E. G: I would like her to be 3-5 inches shorter than me. Please also include your height. I am interested in a variety of people’s answers here
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What Guys Said 54
- Browneye57Guru mho 14%
It's not relevant. Find someone that likes YOU just the way YOU are. You're not gonna change it anyway.
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- Browneye57Guru
@kaskas19 "I would like HER to be..."
Why would a girl prefer "her girl to be" then?
I get it, and such poor grammar. Whateves.
This whole business about whether some is tall enough, big enough tits, ugly vagina, hair color, all this mystery, is simply just silly. You're not gonna change any of it anyway, at least not realistically without major surgeries or cosmetic upgrades. And who's going to pay for that? And at what end? Where does it stop?
No, the VERY most important attribute you can have that any guy will place as the first priority is... wait for it... YOUR desire, passion, attraction, for HIM! The rest of all this is mental masturbation. Just find a guy that like YOU just the way YOU are.
And the opposite is true as well - find a guy you like, just the way HE is. Cuz you're not going to change him into something different than what he already is.
- sophisticatedbeing3 Xper mho 32%
Height didn't really matter to me, but i'm 5'10 and my ideal girl should be around 5'4-5'8, you know, with that it's just easier to kiss her forehead and her head would be on my chest whenever we hug.
11|00|0 - andreasderjuengere6 Xper mho 8%
171 cm (online there are converters). For no logic reason I never targeted ladies taller than me. I have taken samples from same height to ca. one head length less. Emotionally it does not matter to me at all. However, I found that certain 'activities' are easier when size is not too different from each other.
11|01|0 - RumEro6 Xper mho 3%
this is a stupid question , if you find good chemistry none of this matter, people just hold on to things like height when they can't find a good chemistry so their mind rely on other things
44|00|0 - Hamsy2 Xper mho 0%
Being a gut I don't mind how tall a girl I like is. I used to date a girl who was 4'9 and I am tall (I don't measure myself ) and I was fine with that. But I know a lot of guys who are 5'7 and they feel like shit and when they hear that
11|00|0 - Vicimer1 Xper mho 40%
Still a little shorter than I am, even if she's wearing heels. I'm 5'10, so less than 5'5 is ideal.
11|00|0 - Leo35726 Xper mho 6%
I'm 183cm. I guess the ideal height difference to me is when she is about 170cm height. But it also won't be a deal breaker when she is only 160 height or even when she is as tall as me.
11|00|0 - DodgersGMMaster mho 14%
I have a thing for short women. I'm 6' and I would prefer someone under 5'3". It's a small preference, but a preference nonetheless.
11|00|0 - being_haqueish1 Xper mho 0%
I guess the ideal height difference will be 10 to 15 cm shorter than the partner for a girl. The difference in height should be enough to let her wear her heels and not be a giant next to the partner.
11|00|0 - martin844444 Xper mho 18%
I am 5'11" and prefer a girl with the height between 5' and 5'10"
11|00|0 - UltraGamer6 Xper mho 9%
Don't really care about her height, I mean I'm used to short girls but I don't mind if the girl is as tall as me or whatever, I'm 6'0" sooo
11|00|0 - CharlesP2 Xper mho 0%
Needs to be a good hugging height. I'm 5'6 I'd like her to be my height or right around there a few inches
11|00|0 - steveguitarGuru mho 11%
Pretty close to my height, so I don't have to break my back, or reach things that she can't loo
11|00|0 - mrsterlingarcher5 Xper mho 4%
Ideally, I'd like for me and my partner to be equal in a few terms. Height, age, body mass...
(Obviously not boobs, hair or shit like that)11|00|0 - OpinionnotHate5 Xper mho 12%
5-6 inches shorter or the same height seems to be the two most common answers.
11|00|0 - jamesouellette4 Xper mho 15%
Im 5"7 and i just want to be taller than her while she's in her favourite pair of heels.
11|00|0 - Steve0985 Xper mho 6%
I'm 6'1 (still growing btw) and i would prefer my girlfriend to be 10-20 cm (~3-8 inch) shorter
11|00|0 - Whysosirius75 Xper mho 5%
I want her to be the height that means my chin can rest on her head and her head is against my chest
11|00|0 - krowlordz5 Xper mho 2%
Anything above 4'8" and below 6'3" is fine by me, I'm 5'11 by the way
11|00|0 - TheGenerousThief1 Xper mho 0%
As long as you're into your partner difference in height doesn't really matter. I'm 5ft 5 and 3/4.
