Community of trusted and anonymous friends where girls and guys help each other.
  • 0/150

  • Feed
    • Popular
    • Questions
    • Help Needed
    • Polls
    • Live Feed
    • myTakes
    • Topics
  • Topics
  • Search
  • Sign Up or Log In
    • Girl's Behavior Girl's Behavior
    • Guy's Behavior Guy's Behavior
    • Flirting Flirting
    • Dating Dating
    • Relationships Relationships
    • Fashion & Beauty Fashion & Beauty
    • Health & Fitness Health & Fitness
    • Marriage & Weddings Marriage & Weddings
    • Shopping & Gifts Shopping & Gifts
    • Technology & Internet Technology & Internet
    • Break Up & Divorce Break Up & Divorce
    • Education & Career Education & Career
    • Entertainment & Arts Entertainment & Arts
    • Family & Friends Family & Friends
    • Food & Beverage Food & Beverage
    • Hobbies & Leisure Hobbies & Leisure
    • Other Other
    • Religion & Spirituality Religion & Spirituality
    • Society & Politics Society & Politics
    • Sports Sports
    • Travel Travel
    • Trending & News Trending & News
    • Manage Topics
  • Marriage & Weddings Shopping & Gifts Technology & Internet Break Up & Divorce Education & Career +15
Dating

Why can't I get women 😭 Am I ugly idk?

zeineboyy
zeineboyy Follow
Xper 4 Age: 22
Follow
Facebook
Twitter
WhatsApp
10
Why can't I get women 😭 Am I ugly idk?
Why can't I get women 😭 Am I ugly idk?
Post Opinion
7 Opinion
Like
Share
Follow
1 likes

zeineboyy wants to hear from Girls only. Login to share your opinion.

Most Helpful Opinions

  • btbc92
    btbc92Influencer Follow
    Master Age: 31
    +1 y

    Its simple.

    1. You don't initiate your wants and desires.
    2. You have nothing to offer in a relationship.
    3. You probably don't even know WHY you want to date in the first place that have 0 to do with sex or keeping up with the jones.
    4. You don't know what type of woman your looking for.
    5. Biggest problem? Your seeking WOMEN not a WOMAN.
    6. Your desperate.
    7. Have you tried dating your friends that also believes in dating friends?

    And taking a picture of your body and face is not going to help you in the long run. You'll just get people to judge your body and appearance and still feel like crap even if they do think your unattractive. You need to focus on yourself and stop worrying about your looks.

    0
    10 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      GOOD ADVICE, I'll admit half of these do apply to me.
      I mean though at 18 what am I gonna offer to a women a don't even have my own car. also how the hell am I supposed to persue women and not look desperate? I don't know I'm confused with half of these.

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      I'm looking for a girl who's into dorky things and who is funny and can take a joke more of a cutie than a hotie,

      why I want a relationship because I'm looking to improve both myself and someone else and by motivating each and other a long term relationship.

      Lmao that's all I got πŸ˜‚

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      The point is again as I told another guy. WHY are you DATING? Because some want to get married, have children and few like me believes in waiting till marriage to have sex. At the same time, having a stable place to live and showing you're a leader of your own right as a man is very important. It's not so much of having a car. But that you can get these things without having to use your material possessions to get a woman. As I also pointed out, WHAT type of woman are you looking for? You have those who desire to marry young as you are of age to get married. And you have those who just want to fool around sexually unmarried, whether with you or not. You also have to prepare for the consequences of a premarital sexual relationship. Because there is a reason why sex is a marriage and marriage is all about having sex. And that is because God made sex to be a spiritual and blood contract. Without knowing these things, your making yourself not only gullible and naive but showing others your incapable of doing what is right for yourself and possibly others. You must showcase your worth by not trying to be like other men. Be your OWN MAN.

