Do nice guys really finish last?

Xper 6 Age: 37

My mum always said to go for nerds, that nerds make better long term partners.

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Anonymous
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Yes and no.
Yes because most "nice guys" will never even get noticed so in that sense they finish last. But most of the women that will never notice them are no prize. So the guy whether he realizes it or not didn't finish last. He actually dodged a bullet by never being noticed. I wish more guys understood this.
This isn't a swipe against women just FYI. Man or woman I think people should love themselves and give effort to those who give effort to them.👍

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Anonymous
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Nice guys who are also weak, timid pushovers will finish last. Some nice guys don't understand that you can be a nice guy without being everything that repels women.

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- MoonFace2
  
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  Agreed.
  
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BarryLiverstone Follow
Master Age: 26

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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

That depends. Could you describe what a nice guy is vs a not nice guy?

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- MoonFace2
  
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  A nerdy, sweet, innocent sort of guy.
  
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- BarryLiverstone
  
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  If the guy is too innocent then ya he often finishes last for several reasons. Most guys can be sweet to someone they care about. But who are you attracted to?
  
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- MoonFace2
  
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  In the past? The bad boys. Now, the nerdy guys.
  
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- BarryLiverstone
  
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  Be careful of nice guys who are desperate and fake their personality out of insecurities and lacking experience. I can see why you don’t want bad boys as they can be irresponsible and mean. So it sounds like you are trying your moms advice and want a nerd to geek out with
  
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- MoonFace2
  
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  Yep 😊
  
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- BarryLiverstone
  
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  Why not the bad boys anymore?
  
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- MoonFace2
  
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  They’re selfish and unreliable.
  
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- BarryLiverstone
  
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  Sounds like bad girls yk
  
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slatyb Follow
Master Age: 51

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No, they do not. I know many men who are quite nice and are doing very well.

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ChicoFromThe305 Follow
Master Age: 24

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If they don't it's because people have mothers like yours that be giving clean advice

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Anonymous
(25-29)

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yes because they put themselves last. serves them right either way

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Anonymous
(36-45)

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If he's 80M and just got married then yes. As for chasing nerds. There more sexual in bed. Don't be surprised if he's wearing a darth vader helmet while he's fucking you 😂

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- zagor
  
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  Hey hitting your head on the headboard hurts.
  
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saraupstairs Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 32%

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Yes, of course.

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Iron_Man Follow
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Yes..

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