Do you think there is a loyalty paradox when it comes to who you choose to stay faithful with?

[jennifer_bloom]

I find people are more devoted to their partners when they choose them because they are attainable and easy to keep, and less loyal when they choose them because the person appears to be their dream partner. My friend said Mark Zuckerberg believes Priscilla loves him and wants a girl that won't cheat on him or divorce him for a better looking guy so he choose somebody equal to him in beauty and not somebody fifty times more beautiful that might be with him for the wrong reasons because they find somebody much better looking then that. I used to like a disabled guy because I wanted an extremely kind and intelligent guy with low enough standards that I could date him and keep him. I knew I could get a guy with more money earning potential, but there was no guarantee they won't replace me with a prettier or richer or younger girl.

[Finchie40]

To really know someone’s true intentions is a shot in the dark, and the chance we take when we meet someone, that we are attracted to and feel we have a lot of chemistry and connection with , but to know for sure I they are on the same page as ourselves is the chance we take hoping they feel the same way about us. I take relationships seriously , I am not going to get into a relationship with a girl to be single , I am going to treat her the same way I want to be treated , I am going to respect her the same way I want to be respected, it won’t always be perfect , we will have our disagreements on things but my instincts is to try to fix what is broken between us instead of just walking away thinking I am right and she is wrong , If she chooses to walk away cuz she feels she can’t be wrong then I let her go and realize she didn’t value me like I valued her , One thing I learned about relationships is for a relationship to work and for love to grow , both partners have to make each other their top priority , remove selfishness for each other , resist temptations for each other , understand what you don’t want your partner doing to you , needs to go for you as well, when boundaries are set in a relationship. You both need to follow those boundaries or your relationship will not survive , Just because you are not getting your way doesn’t mean you run to someone Else to get your way,. When you learn to remove selfishness and make your partner your top priority , your partner will more than likely do the same for you , If they choose to walk away then let them go and realize you deserve someone that values you like you value them , it needs to go both ways or it will not last period , People that cheat are selfish people that will never experience true love , they will only experience the consequences of their actions of being considered a POS

[Lynx122]

I think it's just about priorities. I don't think chasing after the best looking or richest or highest status mate that you can possibly attract will lead you to a positive place so making a compromise for a relationship where you feel there will be stability and long term positive outcomes is just a reasonable and smart thing to do isn't it? It seems like you're thinking in some way negatively about people who "settle" or I just sort of get that vibe from your question. I don't quite understand what the paradox is that you're talking about it all makes sense to me.

[Anonymous]

I first need to find a partner who likes my body type.ﾠ

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the like @jennifer_bloom 🙂

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahaha funny comment

[CoolCatMar1]

And what is your body type that you are scared you won't find a girl?

[Opinion Owner]

@CoolCatMar1 just look at my pfp. It's more like I'm attracting a @boobslayer than anyone else.

[RealMarek]

I think some people think this way subconsciously or consciously, but not everyone.