      You're going to school right? Good. Focus on college and getting a good job. You can always get a car once you have the finances to do so.
      You don't need sex or a woman at this point in time. You need to build yourself up as a man.
      In the meantime, learn to make some friends, and form proper relationships. When you mingle, be friendly and show your happy single, you start attracting good people in your life. As well as the bad. But the main thing is that you keep your eyes on the future. Becoming a man of ambition is important to any woman and female. But not everybody you meet is compatible with you. So focus less on looks. And more about what makes you happy as a person. You like games, go for it. Your music? Do it. Art, perfect it. Sports, get to it! Writing? Get better at it. Good writing skills leads to good oral skills.

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      by the way I don't. Have many friends let alone female friends I was a big geek in highschool pretty much the weirdo who the stairs to avoid people although I have changed my awkward shy ways.

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      Well, personality type wise. I say for you is INFP, ISFJ, ISFP, ESFP, ESFJ, ENFPs and maybe healthier INFJs and ENFJs. But you most want from what you're saying outgoing I's and Es with feeling traits. So stick with those who are ISFJ, ISFP, ESFJ. Most sensors are your type. As most Judgers like me and Thinker types aren't going to feel too happy being around a jokester all the time. So if you encounter somebody who is less of a feeler and is a judger, remember that they need consistency. And too much 'games' will turn us off.

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      Learn to make friends. But don't call everybody your friend. It's okay to be shy. Just let people like you for you. Not a robot version.

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      That was beautiful,

      Your a 100% right I'm not in it just for a quick good night

      I want something long term like obviously marriage is the end goal. although it's tuff on men because of divorce laws.

      But your definitely right, im trying to fit in to what people expectations are instead about worrying about myself.

      It's just that when your 18 year old male you have all these hormones it's messes with your brain and makes it so you can't think straight.

      But yeah im always happy doing the things I love doing, working out playing videogames.

      I guess the thing is in highschool I seen all my friends and people having sex and doing these love dovy thing with there partners and I just feel like I'm missing out on that opportunity and experience, even though i know it will come with time.
      There's always a though in my head telling me if I don't hurry this up I will loose my chance and be single and alone for the rest of my life

      Thanks a lot sir/ma'am.

      by the way do you have a YouTube channel?
      I like meditation and spiritual stuff of that nature maybe it can help me out a little.

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      No I don't have a YouTube channel. But I do recommend looking up Mark Gungor as he is a marriage speaker and author. You can borrow or purchase his books and listen to his matieral online. and Dr Myles Munroe. He was a pastor that died a few years ago. But they're still wanted to people that put up his material on YouTube. He gets very deep concerning about marriage, bonds, sex, Etc.

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      Your very welcome. I am a woman and never dated or had sex either. I'm not worried about being alone forever if my values and my heart isn't wanted. I have my own reasons for it. And even I'm not in a healthier place for that myself. So I'm only telling you what I've been through too. It's not easy being alone but it does get easier with time IF you allow it.

      Reply
    • btbc92
      btbc92
      +1 y

      Both have YouTube channels.

      Reply

Most Helpful Opinions

  • GigiMary
    GigiMary Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 27 , mho 41%
    +1 y

    You look just fine. I imagine you just need to get out there more.

    0
    3 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      I live in a small city I rarely see a girl my age that I find attractive.

      And even then she doesn't look at me.

      I've tried online dating I get like 10 matches and two reply for and hour than they ghost me.

      Reply
    • GigiMary
      GigiMary
      +1 y

      Just try asking a girl out that you find somewhat attractive. If she says no, try again with someone else. You shouldn't let a couple rejections or ghosting's get you down.

      You'll find someone, don't worry. Just try to be nice, sweet, kind, and brave. Good luck!

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Alright, well I'm a stubborn cat so giving up was never part of my plan.

      But yeah I'll definitely try asking more girl out thanks for the advice Gigi πŸ™

      Reply

What Girls Said

5
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (18-24)
    +1 y

    Are you an asshole? Because I honestly can't see another reason

    0
    1 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      No I'm not an asshole πŸ˜’, lol don't girls love assholes anyways.

      Ik my photos look douche but I was tryna emphasize that I take care of myself.

      Any constructive criticism will be appreciated

      Reply
  • kayaleyla285
    kayaleyla285 Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 22
    +1 y

    You look fine but can always groom your appearance and personality.

