Do nice guys really finish last?

Question

Some people believed that you got to be mean in order to finish first.

inhua · Accepted Answer

nice guys don't finish at all, not to mention the negative connotations that come with the nice guy used to justify to why they shouldn't finish at all.

the most successful people in this world ain't nice whether it be politicians, CEOs, pro-athletes etc, anyone of any job that involves competition.

Donald Trump deported thousands of illegal immigrations back across the border to free up jobs for local Americans, not a nice thing to do.

Elon Musk fired a bunch of Twitter workers for being lazy, not a nice thing to do.

Mike Tyson and Michael Jordan are worshipped as gods in their sports, neither was a nice guy.

in school it was the bullies and jerks who were the most successful with girls, the victims of bullies stood no choice and to pour extra salt on the wound, girls wouldn't mind adding on the extra bullying as a sign of hatred for weakness.

do you think new soldiers joining the army would take a drill sergeant seriously if he were being friendly with them? hell no.

basically if you want something badly in life, you just gotta take it even by force if necessary. fuck whoever stands in your way. the world ain't a nice place. somewhere in this world right now is a person or an animal dying at the hands of another person or another animal.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

If you are talking about with a woman then you will always have an issue. One can not make a woman "like or love" them. All day long you can compliment her and exclaim to her how awesome she is and she never love you. A compliment does not equal sex and more often than not, an overly sympathetic, sweet, and consoling guy is the exact opposite of what the woman needs and wants at that moment And, always there for her to pick-up the pieces has no value when correlated with "getting sex". She chooses the A-holes or treats a guy like a piece of trash but yet the guy is there. This is not a nice guy. This is a guy who has no understanding of how the world works much less dating. Love can not be convinced to love and respect...

Samarasaid · Accepted Answer

Tbh, bad guys choose bad girls quite quickly when they feel like having a baby. They end up unhappy.

Soremain · Answer

I believe you get the best results when you're both respectful and tough. So you're not a doormat, but you're not an asshole either. You can be tough and mean when needed, but generally you're a respectful person. That's how you get people to respect you. If you're just a dick, you'll just attract enemies and that's not smart.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Nah... I think it's immature... People just fall for each other... you just like who you like... if you like a girl and she doesn't like you back... You're not her type... Period... no need to make a whole story and generalization out of it and make this " nice guy " belief the scapegoat whenever you're not doing well with women... I mean, I don't see most sidelined chicks whining loudly all the time and making a " nice girls " stereotype...

AdithyaR · Answer

I don't think that's true. But even if it is, I'd rather be a good guy who finishes last than the bad boy who finishes first. I eont compromise my morals for the sake of being more attractive.