What would be the ideal height difference between you and your partner?

E. G: I would like her to be 3-5 inches shorter than me. Please also include your height. I am interested in a variety of people’s answers here


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  • I'd like there to be around a five inch different. 5'8 is what I consider ideal to me at least. If there isn't that much of a difference then oh well. It's not going to be a deal breaker.

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  • It's not relevant. Find someone that likes YOU just the way YOU are. You're not gonna change it anyway.
    And if you're a guy, why do you have a pink moniker?

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    • Erm I’m a girl

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    • That was an example smh

    • That makes sense ^ Either way, it isn't a grammatical error and there are always other possibilities.

  • Height didn't really matter to me, but i'm 5'10 and my ideal girl should be around 5'4-5'8, you know, with that it's just easier to kiss her forehead and her head would be on my chest whenever we hug.

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  • 171 cm (online there are converters). For no logic reason I never targeted ladies taller than me. I have taken samples from same height to ca. one head length less. Emotionally it does not matter to me at all. However, I found that certain 'activities' are easier when size is not too different from each other.

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  • this is a stupid question , if you find good chemistry none of this matter, people just hold on to things like height when they can't find a good chemistry so their mind rely on other things

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  • Being a gut I don't mind how tall a girl I like is. I used to date a girl who was 4'9 and I am tall (I don't measure myself ) and I was fine with that. But I know a lot of guys who are 5'7 and they feel like shit and when they hear that

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  • Still a little shorter than I am, even if she's wearing heels. I'm 5'10, so less than 5'5 is ideal.

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  • I'm 183cm. I guess the ideal height difference to me is when she is about 170cm height. But it also won't be a deal breaker when she is only 160 height or even when she is as tall as me.

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  • A head's length shorter so I can rest my chin on her. 😂

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  • I have a thing for short women. I'm 6' and I would prefer someone under 5'3". It's a small preference, but a preference nonetheless.

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  • Ideally, I'd like her to be exactly the same height as me (5'11).

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  • I guess the ideal height difference will be 10 to 15 cm shorter than the partner for a girl. The difference in height should be enough to let her wear her heels and not be a giant next to the partner.

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  • I am 5'11" and prefer a girl with the height between 5' and 5'10"

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  • I am 6'5" and I did like being with a 6'3" girlfriend.

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  • 15” shorter or so.

    But anything from close to my height to like 2’ shorter might work.

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  • Don't really care about her height, I mean I'm used to short girls but I don't mind if the girl is as tall as me or whatever, I'm 6'0" sooo

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  • I don't care about height if i love her then height doesn't matter

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  • Needs to be a good hugging height. I'm 5'6 I'd like her to be my height or right around there a few inches

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  • Pretty close to my height, so I don't have to break my back, or reach things that she can't loo

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  • Ideally, I'd like for me and my partner to be equal in a few terms. Height, age, body mass...
    (Obviously not boobs, hair or shit like that)

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  • 5-6 inches shorter or the same height seems to be the two most common answers.

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  • Im 5"7 and i just want to be taller than her while she's in her favourite pair of heels.

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  • I'm 6'1 (still growing btw) and i would prefer my girlfriend to be 10-20 cm (~3-8 inch) shorter

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  • I'm 6'1", and I don't really care about her height.

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  • I want her to be the height that means my chin can rest on her head and her head is against my chest

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  • I don't care but I like short girls (150-160cm range, I'm 190)

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  • Anything above 4'8" and below 6'3" is fine by me, I'm 5'11 by the way

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  • As long as you're into your partner difference in height doesn't really matter. I'm 5ft 5 and 3/4.

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  • I'm 5'5" and I'd like her to be around 4'6" - 4'8" so she'd be 9" to 11" shorter than me

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    • Dude lol most girls aren't that short. That's like 8 or o year old height. I'm 4'10 and that's like 12 year old height

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    • That's so depressing lol

    • Haha well I'm considered a midget amongst men in my country and girls don't even bat an eyelid at me, I don't exist to girls cuz I'm short. They all want the guys around 6 feet tall. But being a girl you have an advantage cuz guys are attracted to shorter girls.

  • 6'3. I really don't care about height. I just want to be in love with someone who loves me.

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  • I generally don't care too too much but like a foot or so is what ends up happening 6'0"

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  • a foot.

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  • Well i am 5'5 and my boyfriend is 6'2. Aslong as they are taller i'm not too bothered aslong as they aren't ridiculously tall.

    I'm not the smallest woman i reckon i'm pretty average, but to have a guy that's like 6'5 would be a nightmare as he's far too tall 😂

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  • About 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I'm 5'9 and don't really wear heels bigger than 2 inches ever, so I'd always be at least a little shorter, but I wouldn't ever feel completely dwarfed (I'm kinda proud of how tall I am. I wouldn't like feeling tiny next to my partner)

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  • I'm 5'2. I'd say the ideal is maybe like 6 - 8 inches? My partner is 10 inches taller than me which is a bigger height difference than I like so a bit shorter than that is good.

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  • I'm 5'3. I would like for my guy to either be my height or taller. I'd prefer maybe 3-5 inches taller so I could wear heels and not be taller than him but it's not a deal breaker if he isn't

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  • As long as he is taller than me and not 4'11 like me I'm happy.

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  • I'm 5' 2" and I prefer for him to be taller than me

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  • My husband is 6’ without boots I’m 5’2 and a half so bout 8 and a half inches different he rests his chin on my head

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  • i break peoples faces for truck loads of money and then bounce

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  • I’m a little taller than five five and I want a guy that is still taller than me when I’m in my my heels

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  • I don't really care. My SO is shorter than I am by 3 inches, but love is love.

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  • Im 5" ft n anyone i date is always taller than me, but i dont really care about height as long as there is a connection

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  • I'm 5'7 so I'd like for my S/O to be either around my height or taller, around 6'3 ish lol. But of course if he is shorter then that's fine too.

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  • I’m 5’2”. I’ve never met a guy my age shorter than me but I wouldn’t be opposed to dating him because of his height, height doesn’t matter to me.

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  • I like a foot taller. That way when we stand together and he hugs me my head can rest on his chest

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  • I love guys who are much taller. It makes me feel safe. So I'd say anywhere from 8"-10" taller than me

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  • I'd like him to be at least 6 inches taller, my current boyfriend is 9 inches taller. That makes it perfect for me to sit on his lap comfortably or for him to rest his chin on my head.

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  • I honestly don't have a preference. I'm about 5'2".

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  • I don't really care much. I do like taller guys, but it won't stop me from saying someone the same height as me or only a little bit taller

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  • I'm fine with how much taller he is and it's a pretty good difference. He's 5 or 6 inches taller than me. (He's around 6'3)

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  • My partner is 7 inches taller than me. I’m 5ft 5 and he’s 6ft. It’s pretty perfect.

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  • I’m 5’3 and like tall guys, so 7 inches to a foot difference.

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  • Preferably 3-4 inches taller than me as I am 5'9 myself

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  • I'm 5'3" and I'd say anywhere from an inch or two taller than me to around 6'

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  • I do about fucking height this is a stupid question

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  • 3-6 inches, I'm 5'7" so I really want a guy who's about 6 feet

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  • I literally don't care as long as you're at least an inch taller than me and I'm 5'1

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  • 4 or 5 inches... so if I wear heels I don't surpass him

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  • My SO is 6'2" and I am 5'4".

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  • i'm around 5"8 and the guy that I like is 6"

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