Do nice guys really finish last? Why or why not?

[SamWinchester058]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Nice guys usually get nice girls and can usually recognize them. The ones that finish last or maybe never finish are the ones who always cry about not finding valuable women when they’re all around, but they just don’t want those, they just want low value women. They end up settling for less because they waited so long with their unrealistic expectations.

[Flower7]

Depends on what they look like.

[SamWinchester058]

There's some honesty. Thank you

[Flower7]

Thanks for MHO ❤️

[Makeushiver]

One of the reasons that cliche exists is that women don't cream their jeans over nice guys, bad guys do it a lot more. So being nice isn't a recipe for passion. It's good enough for a mild respect for being a solid breadwinner but as soon as she hears the rumble of Harley pipes, that's what gets her wet

[SamWinchester058]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Most do. Because if that's all he is then Most women will not respect him.

[SamWinchester058]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Toxicity mainly. To be blunt women want to know they're with a MAN, not a little boy. The exceptionally toxic ones never had a man in thier life. So they search for one. And they view a man that is no nonsense as being kind of a dragonslayer. They view the nice guys as spineless guys that would get eaten by a dragon. We both know this is not true, but as I said this is her toxicity speaking to her.
The better women WILL choose nice guys. Because the better women are not looking for a man to save her. These women can slay a dragon on thier own, trust me. The drawback is these women are few in number. And virtually all are married by 25. Which leaves a higher concentration of toxic women in the dating pool. This is why I'll tell any guy that will listen if you haven't found, THE ONE by 25. Relax and take your time. You're going to have to wade through a loy of trash to find a good partner at that point.

[SamWinchester058]

Ehhhh. I think we as men should be the dragonslayers so that our women do not have to. Be able to use a sword if need be but know when to keep it sheathed and be kind.

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I have 4 sisters dude. All are married, all have stayed married. All do not need a man to save them.
I agree that men should be dragonslayers, but the women that look for men to save them end up getting used and tossed aside. That ain't coincidence. There are a lot of women that need to learn to cowgirl up. Or this will continue

[SamWinchester058]

Ooof. The pair on you must be huge, big guy. 4 sisters? Wow! You know it all, right? You misunderstood... never said she couldn't or should not be capable of taking care of herself. Simply meant that her man should do it so that she doesn't have to. My wife can put a bullet into an intruder just like I can, but I am always first out of the bedroom because I love her and don't want to risk her being hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

You're an idiot dude. I didn't come to you for help.🤦‍♂️
"Her man should be able to do it" is implied. Don't get your panties in a bunch because you didn't understand. And this subject goes far beyond protection. I wasn't talking about just protection. Dragonslaying just meant in how you tackle the world, work social situations etc. Think a little deeper.🙄

[Opinion Owner]

And while you're at it, bother someone else. Have a nice day!🙂👍

[SamWinchester058]

Lolol.

[FreyaRed]

Sometimes you have to say no if you don't want to appear as doormat even if saying yes is the kind and friendly option your date seems to expect.

[Nikki1989]

For the millionth time, NO!

[SamWinchester058]

Why?

[Anonymous]

Yes but awesome guys finish on my face.

[SamWinchester058]

Uhhhh. 😂😂😂

[SamWinchester058]

😳😳😳

[SamWinchester058]

I bet those are some lucky guys

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, because those guys are not authentic

[kavakava]

Absolutely.