11|00|0 - Nachowedgie6 Xper mho 2%
I'm 5'5" and I'd like her to be around 4'6" - 4'8" so she'd be 9" to 11" shorter than me
11|00|0- kittycat1199 Xper
Dude lol most girls aren't that short. That's like 8 or o year old height. I'm 4'10 and that's like 12 year old height
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- Nachowedgie6 Xper
Go to Asia and those sorts of heights are much more common. I've seen some fairly short Asian girls and a few of them have been 4'7" or 4'8"
- kittycat1199 Xper
Yes but if you look up the height kids should be by a certain age 4'10 Is the height a 12 year old girl should be. And actually the heights you like is more common in European countries like Bolivia. Asian women tend to be 5 feet or a little more then that
- Nachowedgie6 Xper
What country are 12 year olds ment to be 4'10" in? Because it's not the same for every country.
The Average height for say a Japanese Women is 5'2.5" in comparison to the country I live in right now which has an average height for women of 5'5" meaning those small heights that I like will occur more often in Japan than they will in the country I'm in. - kittycat1199 Xper
America and a decent amount more. Which is why I'm basically a child among giants here
- Nachowedgie6 Xper
Well the average height of a 12 year old in Tokyo is 4'12" so I think your stats are off
- Nachowedgie6 Xper
Haha well I'm considered a midget amongst men in my country and girls don't even bat an eyelid at me, I don't exist to girls cuz I'm short. They all want the guys around 6 feet tall. But being a girl you have an advantage cuz guys are attracted to shorter girls.
- mrmagic11171 Xper mho 0%
6'3. I really don't care about height. I just want to be in love with someone who loves me.
11|00|0 - elementalArisen3 Xper mho 4%
I generally don't care too too much but like a foot or so is what ends up happening 6'0"
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What Girls Said 39
- PeekABooItsMe5 Xper mho 19%
Well i am 5'5 and my boyfriend is 6'2. Aslong as they are taller i'm not too bothered aslong as they aren't ridiculously tall.
I'm not the smallest woman i reckon i'm pretty average, but to have a guy that's like 6'5 would be a nightmare as he's far too tall 😂11|00|0 - evm9875 Xper mho 11%
About 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I'm 5'9 and don't really wear heels bigger than 2 inches ever, so I'd always be at least a little shorter, but I wouldn't ever feel completely dwarfed (I'm kinda proud of how tall I am. I wouldn't like feeling tiny next to my partner)
11|00|0 - faucheleventMaster mho 20%
I'm 5'2. I'd say the ideal is maybe like 6 - 8 inches? My partner is 10 inches taller than me which is a bigger height difference than I like so a bit shorter than that is good.
11|00|0 - Calamité5 Xper mho 5%
I'm 5'3. I would like for my guy to either be my height or taller. I'd prefer maybe 3-5 inches taller so I could wear heels and not be taller than him but it's not a deal breaker if he isn't
21|10|0 - mrs-turner975 Xper mho 20%
My husband is 6’ without boots I’m 5’2 and a half so bout 8 and a half inches different he rests his chin on my head
11|01|0 - Felicity1232 Xper mho 18%
I’m a little taller than five five and I want a guy that is still taller than me when I’m in my my heels
11|00|0 - _live_in_happiness_1 Xper mho 0%
Im 5" ft n anyone i date is always taller than me, but i dont really care about height as long as there is a connection
31|20|0 - fay237 Xper mho 9%
I'm 5'7 so I'd like for my S/O to be either around my height or taller, around 6'3 ish lol. But of course if he is shorter then that's fine too.
21|10|0 - terincvd4 Xper mho 12%
I’m 5’2”. I’ve never met a guy my age shorter than me but I wouldn’t be opposed to dating him because of his height, height doesn’t matter to me.
11|00|0 - kittycat1199 Xper mho 23%
I like a foot taller. That way when we stand together and he hugs me my head can rest on his chest
11|00|0 - Burnette015 Xper mho 14%
I love guys who are much taller. It makes me feel safe. So I'd say anywhere from 8"-10" taller than me
11|00|0 - berry163 Xper mho 2%
I'd like him to be at least 6 inches taller, my current boyfriend is 9 inches taller. That makes it perfect for me to sit on his lap comfortably or for him to rest his chin on my head.
11|00|0 - kaskas199 Xper mho 14%
I don't really care much. I do like taller guys, but it won't stop me from saying someone the same height as me or only a little bit taller
11|00|0 - MemeSupreme5 Xper mho 15%
I'm fine with how much taller he is and it's a pretty good difference. He's 5 or 6 inches taller than me. (He's around 6'3)
11|00|0 - Hidden_PGuru mho 16%
My partner is 7 inches taller than me. I’m 5ft 5 and he’s 6ft. It’s pretty perfect.
11|00|0 - Scarlettblaze5 Xper mho 13%
I'm 5'3" and I'd say anywhere from an inch or two taller than me to around 6'
11|00|0 - Stargazer144 Xper mho 7%
I literally don't care as long as you're at least an inch taller than me and I'm 5'1
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