I can't get an attractive girl to love me because I'm not good looking I'm fat ugly short and I'm 24 and I never had a girlfriend or been kissed and still a virgin so fuck my life Only way i can feel better and move on is if an attractive girl loves me until then my life sucks all my friends are happy with their attractive girlfriends and wives i want what they have i want their lives cause mine sucks here's what i look like.
How can I get an attractive girl when I'm ugly? 24 never had a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date even, only want attractive girls?
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I’m not going to sugar coat this. First of all lower your standards. How can you expect a Victoria secret model to be interested in you when their way out of your league? that’s probably why your a 24 year old fat, insecure virgin your to picky. If you want attractive girls to be into you how about you work on your appearance. Lose weight, wear nicer clothes, get a decent haircut and work on your confidence. Being self pitying and insecure is not attractive on anyone pretty or ugly. If you don’t want to put the time into your appearance then you’re going to have to settle for a woman at your level or lower.
ok wow. just wow. You are having a serious poor me moment. Like HELLO if you're feeling fat, THEN WORK OUT! simple solution, all it takes is not being lazy and getting off your ass. As for the ugly, you actually have a cute face, so don't try using it as an excuse! Looks like it's your attitude that could use the most work! Also if you won't accept girls for how they look and only look for the most attractive ones, then you deserve to be judged!!
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I've had a lot of bad experiences with rejection and girls have given me dirty looks and laughs at me meanwhile my friends have happily ever afters with their girlfriends and wives all smokeshows and I'm all by myself
And the difference between your friends and you is probably, most likely, the fact that you're friends don't sit around feeling sorry for themselves 24/7 and don't give me the "they don't have any reason too". They didn't have their girlfriends or wives their whole lives and before that they weren't sitting around feeling sorry for themselves.
You seem to love to complain because that's all I see from you on here. Go do something about it. Don't like your weight? Go work out. You don't have to go the gym. There are countless of workout videos on YouTube and you can workout from home. Go better yourself first then worry about getting a girlfriend. You can't expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself. Go learn how to love yourself first.
ok basically number one is that if you reject any girl that isn't a 10/10 then you deserve to be laughed at or made fun of because essentially that's what you're doing to girls who aren't 'pretty enough for you'. But here's the thing... attractive girls are in high demand - so if you want one you're going to have to put some effort in! go to the gym and workout, start maintaining a healthy lifestyle, stop eating crap. Yes I know that everyone says personality is most important, but you need to look attractive enough for people to care enough to get to know your personality. And like I already said, you have the potential to be attractive.
No but only extreme awkward or annoying girls who are 1s and 2s like me so I don't want them cause they're like the worst I'm not asking for Jen Selter but why is it only Jabba the hutt likes me?
I don't know you personally so I can't say what your personality is like at all, i don't know if you're annoying or not, confident or not, etc. However, judging on looks only, you just seem like someone who is lazy and doesn't care about their looks or health at all. You also seem whiney and you would rather blame everything else instead of changing. How do you normally approach girls?
k number one, you need to improve your selfie taking skills lol... that sounds stupid but on a dating app thats what people are judging you by. And at a bar or whatever just be totally confident in yourself, pretend that you are the best looking in the room - no, don't act like a cocky son of a gun but just carry yourself in a confident manner. Be funny and outgoing, and if there's no chemistry or you aren't getting positive signals, then move on!
I have a guy friend your height who is very attractive and lots of girls like him. The difference between you and him is that he works out and eats healthy so he's gotten muscular and also has confidence
Even after I lose weight I'm gonna have left over hanging skin like a flying squirrel and I have mantits they'll sag too its gonna take probably 2 years to lose my amount of weight
Dude it's definitely your personality that is your problem. Even if you were hot, you're just plain mean. Gentlemen don't call women who have approached them "Jabba the hut". They appreciate the attention and respectfully decline. Besides what is different about those girls approaching you and you approaching a really attractive women? Let me just tell you, you are not going to get someone out of your league. Do you want someone slim? You need to be at a healthy weight. Someone kind? Be he kind person you want to attract.
My brother is hella hot 10/10 guy and has been invited in modeling and acting industry, still her girlfriend is average attractive. While he can easily take any girl he wants. I think you are being shallow. Son't lrt your insecurities make a wrong choice.
That's what happens when i grew up the nerdy loser whose poor and couldn't get girls in high school i became shallow when all the girls didn't want me especially when all my friends got girls with no effort
Man... Stop complaining and calling yourself a loser. If you don't like yourself and hate it, how can you expect hot girls liking you? Beware of pity of yourself.
And you better stop being that picky.. so you only want attractive women fuck that dude find a girl who would love you the way you are and *better hit a gym tho) find a girl with a good personality whom you'll love with all your heart not a girl with good looks whom won't even last a month think wise dude
Maybe try losing weight ( not trying to be mean ) usually some attractive girls wants the guy to be attractive as well. Since you already know why the attractive girls doesn't like you, you should start doing things about it, like losing weight, eating right, lifting weights.
You look fine. Kinda cute, in fact. Start talking to any female you feel you can approach to get practice and build up a more realistic view of your worth. You're not so bad.
Think about this, though. Being liked by a pretty girl won't validate you. Why not ask girls who don't knock you out with their looks to go out with you? It all makes you the man you will be. You will learn about women.
I feel like you could be significantly more attractive if you went to the gyn and got a different haircut
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Shit you're actually good looking. You have good features. Work out both physically and mentally. Believe me you can get a decent looking girl just work on yourself and your confidence.
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1. Stop being picky you shoud go for the inside not the outside. 2. Loose weight, start working out. 3. Be social and Nice
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If you had an attractive girlfriend what's sad is you would treat her like shit.
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