Can I date a guy thats like 8 years older than me?

Question

I really like this guy but he's like about 8 years older but he's single and soo cute!! and he's really nice and he wants to adopt kids and he is soo cute!! but do you think it would work out? because the age gap is pretty big and i wasn't even planning on having a boyfriend in hishschool but he's just so perfect!!

by the way im 15 and he is at least 22 and under 26 years old (im not totally sure but he is really perfect!)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

At that point 8 years is a bit too much in my opinion. Age gaps matter less the older you get. Think:40/48 and 15/23. A lot happens between your teenage years, a 15 year old and a 23 year old are usually in quite different places in life.

ghostqueen · Accepted Answer

In theory, yes. You gotta ask yourself, what's wrong with the 22 year old grown man that wants to date a 15 year old girl? There's definitely something wrong there.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You’re 15 soooo no. If you were 18 it wouldn’t matter. But you’re underage you don’t know what you want yet.

JulieXO · Accepted Answer

I think you're too young to date a 26 year old. When you're older it's fine, but not quite yet.

MarcoAurelio · Accepted Answer

You should care about other things at your age, but if you really like him and don't want anything sexual, there's nothing wrong :)

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

At your age, you should not be dating a guy that age. It would be different if you were 18 or older.

Carley99 · Answer

Ohk girl be real a 22 year old guy is going to wait until 5 years from now to have sex with you?  That's highly unlikely.

Rissyanne · Answer

It makes me wonder why a grown man wants to date a teenager.

Anoniem71 · Answer

Age doesn't really matter but when you're this young it's just wrong..

Gianna17 · Answer

Wait until your legal age of consent in your state/country to do anything

abithomsom · Answer

Yeah go for it , I’m dating a 23 year old me he’s 7 years older than me

vjedi · Answer

You being under age at this time I will say no. Once you're 18 and a legal adult, I don't believe any age is too old.

Greaver · Answer

Uh you couldn’t date him in Florida because it has to be a 5 year difference but go for it take risks

BigSausageHouse · Answer

I know some people who are married 15 years apart and I don't know if they can/will have children or anything but it seems like it's worked out pretty well

kaskas19 · Answer

Don't talk to men older than you right now. Wait until you're older.

Retief · Answer

I wouldn't say its the age gap. Remember he is 22. Practically a man. And a man Wants to have sex. He will make a move

lordhossein · Answer

yes, 8 years is not such a big gap in my country the gap is always like 5-10 years and the relationships are usually good. so i suggest you say yes

Anonymous · Answer

You might get in trouble or he will for dating a minor. But i personally don’t think it’ll work. You won’t be able to give him what he’ll want.

girlukr · Answer

What your parents would say if they found out?  8 years is too much, you are too young ta date him.

JesseTheMan · Answer

If you want to, go for it. But you probably shouldn't have sex before it's legal.

ShesAmerican · Answer

Yeah age doesn't matter and prison is just a room

grinwoody · Answer

Don't, date someone your own age. Jesus christ.

hasrett · Answer

That is too big of an age gape when you're 15.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

At some point when you're older.

CrazyyChick · Answer

Of course you can

CT_CD · Answer

age doesn't matter, date him now

Can I date a guy thats like 8 years older than me?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Can I date a guy thats like 8 years older than me?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.