What would be the ideal height difference between you and your partner?

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E. G: I would like her to be 3-5 inches shorter than me. Please also include your height. I am interested in a variety of people’s answers here

Zefram · Accepted Answer

There's almost a full foot between me (6'5) and my girlfriend (5'6) and almost 100lb weight difference between her (135 lbs) and me (230 lbs). It's tough to kiss her while standing unless she's in heels (even in heels she just makes it past my chin). It's also tough to do other things while standing too.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

I'd like there to be around a five inch different. 5'8 is what I consider ideal to me at least. If there isn't that much of a difference then oh well. It's not going to be a deal breaker.

evm987 · Accepted Answer

About 3 or 4 inches taller than me. I'm 5'9 and don't really wear heels bigger than 2 inches ever, so I'd always be at least a little shorter, but I wouldn't ever feel completely dwarfed (I'm kinda proud of how tall I am. I wouldn't like feeling tiny next to my partner)

PeekABooItsMe · Accepted Answer

Well i am 5'5 and my boyfriend is 6'2. Aslong as they are taller i'm not too bothered aslong as they aren't ridiculously tall.

I'm not the smallest woman i reckon i'm pretty average, but to have a guy that's like 6'5 would be a nightmare as he's far too tall 😂

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I'm 5'2. I'd say the ideal is maybe like 6 - 8 inches? My partner is 10 inches taller than me which is a bigger height difference than I like so a bit shorter than that is good.

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

4 to 8 inches taller than me. I'm 5ft 6.

Logorithim · Answer

Ideally, I'd like her to be exactly the same height as me (5'11).

AwesomeCookie · Answer

I'm 5' 2" and I prefer for him to be taller than me

jennifer_bloom · Answer

i'm around 5"8 and the guy that I like is 6"

andreasderjuengere · Answer

171 cm (online there are converters). For no logic reason I never targeted ladies taller than me. I have taken samples from same height to ca. one head length less. Emotionally it does not matter to me at all. However, I found that certain 'activities' are easier when size is not too different from each other.

Hamsy · Answer

Being a gut I don't mind how tall a girl I like is. I used to date a girl who was 4'9 and I am tall (I don't measure myself ) and I was fine with that. But I know a lot of guys who are 5'7 and they feel like shit and when they hear that

Calamité · Answer

I'm 5'3. I would like for my guy to either be my height or taller. I'd prefer maybe 3-5 inches taller so I could wear heels and not be taller than him but it's not a deal breaker if he isn't

avaava5959 · Answer

i break peoples faces for truck loads of money and then bounce

sophisticatedbeing · Answer

Height didn't really matter to me, but i'm 5'10 and my ideal girl should be around 5'4-5'8, you know, with that it's just easier to kiss her forehead and her head would be on my chest whenever we hug.

I_Do_Mind · Answer

As long as he is taller than me and not 4'11 like me I'm happy.

DodgersGM · Answer

I have a thing for short women. I'm 6' and I would prefer someone under 5'3". It's a small preference, but a preference nonetheless.

being_haqueish · Answer

I guess the ideal height difference will be 10 to 15 cm shorter than the partner for a girl. The difference in height should be enough to let her wear her heels and not be a giant next to the partner.

Burnette01 · Answer

I love guys who are much taller. It makes me feel safe. So I'd say anywhere from 8"-10" taller than me

RumEro · Answer

this is a stupid question , if you find good chemistry none of this matter, people just hold on to things like height when they can't find a good chemistry so their mind rely on other things

mrs-turner97 · Answer

My husband is 6’ without boots I’m 5’2 and a half so bout 8 and a half inches different he rests his chin on my head

Felicity123 · Answer

I’m a little taller than five five and I want a guy that is still taller than me when I’m in my my heels

fay23 · Answer

I'm 5'7 so I'd like for my S/O to be either around my height or taller, around 6'3 ish lol. But of course if he is shorter then that's fine too.

MemeSupreme · Answer

I'm fine with how much taller he is and it's a pretty good difference. He's 5 or 6 inches taller than me. (He's around 6'3)

terincvd · Answer

I’m 5’2”. I’ve never met a guy my age shorter than me but I wouldn’t be opposed to dating him because of his height, height doesn’t matter to me.

passinby · Answer

I am 6'5" and I did like being with a 6'3" girlfriend.

eurieka · Answer

I don't really care. My SO is shorter than I am by 3 inches, but love is love.