    0
    0 Reply
  • ladyflair87
    ladyflair87 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 36
    +1 y

    You are not ugly. Some women have a preference on what they like 🤷🏾‍♀️

    0
    1 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Yeah but you would think I would find a girl out of the thousands I talked to who prefer me but that hasn't happened. I don't know lol my sister call me ugly

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (18-24)
    +1 y

    maybe it’s about your personality I don't know

    0
    1 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Well I mean how is a girl supposed to see my personality via photos

      Reply
  • apple24
    apple24 Follow
    Master Age: 27
    +1 y
    5.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Yup your gross

    0
    5 Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Can you expand on the reason I look gross.

      I just Wana know if it's
      something I can work on.

      I've always had terrible skin acne and oily skin that's why
      I recently bought tiege.

      Any constructive criticism is welcomed.

      Reply
    • apple24
      apple24
      +1 y

      You look like my half brother. Its not that your ugly its that I would;t date someone that look like my sibling. Even guys that I have thought were ugly and short had pretty girlfriend. Its all about how you treat yourself.

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Oh that's interesting self care is definitely important your right.

      Reply
    • apple24
      apple24
      +1 y

      I don't even me. A girl almost 300 lbs had guys who liked her. lol

      Reply
    • zeineboyy
      zeineboyy
      +1 y

      Well thing is the sexual market place is different for both men and women.

      But hey don't give up you'll loose the weight if you try.

      Reply
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Home > Dating > Questions > Why can't I get women 😭 Am I ugly idk?
Add your reply For "{0}"
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more

Related Questions

Husband rejected my offer of an open marriage for his benefit? Females, would you date a man who was only 5'10.5" (179 cm)? Are jealousy and possessiveness the dark forms of love? How do I find a boyfriend when I'm shy and have zero social skills? Rate my date idea? Guys, would you date a girl who has a powerful position at work and makes more than twice more... Why do men cheat even though they have a beautiful girlfriend who will do everything for him?
Cast Your Vote
Do you agree that girls who bleach their hair are fake and plastic?
Yes
No
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Please select your age
Anonymous
Anonymous
Other

Popular Questions

Does your city charge you for sewer? Is It Ever Okay To Sleep With Someone On The First Date? Do you have a creepy house near you? How are you today?
Show All
Popular Questions
  • Girls, What are the Ways for Men to Say They Care About You?
  • My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried?
  • Girls what does the 😌 emoji mean?
  • How do I ask for a girl's Instagram?
  • "How Do You Feel About Me?" Best Answers to This Situation!
  • Do guys really like girls with thick thighs?
  • Girls, What Makes a Man Fall Deeply in Love With a Woman?
  • What does the date under "Hey there I am using Whatsapp" Status mean?
  • What's a good comeback when someone jokingly calls you old?
  • When a girls says "I'll let you know" what does it mean?
Recent Questions
  • Is connecting everyday with your girlfriend/boyfriend good or bad?
  • What makes some men mature or immature, and what makes some immature or mature is their personality traits?
  • Do I have a spending problem?
  • What’s better? A meaningful relationship or casual?
  • Does it bother you that your partner's is friends with her / his ex?
  • Is it normal for messages to slow down a little after the first date?
  • Should Ireland massacre 200,000 dairy cows to reduce their methane emissions?
  • What is Your Most Prized Possession from Way Back?
  • At the end of a first date, if he thinks you aren't a good match, how/when do you want him to tell you? Guys, how do you tell her?
  • Why do some men like to wait until they’re established to date seriously?
  • Help
  • Contact
  • Terms Of Use
  • Guidelines
  • Privacy Policy
  • Sitemap
  • Featured Questions
  • Topics
Popular Topics
Dating Education & Career Entertainment & Arts Flirting Food & Beverage Girl's Behavior Guy's Behavior Health & Fitness Relationships Technology & Internet
Girls Ask Guys
©2023 GirlsAskGuys ™
Apple Store Google Play
Join with {0}
Loading...