's okay with compromising on what you want.
To easy not to be. there's a lot of shitty people out there
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1. Selfishness has taken over the world.
2. Loyalty can be misplaced.Cause it is getting down these days.. Loyality needs catalysts and sometime fears..
Or is it that your need for loyalty has deepened recently?
lol pretty much yeah, that's the biggest possible ask in the modern dating market
Loyalty is not too much to ask for. It should be something normal and obvious.
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