What’s the biggest dating disappointment you’ve experienced so far?

[AudreyB88]

[sarawelsh122]

A guy I dated I thought was a really sweet guy however after dating for awhile his true asshole self started coming to the light. Treated me like crap. Made me constantly cry. When we first started dating he said he would never treat w woman with such disrespect and yet there we were. For new years eve he took me to a subways causw he thought that was romantic. For Christmas he demanded all the stuff he wanted and when I opened up my gift it was some body wash his mom liked.. i didn't. For Valentine's day he took me to a Wendy's. I actually get bitter thinking about him. Felt like a bunch of time wasted I kept telling myself to look over everything because I loved him. I'm glad when I finally gave him the boot. My friends pointed out how you shouldn't be with a man who constantly yoyos and makes you walk on egg shells

[Tiyaa]

Before Valentine's Day, my boyfriend (now ex) said what do you think about doing Valentine's Day? And I said well I don't mind but it would be nice to I think. And he said well I don't really see the point of bothering.
So I sent him a nice message with a lot of effort put into it that day and he read it but didn't reply until late and even better, he only put 'thanks you too' 😂
... Urgh I had such bad taste in guys that time

[Anonymous]

Me getting called a bitch and sexually assaulted in public, and my boyfriend at the time not doing anything but had the nerve to ask me why I LET him touch me. Like I asked for a random jerk to grab me and touch me. Like WHAT DO I HAVE YOU FOR? What was it okay for him to think you're not not anything to be scared of by the way? Why am I with you? And really like -

[Opinion Owner]

*Why

[Doctor_Strix]

My date and I were at a park walking our dogs, and talking over Starbucks (Iced Americana, double espresso, and double sugar). When all of a sudden, we walked up on a burrowed hive of bees. And they start hovering around us. I’m a beekeeper, and the last thing you do is panic (or breath out your mouth). What does she do? She panics, and starts waving her hands all over the place; screaming at the top of her lungs. She is stung not once, not twice, but five times... Turns out, she’s horribly allergic to bee stings. She begins going into anaphylactic shock. Luckily, I always carry a epinephrine shot. So while she’s regaining the ability to breath, I’m running to catch her dog. We all pile up in my truck. And head straight to the hospital.

We dated for three years after that. 🐝

[idiotmanchild]

Everyone I've ever dated ended up showing up because they had nothing better to do and I paid for the dinner...

[Pinay_ako]

When they turned out to be the same person I told them I didn't want to be with from the start...

[GingerGuy]

I met someone online and we decide to meet for a date. We were meeting at a restaurant. I got there first. She came in the parking lot all happy and excited (I could see through her car window). When she got out and got up to me face to face, I could literally see the disappointment sweep across her face. Like I had just murdered someone close to her or something? lol Total disappointment I could tell. And I have NO clue as to why? It baffled me because she had seen pictures of me, so what was it? I knew right then and there that she was done in her mind. I wanted to ask her if she just wanted to leave (I might have I can't remember?). But she went through with the full date anyway, why I have no idea? I know I did give her opportunities to leave and end the date, but she didn't take me up on them? But again, why I have no idea. It was very awkward and uncomfortable the whole time and needless to say, there wasn't another one.

[J4Zzi3]

... when after dating a year
she ask me to pick her up at 6pm. meet her at her apartment at 6 and she said she's going to watch movie with her friends. I said movie is only around 2-3 hours I'll wait her at the lobby she say ok.
wait till 9pm and called her. but she turned her mobile off.
still waiting for her till 6am and forcefully get back home coz the caretaker gonna call the cops.

and found out after a while that after movie she spend the night with her guy friend apartment after.

anyway it was long ago happy valentine day all ^^

[Guanfei]

Went to meet this girl, was quite hyped about it, but I wasn't good at dating. So I stupidly bought her flowers. So we meet, and she just stays there, waiting for me to keep the conversation going, never initiating it. After an hour or so, she takes her phone and (badly) pretend she has to go for some kind of emergency. I knew it was fake but since she wanted to leave so badly, I didn't insist and went with it.
A bit later, while walking home, I found the flowers I gave her in a bin nearby. This is what hurt me. I found it really mean and disrespectful.