Browneye57 · Answer

It's not relevant. Find someone that likes YOU just the way YOU are. You're not gonna change it anyway.  And if you're a guy, why do you have a pink moniker?

CandacePerry · Answer

I do about fucking height this is a stupid question

OpinionnotHate · Answer

5-6 inches shorter or the same height seems to be the two most common answers.

kittycat119 · Answer

I like a foot taller. That way when we stand together and he hugs me my head can rest on his chest

Vicimer · Answer

Still a little shorter than I am, even if she's wearing heels. I'm 5'10, so less than 5'5 is ideal.

babylolita · Answer

3-6 inches, I'm 5'7" so I really want a guy who's about 6 feet

NeuroticCookie · Answer

I honestly don't have a preference. I'm about 5'2".

Hidden_P · Answer

My partner is 7 inches taller than me. I’m 5ft 5 and he’s 6ft. It’s pretty perfect.

jamesouellette · Answer

Im 5"7 and i just want to be taller than her while she's in her favourite pair of heels.

kaskas19 · Answer

I don't really care much. I do like taller guys, but it won't stop me from saying someone the same height as me or only a little bit taller

Scarlettblaze · Answer

I'm 5'3" and I'd say anywhere from an inch or two taller than me to around 6'

nikoluushkaa · Answer

I'm 5' 11' and ideally she would be taller than me.

browneyes13 · Answer

I’m 5’3 and like tall guys, so 7 inches to a foot difference.

Leo3572 · Answer

I'm 183cm. I guess the ideal height difference to me is when she is about 170cm height. But it also won't be a deal breaker when she is only 160 height or even when she is as tall as me.

martin84444 · Answer

I am 5'11" and prefer a girl with the height between 5' and 5'10"

steveguitar · Answer

Pretty close to my height, so I don't have to break my back, or reach things that she can't loo

Ayer93 · Answer

A head's length shorter so I can rest my chin on her. 😂

0112358 · Answer

15” shorter or so.  But anything from close to my height to like 2’ shorter might work.

UltraGamer · Answer

Don't really care about her height, I mean I'm used to short girls but I don't mind if the girl is as tall as me or whatever, I'm 6'0" sooo

_live_in_happiness_ · Answer

Im 5" ft n anyone i date is always taller than me, but i dont really care about height as long as there is a connection

berry16 · Answer

I'd like him to be at least 6 inches taller, my current boyfriend is 9 inches taller. That makes it perfect for me to sit on his lap comfortably or for him to rest his chin on my head.

Stargazer14 · Answer

I literally don't care as long as you're at least an inch taller than me and I'm 5'1

TheGenerousThief · Answer

As long as you're into your partner difference in height doesn't really matter. I'm 5ft 5 and 3/4.

alinakhanx0x · Answer

Preferably 3-4 inches taller than me as I am 5'9 myself

mrsterlingarcher · Answer

Ideally, I'd like for me and my partner to be equal in a few terms. Height, age, body mass... (Obviously not boobs, hair or shit like that)

Steve098 · Answer

I'm 6'1 (still growing btw) and i would prefer my girlfriend to be 10-20 cm (~3-8 inch) shorter

mrmagic1117 · Answer

6'3. I really don't care about height. I just want to be in love with someone who loves me.

Anonymous · Answer

Preferably a little taller than me which is pretty realistic bc I'm short

krowlordz · Answer

Anything above 4'8" and below 6'3" is fine by me, I'm 5'11 by the way

elementalArisen · Answer

I generally don't care too too much but like a foot or so is what ends up happening 6'0"

Pluto4prez · Answer

I'm 6'1", and I don't really care about her height.

Whysosirius7 · Answer

I want her to be the height that means my chin can rest on her head and her head is against my chest

Princebb · Answer

I don't care about height if i love her then height doesn't matter

JesseTheMan · Answer

I don't care but I like short girls (150-160cm range, I'm 190)

CharlesP · Answer

Needs to be a good hugging height. I'm 5'6 I'd like her to be my height or right around there a few inches

Nachowedgie · Answer

I'm 5'5" and I'd like her to be around 4'6" - 4'8" so she'd be 9" to 11" shorter than me

deadmeme · Answer

I'm 5'7, I'd be fine with her if she was my height or shorter

lynn1223 · Answer

4 or 5 inches... so if I wear heels I don't surpass him

KappasaurusRekt · Answer

About half a foot shorter than me, I'm currently 5,10ish.

Anonymous · Answer

I am 5'8 so Im short but I don't want my date or partner to be to much taller than I am. Other than that I could care less.

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