''I am the same person I was but just a slimmer healthier version of myself. ''
What an utter load of over simplified bullshit. You aren't the same person. When you lose weight and become healthier, you don't only change physically, your vibration increases, you become more positive, give off a better energy, are nicer to be around, and hold yourself differently. Even your bodylanguage changes.
Your mind changes, self esteem increases. In short, you are an entirely different person now. It is your ego that wants to resent the people that now show interest.
Also, men and women are naturally attracted to health because it signifies better genetic potential, it's hard wired.
I am fit, muscular, healthy, strong, high energy and I want others to feel the same way. When people are around me, they often benefit in some way.
Now if I was over weight, unhealthy, low energy, slow, weak and tired, do you think as many of those people would e drawn to me? I doubt it... because we put out how we feel.
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I mean it's quite straight forward. You appear more physically attractive to the average dude after losing weight. And people treat those they find attractive better. I don't really understand how it's confusing. It's not like women wouldn't be more attracted to a guy after he lost weight. So there is no double standard.
Because they care about looks obviously. The question is will they still care if u gain weight again? If they don't, then it's only about your looks, they don't care about your personality
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Obesity is seen not just as unattractive but less than conducive to a healthy life. For better or worse, we live in a society where people are invariably treated and judged based on their appearance.
Personally, I don't find obese women physically attractive, no matter how nice their personality might be.Why do they treat you differently?
Girl you are treating yourself differently. Why wouldn't others do the same backed mWell.. you will also treat a fat guy different from a fit guy, won't you?
Those who are attractive are treated better. Now that you are attractive... They treat you better than before.It is in your self perception... And esteem will bring them at any weight
You look healthier, more responsible, and like you said, more confident
you appear more attractive to them because of weight loss. it's that simple.
Obviously cause you were less attractive while being overweight.
You can't seriously be asking this.
Because dating isn’t just friendship plus.
Cuz ure not T H I C C
Let’s see before and after
because men don't like fat girls i guess
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