Is it OK for a 9th grade guy to date a 11th grade girl?

[Anonymous]

Do you think that it is OK for a 9th grade guy to date an 11th grade girl? Yes or no?

[half-pint]

Since my son was a freshman, senior girls wanted to date him. I told him not to do this and have fun with girls his own age...I am really scared of the "teen mom" epidemic running crazy across this country. You young men have got to be careful with these young women today. I tell my son to wear a condom even if she tells you she's on the pill ! Most senior girls and boys go through a little bit of an identity crisis that last year of high school because they are unsure of their future plans and who they're going to be or what they are going to be. Which is why, in my opinion, a lot are choosing to be moms. It's an easy out...cuz their moms, the grandma, will help them. An excuse to stay home and not figure life out on their own. And then the boys life is effected.

My son is a junior this year and has earned my confidence that girls can't manipulate him, even a crazy girl possibly going through an identity crisis...lol...so he currently is dating a senior girl already...probably out of curiosity more than anything at this point.

Just be careful son, no matter what the girls age is that you date. And your first sexual experience no matter how intense, will NOT be your last so don't ever let a girl hold anything over your head!

Good Luck! Sorry this is long!

[Starling]

Sure if he can pull it off, which is doubtful.

I can't say I know anyone in high school who would date that much below them, especially a girl dating lower. And being grade 9 , and 11 the maturity difference can be very vast.

[Anonymous]

ITS FINE IF You GO OUT WIT A 11TH GRADE BUT THE ONLY THING IS THAT SHE WILL LAEVE SKOOL N You WILL BE IN SKOOL N You WOULD WANT HER THERE WIT You CUZ THATS HOW I WAS

[nocrabcorejordan]

i did it before. she left for college and that was the end of it. its kinda pointless unless you are in love, you being a 9th grader I doubt it.

[dakota102]

hmm...in school its kinda difficult. but if you both like each other and willing to get past the age difference, it could work out. keep in mind that you both have to be on the same maturity level.

[whitetrashleyy]

the summer between my junior and senior year, I began dating a guy two years younger than me. he was just beginning his sophomore year. we dated for a year and a half, and although you could tell a slight difference in maturity...things went smoothly. it sucked when he couldn't drive for a couple months though. I hated being a chauffeur. I think any relationship can work if the two parties put enough into it. good luck!

[koolkatz99]

umm I would say no for a guy, I mean its not bad but girls should be the younger one. I dated a younger guy before and I was made fun of. but if this is you then I can't say for what people do.

[Anonymous]

Sure, what's wrong with dating someone that's a junior? As long as you like them, that's all that should matter.

[marrm23]

i think it is fine. there is nothing wrong. but if they were like 10 years older than no

[Shadoww]

sure

[Anonymous]

It is not fine