Why do nice guys finish last?

[IrishHunk19]

[pasoccer]

From my experience, I've noticed a lot of girls date guys that treat them the way their fathers did. So the girls with a checkered upbringing end up with guys that treat them the same way.
The girls that like nice guys get snatched up fast, so. it seems like. us nice guys get stuck alone, or with girls. with issues. (that we percieve as issues)
Sadly, the older we get, the more. issues people have in general. The ones that got stuck with the bad guys sometimes learn from their mistakes, but they have the baggage of kids, which some of us nice guys can't handle, or we pick up the few nice girls that learned their lesson, or ended up being a widow.
On the non negative side, there are millions of women out there. Put yourself out there, give it a shot. The right one will come along some day. In the meantime, enjoy life.

[Dim1213]

Cause girls want what the bad boys have without getting hurt.
It's just what women want and desire. Nice guys finish last cause we help everyone else finish.

You can still be nice but you need to be aggressive and direct let her know you want her. Show her new things cause otherwise the girl will get tired of you looking for a sign she likes you. Girl won't give it ND you just have to go for it.

[MsLoli]

Some "finish last" because those girls that turned them down for assholes eventually come crawling back once they realize they're sick of being with assholes.
But most don't, at least as long as they are genuinely nice, and not just guys that consider themselves nice while actually being scumbags.

[lucas262]

On behalf of nice guys everywhete, girls who come crawling back after you have ur fun and get board, we don, t want you anymore.

[MsLoli]

Yup. Ain't nobody got time for that bullshit.

[JulieXO]

Cause the “nice guys” are usually just boring, awkward and butthurt dude who think they deserve all the chick because they’re nice. Everybody is nice. You gotta have something more to offer.

[Chthou95]

Looks and what else?

[JulieXO]

Sense of humor, common interests, spontaneity, sense of adventure.. every girl is into something different.

[NicoletteKomotov]

It's because they're gentlemen and they allow their women to have multiple orgasms before they finish last.

[lucas262]

Nope it I'm done 1st then that's just more time to focus on her, the bedroom is no place for chivalry. Ever hear the phrase a lady to others and a complete whore with you? Well I'm inventing it.

[ElBacon]

Nice guys don't finish last.

Guys who treat women like gumball machines do finish last.

By this I mean a "nice guy" will use their good intentions and favors to a girl friend and expect to eventually cash out on sex or a relationship. At the end of the day, they aren't really "nice guys".

[lucas262]

So true, trouble is most girls can, t yell the difference between genuine niceness and a fake. it, s too common I think to get the later also the way media portrays men as sex Hungary fools dosn, t help much either.

[Meninist]

They don’t, pushovers do.

You can be nice and assertive.

[OjosOscuros2]

Yes!

[Chelseachelsea]

Thank you!!! It needed to be said by a guy for someone to actually believe it. Cause i have been saying this shit for years and noone believes me.

[Meninist]

@Chelseachelsea it’s just a shame women seem to leave all the assertiveness up to men.

[Chelseachelsea]

Why would a woman want a man that can't take charge? It just shows us that you are not willing to go for what you want.

[Meninist]

@Chelseachelsea why would a man want a woman who puts no effort into the relationship? Where she can’t even pick up the phone and arrange a date. It just shows us you are lazy and after a free meal.

[Chelseachelsea]

Exactly, why would they?

[Chelseachelsea]

First date you should ask. Second maybe. Third it is up in the air. But, good comunication and an understaning of where things are headed is also important. But, no im not just going to go up to a man and ask him on a date. I would go up to them and chat and let him figure out if he is interested in asking me out.

[Meninist]

@Chelseachelsea seems a bit lazy and selfish if you ask me butnyou didn’t ask me so have a good one.

[Chelseachelsea]

I didn't ask. Im just giving my opinion. Haha

[Meninist]

@Chelseachelsea yep so like I said have a good one.

[Patriot357]

@Chelseachelsea yep that's just how it is. at least you approach people you're interested in unlike most women who wouldn't even consider approaching a guy they are really interested in.
that's just how the game is played, there are few women like yourself out there. kudos to you

[lucas262]

Society teaches us to be simps from day one, yes there are a lot of fake nice guys out there, but that is also because they where raised that way. A guy once told me I needed ,, honey,, to attract them. Meaning money 💰. Or favors etc resources. Damn that, why would, t I be good enough as a person? Why would I go out of my way and pay just for the pleasure of someone's company? I would, t no one should. If I'm on a date it, s because she wanted to be there with me and no one else.

[jamesmark1903]

There’s no such thing as a nice guy or bad guy. Everyone has a capacity to be nice and bad. It’s how you behave mostly matters. Girls are all scumbags regardless of guys they go for.

[RolandCuthbert]

But they don't. Some nice guys finish last and so do some jerks.

But one thing is true. Winners finish first. . . losers finish last. The rest of us are in between.

[Chelseachelsea]

They dont. Losers finish last noce guys get married and assholes get fucked and fuck with heads. Thats how that works.

[Vinayak009]

Because we attend tooo much time giving advice/ opinions.

I would like to correct you on this though.

It's not the nice guys who finish last, it's the dum guys.

The smart once know when to act nice and when to not.

[Nate_Rodriguez]

The "bad" guys usually only win over the women with daddy issues

[MrMilti]

Because women want to be entertained when dating and nice guys are just to boring for that.

[Whaaaaa]

Because your physical features are so unfuckable that it distracts us from your niceness

[LudsAri]

Because they're not manipulative or deceitful, I think!

[taleswapper]

Because when a good guy finishes, she's out of the game. so he was the last Kandidat! ;)

[Anonymous]

Nice guys finish last because they decide it's time to be nice...

[corlony5]

I think that sometimes nice guys finish last but not always it might just be that person is so nice that they themselves are too busy thinking about others than trying to do stuff for themselves

[Outlawed68]

I definitely didn’t finish last but I did think I would for a while.

[TheGreatShepherd]

We dont finish last, you can be nice and win just got to be strong and brave aswell as nice

[HereIbe]

Because we PACE ourselves to make sure SHE finishes first!
That's what makes us NICE!
Yeah, baby!

[Kyle_Jefferson]

The more interesting question is: How do you want to be loved?

[ChillGamer171]

yes 'cause girls want a little bit of danger in their lives and nice is sometimes blank

[Chthou95]

Nice guys don't finsih last, but guys who aren't confident or make their intentions clear do

[adrienadam]

Beeing nice has such a large meaning. You need to be balanced in your relationship.

[lomimore]

Becoz not a lot of nice girls are out there either

[Anonymous]

They finish last but good a girl goes for the bitches then for the good guy

[QuietRunner]

because we aren't aggresive

[DiegoO]

Only when a pedestal is used.

[Seppelson]

What is meant with that?

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

... they deserve to?

[Arslanbaig]

Because girls are stupid

[killmyinnocence]

Nice guys are shy...

[monicasagi]

Nope, they don't

[guahxd]

Cus u suck dick

[Anonymous]

Best saved for last?