Why can't I get women 😭 Am I ugly idk?
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Its simple.
1. You don't initiate your wants and desires.
2. You have nothing to offer in a relationship.
3. You probably don't even know WHY you want to date in the first place that have 0 to do with sex or keeping up with the jones.
4. You don't know what type of woman your looking for.
5. Biggest problem? Your seeking WOMEN not a WOMAN.
6. Your desperate.
7. Have you tried dating your friends that also believes in dating friends?
And taking a picture of your body and face is not going to help you in the long run. You'll just get people to judge your body and appearance and still feel like crap even if they do think your unattractive. You need to focus on yourself and stop worrying about your looks.010 Reply- +1 y
I'm looking for a girl who's into dorky things and who is funny and can take a joke more of a cutie than a hotie,
why I want a relationship because I'm looking to improve both myself and someone else and by motivating each and other a long term relationship.
Lmao that's all I got 😂
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The point is again as I told another guy. WHY are you DATING? Because some want to get married, have children and few like me believes in waiting till marriage to have sex. At the same time, having a stable place to live and showing you're a leader of your own right as a man is very important. It's not so much of having a car. But that you can get these things without having to use your material possessions to get a woman. As I also pointed out, WHAT type of woman are you looking for? You have those who desire to marry young as you are of age to get married. And you have those who just want to fool around sexually unmarried, whether with you or not. You also have to prepare for the consequences of a premarital sexual relationship. Because there is a reason why sex is a marriage and marriage is all about having sex. And that is because God made sex to be a spiritual and blood contract. Without knowing these things, your making yourself not only gullible and naive but showing others your incapable of doing what is right for yourself and possibly others. You must showcase your worth by not trying to be like other men. Be your OWN MAN.
You're going to school right? Good. Focus on college and getting a good job. You can always get a car once you have the finances to do so.
You don't need sex or a woman at this point in time. You need to build yourself up as a man.
In the meantime, learn to make some friends, and form proper relationships. When you mingle, be friendly and show your happy single, you start attracting good people in your life. As well as the bad. But the main thing is that you keep your eyes on the future. Becoming a man of ambition is important to any woman and female. But not everybody you meet is compatible with you. So focus less on looks. And more about what makes you happy as a person. You like games, go for it. Your music? Do it. Art, perfect it. Sports, get to it! Writing? Get better at it. Good writing skills leads to good oral skills. - +1 y
Well, personality type wise. I say for you is INFP, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ, ENFPs and maybe healthier INFJs and ENFJs. But you most want from what you're saying outgoing I's and Es with feeling traits. So stick with those who are ISFJ, ISFP, ESFJ. Most sensors are your type. As most Judgers like me and Thinker types aren't going to feel too happy being around a jokester all the time. So if you encounter somebody who is less of a feeler and is a judger, remember that they need consistency. And too much 'games' will turn us off.
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That was beautiful,
Your a 100% right I'm not in it just for a quick good night
I want something long term like obviously marriage is the end goal. although it's tuff on men because of divorce laws.
But your definitely right, im trying to fit in to what people expectations are instead about worrying about myself.
It's just that when your 18 year old male you have all these hormones it's messes with your brain and makes it so you can't think straight.
But yeah im always happy doing the things I love doing, working out playing videogames.
I guess the thing is in highschool I seen all my friends and people having sex and doing these love dovy thing with there partners and I just feel like I'm missing out on that opportunity and experience, even though i know it will come with time.
There's always a though in my head telling me if I don't hurry this up I will loose my chance and be single and alone for the rest of my life
Thanks a lot sir/ma'am.
by the way do you have a YouTube channel?
I like meditation and spiritual stuff of that nature maybe it can help me out a little. - +1 y
No I don't have a YouTube channel. But I do recommend looking up Mark Gungor as he is a marriage speaker and author. You can borrow or purchase his books and listen to his matieral online. and Dr Myles Munroe. He was a pastor that died a few years ago. But they're still wanted to people that put up his material on YouTube. He gets very deep concerning about marriage, bonds, sex, Etc.
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Your very welcome. I am a woman and never dated or had sex either. I'm not worried about being alone forever if my values and my heart isn't wanted. I have my own reasons for it. And even I'm not in a healthier place for that myself. So I'm only telling you what I've been through too. It's not easy being alone but it does get easier with time IF you allow it.
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You look just fine. I imagine you just need to get out there more.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yAre you an asshole? Because I honestly can't see another reason
01 Reply- Xper 7 Age: 22+1 y
You look fine but can always groom your appearance and personality.
00 Reply - Xper 3 Age: 36+1 y
You are not ugly. Some women have a preference on what they like 🤷🏾♀️
01 Reply - Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
maybe it’s about your personality I don't know
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