I went on a date with a guy a few nights ago and it went really well. We ended up staying in the bar for 7 hours, the chat was great and I felt like he was really keen. When we said goodnight he told me he wanted to see me again and took my number (we were previously talking on tinder). He text me the next day all day, and all of today. The texts have been really good, lots of questions and flirting but no mention of a second date. In my experience, when a guy is interested, he locks down a second date before the first is over, or within the first few text messages. So is hope lost, or should I carry on the chit chat?

U should definitely Carry on... as per my opinion guy is not insecure...

Try something like : "You didn't even once try to ask for a second date?"

Don't think about it too much, just carry on. He may just be busy. You should keep yourself busy too

Why stay seven hrs while you could stay seven minutes.

Wait two weeks from first date, then ask him out if he still no action :)

When you feel to do it again. Love has no time n bars 😁.

Carry on the chat, the good things will roll for sure

Don't thing about anything, if you want to do something, do it

Just carry on the chatting i don't think you need to worry too much just yet

Till just now because I am telling Did you come for a date with me? Lol

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Amanu Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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U should definitely Carry on... as per my opinion guy is not insecure...

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LordBli Follow
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Try something like : "You didn't even once try to ask for a second date?"

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mynameisbry Follow
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Don't think about it too much, just carry on. He may just be busy. You should keep yourself busy too

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harryngalla Follow
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Why stay seven hrs while you could stay seven minutes.

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baryh Follow
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Wait two weeks from first date, then ask him out if he still no action :)

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prabs10 Follow
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When you feel to do it again. Love has no time n bars 😁.

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mrmxyzptlk Follow
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Carry on the chat, the good things will roll for sure

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sexalgr Follow
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Don't thing about anything, if you want to do something, do it

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jacksims Follow
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Just carry on the chatting i don't think you need to worry too much just yet

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Till just now because I am telling
Did you come for a date with me? Lol

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Anonymous
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Don't wait. Ask him out. Why do you feel he needs to ask you?

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Why don't you ask him? Gender equality: use it!

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  Awesome! Glad it worked out for you :-D
  
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Bridgeburner206 Follow
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What prevents you from asking him out?

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Felinegirl Follow
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Don't wait and just ask him?

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jacquesvol Follow
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You too can propose a date.

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Izumiblu Follow
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Just st go ask him out.

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Chaz269 Follow
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Don't wait. Ask him out.

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NicoletteKomotov Follow
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Be a powerful woman and take charge. Take him out

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- NicoletteKomotov
  
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  Good job!
  
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Laurenlava Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29 , mho 51%

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Why not just ask him on a second date?

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_bunny_ Follow
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I normally go 3 days after the first day

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Anonymous
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7 Hours? i am wondering how do people had so much god damn free time?

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AlwaysBelieving Follow
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What's wrong with you asking for a second date?

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He could be simply shy.

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  Congratulations!
  
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Names93 Follow
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Why don't you ask him out?

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Chasesullivan Follow
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Keep talking to him for a while

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LegateLanius Follow
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You could just invite him on a date.

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zagor Follow
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He might just be really busy.

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sidvt Follow
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Just u ask urself whts wrong

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Seppelson Follow
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Why don't you ask him out?

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AlexDelux Follow
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Why sont you ask him out lol

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Nahid1234 Follow
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Don’t get your hopes up.

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natuterloveman Follow
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If date went good I would think ask right away

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papaonlegs Follow
Xper 4 Age: 35

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Ask him on the second date. He'll appreciate it

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Anonymous
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I think within the week

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hamzahunter Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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Let's go on a date rn

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carlosfelipe Follow
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You also can ask him out. No problem whit that.

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singhharpreet Follow
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About 2 meetings more.

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arjunraj1594 Follow
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You should carry on the chit chat..

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INDRANEEL123 Follow
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Probably he busy at his work.. or he is dumb

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jon28805 Follow
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Why don’t you ask him out?

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Balkrushna_S Follow
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If u like then why to wait, ask him

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baabygiirlxo Follow
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Carry on the chit chat! :)

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Menimeraj Follow
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7 days else interest over

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Luketravena Follow
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you should probabily hint something to him

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Ami-Jayne Follow
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Like a week

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LifeEqualsLove Follow
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Why the rush?

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ImMackFreeze Follow
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Next day or two

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Ask him out

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Anonymous
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as long as you feel you want to

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nenenena Follow
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Ask him

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baegirlbae18 Follow
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1 year

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  Jaja.☺️💕
  
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babaganoosh Follow
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Don't wait, inquire.

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KenKillsBarbies Follow
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There is no limit

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Jok3r21 Follow
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Give it time lol

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1 week

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nickaboy Follow
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You should ask him

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Ceasar_Rex Follow
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A week

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GayHowellMeme Follow
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2 week’s

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Ask him on a date

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Ask him out

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