Respect to how you dealt with it. I had a similar experience.Do you think society today is raising people to be less loyal than, say, 50 years ago?
She didn't say it in an angry tone. It was more apologetic and a bit assertive, like "I'm really really sorry, but this is what I'm doing."I don't think anyone is being raised that way. It's the times. I'm not saying women didn't cheat way back when, but they have more freedom and independence now, so they don't need a man in their life. I'm all for that but if your life is dependent on another, you're less likely to betray. Men have always been in that position. With the internet and social media, we're just made more aware of it.
Good point, thank you for your reply
I had the exact same thing going with my ex for the exact same reasons. I ended up breaking up because I couldn't show her the love she needed.
Yeah. But on the positive side of a breakup i learned not to care so much about the little things..
It's sad because to them it's just fun and games while you might need years to recover and find trust in a partner again. Stay strong
Thanks man !
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As much as I hate to say this but being cheated on has in a way helped me look at love differently and has taught me to be not selfish in a relationship I learned love is a choice and it can only be guided love can not be forced , for love to grow you both need to remove selfishness and sacrifice some things and you habe tpnwear each other's shoes if you can't do that then You're better off just staying single and selfish
* yes I was hurt.
I'm sorry that happened to you. What a scumbag guy! A new family, with a baby? Despicable. I was in an 8yr relationship where we lived in our own places. My girlfriend was a boring prude who didn't satisfy me, and she wasn't really into changing that. So, I went outside the relationship for what I was missing in it. we're not together now, and that's one reason - she doesn't satisfy me, AND she ain't gonna change.
8 years together and living apart? I can see reason in your actions.
Tip of the iceberg, actually. How about this: she's in her 40's, never married (or engaged), no kids (and no abortions), and she left her family (just mom, and sister (with 2 kids and hubby)), and traveled to the opposite coast to live. When I told my sis about this new relationship (at the time, and all the things I just told you, my (mental health professional) sis told me it probably wouldn't work out because my new girlfriend was selfish, self-centered, not about sharing, etc, etc, and my sis was right, unfortunately for me. Oh, this girl has NEVER lived with a guy.
Yes I have, several times actually. I relate to what you are saying. But I cannot in all honesty say it was all their fault, I used to be just another "nice guy" and took shit from everyone. It changed me in a way that I live a pretty solitary existence nowadays.
No mr. nice, no more mr. clean... _Alice Cooper :)Your solitary existence is YOUR choice. Don't blame it on some bitch. Hit the gym, hard, and make LOTS of money, and you'll have pick of the best out there. Develop your game, your stature, your attractiveness, your financial picture. Girls will not be able to resist you. And figure they'll cheat or bail, but you'll have plenty to back them up. Women have a natural ability to have a backup plan, to have guys waiting in the wings in case you don't work out. Guys would do well to improve their situation like this as well, to spin plates, have a backup plan. A man on his life mission, being awesome, that is going somewhere and being someone, is virtually irresistible to women. It fits their dreamy idea of what a guy should be. NEVER, EVER put a woman on a pedestal - a woman is an adjunct to a man's life, a partner, someone to share his life with - not be the center of it. cont -->
The problem with the cheating wench is she's already lost all respect and really doesn't care - she's enamored with this new guy that's giving her all the attention. In order to keep a woman true you have to always lead, be fresh, but strong, be in charge. If you're weak or passive, or don't pay attention to her she'll seek it somewhere else. And there are ALWAYS some guys out there paying attention to her. No, the burden of performance is on the man. No beer belly, or sacked on the couch watching sports. Be a man on a mission and your woman will follow. She wouldn't dare risk losing you - you must be SO valuable to them they would NEVER stray. And if they did they know they'd be out on their ear. Boot her, get a new one. Go here and read: www.therationalmale.com
Hear hear. Being solitary is indeed my choice, I don't really see eye to eye with most people when it comes to what matters most in my life. And I'm doing well, I'm making a shit ton of money traveling the world eventho I only have a college degree. Got a home, a car, a motorcycle and I pretty much do whatever the hell I feel like doing in my spare time.Anyway, thank you for sharing your wisdom and I wish you well.
Lmao what a lame azs excuse
Lol i know right? He said it with a dead serious straight face too
Yea a deer caught in headlights lol that's ashame , well. good thing you busted him and didn't waste anymore of your time
@Finchie40 yeh i no idea i would find him cheating i was in shock. I just wish i would have notice the red flags earlier.
A lot of times the red flags aren't there so don't blame yourself for his wrong doings he is the one that is a piece of shit just remember love is a choice that can only be guided it can't be forced all you can do is walk yoir path and hope the person that gives you their heart walks right beside you , if they choose to leave then let them all we can do is keep walking until eventually you find that one that will stay by your side
Bitch. Sorry man. *back pat*
Sorry dude, karma's a bitch 🙄
It sucks, but at least she was honost and you didn't have to find out by other means.
And no I haven’t. Not that I know of
Perhaps it's society? How we are living for a "like" or a retweet? Instant gratification and not learning to work hard and see the value in things that people used to see?
Sorry to hear that! Are you alright?
I'm fine and loving myself more. I know myself worth now. Thank you! 😊
That's amazing. Hope your life become better. All the best and have a nice day.
Same to you! ☺️
5! I win... O shit, that's not how this game works :/Sorry to hear that, hope you recover/recovered well
Thank you and likewise.