[BananaGrey]

Fortunately, I've only dated one
person and we've been in each
other's daily lives since we were
nine year old kids.

An item since we were thirteen
and husband and wife now,
for seven years.

But I would say planning this date out to this California theme
park called Knott's Berry Farm
on a Saturday. It was our first
time out on a actually date, away
from family and the neighborhood. Took a lot to
convince our parents to let us
travel so far with any chaperone.

We finally get there and it's pouring down rain, so hard
the park announces they're
closing as we arrive at the
gates to pay... Heartbreak
man😭

But we made the best of it,
as much as we could away
from our city.

[Anonymous]

My lack of dating and relationships. It seems as if everyone my age has had more relationships than me, most lasting longer than any of mine.

I've only had very brief relationships, and have gone a VERY long time between them.

No one's flirted in ages. I barely get compliments.

When I was younger, I thought I would have figured it out by now, at least a little. I figured if I wasn't married, I'd at least have had more relationships, or I'd be able to get dates. Nope.

[TripleAce]

how the mass majority is just a one trick pony
money, big dick, good looks...
that's what love is these days

the days of finding women that are pure from the inside out are gone almost... not many left

[genericname85]

you ask a girl out that looks hot in her close up portrait picture on a dating site aaaaand she's fat... happens all the time xD that's why i now always ask for at least one full body picture so i can stop wasting my time on this bullshit.

[Anonymous]

where do i begin :
1- after lots of interest shown on both sides, and after i approach her, talk to her for a while she starts getting distant... and then i find out the reason : she has a boyfriend ( happened enough time to upset me)

2- she acts super interested, we talk, joke around, she sounds cool and attracted to me, then suddenly she's gone...

3- girls who only date you if you have a flat or car

[Anonymous]

my first love broke up with me after ghosting me for a week and then telling me that he was on a trip with one of our friends and didn’t realize how pretty and awesome she was :/ oh and that he fucked a dude while we were dating

[Max_winner1]

You have a plucked up choice of men. My boy friend screwed another man... wyd.

[Opinion Owner]

well how was i supposed to know he would do that?

[laurieluvsit]

I've had more than one enduring self-centered guys talk about themselves all night.
Wake me up when it's over... lol

[Immortal_God_King]

Women. The very best of them aren't fit to meet what a homeless George Costanza look alike could reasonably demand as a minimum standard.

[tek555_pessimist]

Complete lack thereof. Some people have complimented me on my hair (apparently some like curls?) but none I was interested in.

[Danny_dan92]

Went on a date with some girl from tinder. I mean she was by far the most socially awkward person I’ve ever met. Couldn’t hold a conversation at all and was wayyy too shy

[USA1960]

It happened to me when I was in the Marines. Long story made short. When she got into the bed, and I got behind her. Sheena was a man! Damm that Funky Cold Medina.

https://youtu.be/63ZIf2H9S0E

[BigJake]

I was seriously in love with this girl I knew in college. I stalked her for a long time and didn't think she liked me, only to find out that she thought I was great. When we finally went on our first date after a year of wanting, it was a disaster. Nothing went right. And our chemistry fizzled so quickly it still baffles me to this day.

[apple24]

I never been on a date. Or maybe I did. He kept talking about himself the whole time. Lol 😂

[kunalmehta005]

My girlfriend cheating on me for someone she newly met and giving him more priority than me... And I mean way more priority and importance...

[Mrblueballs42]

A girl that I talked to online and our first date was at jack n the box she looked like richard sherman and acted like him.

[Unesjomajo]

I liked him, he didn't like me and later told me he is back together with his ex while he texted and did stuff with me.
I feel very worthless since then.