Is he ghosting , not interested or workaholic?

[Anonymous]

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he hasn't messaged, call or Snapchat in 6 1/2 days. He’s been on Snapchat cause his Snapchat numbers go up from opening or sending snaps but he will open a snap if I send one but won’t respond.

He has not deleted me off Snapchat. He still has me on his tinder match/Message. And as far as I can tell hasn’t deleted my number.

im currently not talking to him and leaving him alone for few days to see what happens then on third or fourth day I’ll call him and basically ask what’s going on. Are you suddenly not interested or is work just crazy busy right now.

I dont understand the not deleting me/Blocking me on everything. I’m still on everything of his. I know he’s a night owl like me so why can’t he snap or text me at night? But he can open/Send snaps if he is.

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ok so met a guy on tinder we started talking. As soon as we exchanged numbers we were talking all day every day and I was getting good morning text messages every day. And he would call me after he left work. One day he abruptly stopped texting me at 1:49 after texting all day. So I thought it was weird.
The Next day and the half days he stopped talking to me completely with no explanation.

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+1 y

ok so met a guy on tinder we started talking. As soon as we exchanged numbers we were talking all day every day and I was getting good morning text messages every day. And he would call me after he left work. One day he abruptly stopped texting me at 1:49 after texting all day. So I thought it was weird.
The Next day and the half days he stopped talking to me completely with no explanation. So I was sending him snapchats and he was opening them but no responses and I would text him (He doesn’t

[AskAlthea]

Your profile is private so I can't see your question history for the background.

1. Not a workaholic. 6.5 days? A standard workweek is 5 days, presumably he'd have time on the weekend, not to mention in the morning or evening (before/after work).

2. Ghosting = Not Interested. He is probably ghosting you. Perhaps he is simply no longer interested. Perhaps he found someone else that he's more interested in. He has time to open your snapchat, clearly there is some free time in his day. A guy ghosted me before, I sent him a snapchat request a day or two before he disappeared on me. And then out of nowhere at some point in time later, he accepted my request even though he had already ghosted me at that point. Why do they do it, who knows, but it doesn't matter, if he's not interested, MOVE ON. I deleted him off my snapchat when I realized that he later accepted my request.

[AskAlthea]

So something similar happened to me. We met on tinder. We chatted, he would send me texts all day, even while he was on vacation, at his friend's bachelor party, at the wedding, etc. We had 3 dates that all went well, he was sweet. And then one day, he suddenly stopped texting me. The jerk ghosted me, didn't have the guts to say he changed his mind. This is the same guy who accepted my snapchat friend request some time after he ghosted me (I don't know when he accepted but we weren't friends when he ghosted and I only checked my friends list a few months ago and lo and behold he was there). Who knows what goes on in their mind, but it's not okay to disappear off of the face of the earth like that, so if they do it, they're ghosting you and you should just move on, he probably did.

[Asker]

So even if your still on his tinder and Snapchat he’s ghosting? I didn’t talk to him for two days straight and I texted him today saying “Hey you available to talk?” And nothing! I don’t know if tomorrow I should call him. I really just want answers at this point

[AskAlthea]

Uh no, what I said was if he hasn't messaged you in almost a week then he's ghosting you.

[CaudaVulpes]

Do you see this person irl? If you do, why haven't you asked?

It's too vague to determine if he likes you, doesn't like you, is ambivalent, or even the nature of your association. Have you been on dates? He's single and looking, or suppose to be, judging by the fact you say you've matched with him.

If sparks aren't flying, love surely is dying.

He should have said something to you already. You two should have been on dates and continued to express interest by getting together for coffee or dinner. People that have interest will *make* time for one another in their lives, even if they are hectic and chaotic.

It's possible things are chaotic, but that wouldn't stop him from reaching out to meet up or keep things going.

[Bellydancer83]

He's busy with other options