If a girl were to wear just a bralette and some cute sweats to hang out casually (casual as in the environment, not the relationship- you're dating her and not just banging), whether that be to watch netflix or just cook a meal together at home, what would you think?
I feel super sexy in some fitted joggers and a bralette so I was wondering how a guy would react to me wearing that to chill in!
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Trashy or sexy: wearing a bralette and sweats to stay in with a guy you're dating/boyfriend?
Lol @ anyone who considers this trashy. Bralettes like the ones in your pics are by no means lingerie - I often wear them with a skirt or high waisted jeans + a cardigan or hoodie. I treat them like any other top (but ofc prefer the ones that aren't super plunging, not see-through and reach at least the bellybutton). But because you're just chilling at home, the length/coverage of the ones you showed are A-ok. Sweats are comfortable to wear at home too and are a step up from being in just your pyjamas. Since you're just chilling and it's with someone you're comfortable/intimate with, I'm not sure why you'd have to cover up more. I pretty much wear this when my boyfriend is around too, sometimes changing the lace bralette to any of my Calvin Klein ones that look a bit more sporty. Definitely not trashy. To me it looks comfortable and CUTE. It's way better than wearing super baggy trousers and an oversized sweaty t-shirt that you've got sauce stains on.
well, i can tell you that no man will stay apathetic to this kind of wearing. at least not the first or second time he's gazing upon you. but every sociologist will tell you that in order for you to create any indifference from the other side regarding anything you do, just keep doing it more and more. thats all... after the 10th time, he will be less aroused. i dont know if he ever ceases to get thrilled by that wearing since its attractive and yes, its sexy, but it will probably teach him some "restraint" in life. enjoy your cookings and casual hang outs.
I don't get how anything is trashy with your boyfriend... its your boyfriend... you can get piss drunk and puke on his dick... ya it's a bit trashy but it's with the guy you are with.. so whatever
just dating.. well then I think you should keep it as classy as you can unless it's within context.. like if you guys just have that weird strange connection where you can just do strange things with each other and it seems ok...
I say whateves I know when I dated my first girl... we as a group of friends use to drink all the time... so like sloppy, slutty snanky like like always... lol but it was with each other only so it was fine you know
I feel like if he or she is comfortable to be able to wear that stuff around you then that is how they are and just go with the flow. It's not like other people's opinion matter, in the end it's just you and her. The more comfortable you can be around each other the better
It's sexy if YOU are sexy. Girls don't seem to understand that guys by and large DO NOT CARE about what girls are wearing. We do not care about styles. We do not care about female fashions. If we are interested in a girl, it is because we think she is attractive. Period. And clothing does not make a girl more attractive, because she sure isn't going to be wearing clothing when we're having sex with her.
So, these girls above are sexy as hell, because they're slim/fit/hot/sexy. They are NOT slim/fit/hot/sexy purely on the basis of what they are wearing. It's the other way around entirely: What they are wearing is sexy because of them.
Honestly sounds like my kind of girl , I loved staying in with my girl in the past. Staying home in comfy clothes being lazy , watching tv and just being togeather that was r&r. Being comfortable around the house and still sexy in clothes not ment to flatter but they still did anyways , thats just... ohh the nostalgia. So many fun lazy weekends...
I'm definitely going to be in the minority but sweats are actually a big turn on for me. The first picture is amazing! My first girlfriend loved me because I actually got her sweats like in that picture for her bday aha
Really if that's what you like go for it. You won't have a hard time finding someone who like it too. Even if everyone said it was trashy, the fact that it makes you feel sexy is the most important thing
If you were dressed likethat I'd think you were more interested indoing something other then watching Netflix or cooking
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yeah I feel that. in my personal opinion though if I were dating them and they were at my place they'd likely stay the night if I was at all serious with them!
It does look sexy and also comfortable, so I think that's a win-win. I can't really say it's trashy, after all, it is more than I wear when I'm hanging out at home, I'm typically shirtless and just wearing gym shorts.
From your description it's at home. For this it'd be fine and sexy. Just hope she realizes that I might want to do something other than cook at any time.
UK here. In this country jogging bottoms are considered chavwear, but I don't want to be prescriptive. If you're just chilling at home wear whatever you like.
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