To an extent all girls biologically crave for a provider as well as for a guy who is at least a few years older. This is normal. And there is nothing wrong with it. But if you combine this natural drive with a shallow and superficial personality, you don't have a girl searching for a "provider" in terms of family-building, but for a provider for some ridiculous lifestyle.
Some men work too much and never get time for relationship or whatever or wanted a hot girl. Later in life now matter how smart you are if you aren't experienced with woman eventually some men are gonna fall in this trap.
My Mrs is twelve years younger, and was good with not caring about money at the start. However 8 years later she never worked, or paid into anything and drives around in a brand new jaguar and wears a Rolex. If anyone says anything she just says I never asked for it. Even though she basically did. Oh that looks nice, it but I'd love that. Etc. I think even people that don't mean to be end up a little that way
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I have seen younger girls marry older guys purely for the sake off love. These girls really know the value of truth , honesty , kindness , responsibility and about adding value to the relationship. Without selfless love and ready to care and share , the marriage is sure to collapse. So girls who look for guys for money or materialistic things , are not real girls. They are fake and fraudsters.
Let's be honest, young women are not attracted to old men in general and old men if they don't know this are incredibly naive but I suspect they do know this, hence why they have no problem spending cash on the young girl.
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A woman who is young wouldn't want to date a guy older than her dad unless it's for money , why else would she be with someone who has different goals and thoughts because of the age gap and who doesn't have as much energy as she does also he who is all wrinkly while her body is still nice she doesn't want him for his saggy balls and wrinkly dick she just wants the money. It's disguting i agree
In my experience, even as just friends, younger women are more likely to buy me something to eat/drink even without me asking them to. They tend to offer and to be more considerate.
I suppose it comes with the territory, if you are young, you probably are broke. But fortunately and unfortunately, i've always been broke (hoping to change that soon,,,) and have not fallen into that type of relationship yet..
Those girls are making the most of their looks and the old men are paying for their attention. It's between them, they're all consenting adults so I don't know why you're getting your knickers in a twist... Unless you love old men and they keep trying to pay you when you just wanna hang out with them for the fun of it... otherwise, who cares? They'll make some cash and make an old dude happy. Not like they're kidding themselves it's love...
I would, actually I’m in a relationship where my guy is encouraging me to meet dudes. He’s chosen to be exclusive though. We are in a long distance relationship and he realises we have sexual urges from time to time. He wants me to be happy. He doesn’t want to meet others though. But I’m not that big about hooking up, so I might just not do it. I don’t get horny much. It’s just out of the blue.
Not yet, I’m not that excited about it. Yes cos dating might mean I’m leading them on when I already see a future with my Boyfriend. I don’t see a point.
They're just looking for a sugar daddy with no commitment I understand the survival of the fittest but if you're going to use your body shit you should at least let the homie have a feel and make his money worth it otherwise back up and work for your own money lazy fuck
Since it's only my point of view I can talk about, this opinion only tells about my personality. There lies the reason. I have to be blunt since limited English skills. I've got an abnormal peronality.
Money is a payoff to date an older, less attractive man.
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The guys are getting something they’d never touch without money and the gals have to sex someone they aren’t attracted to. I don’t feel sorry for either of them.
I think you have that backwards... They expect to be paid while they are young and beautiful BECAUSE they know they will be left high and dry in their 30's
Yup... this is kind of custom where guy need to pay for everything.. now you need to be little more specific about things that she is expecting from you.. obviously if u are looking for beauty then beauties also looks for money and if u are an older men then first thing that will come into her mind is ur money.. so you need to impress her wid ur money.. then may be in future she will start loving you..
I didn’t date my 33 year old boyfriend so I could depend on him financially and make a fuss for not being treated like a princess and getting every damn luxury handbag or clothes or whatever.
See if you'll ask a girl why she likes older guys She'll be like ”they're mature and knows what they want and all" like seriously? We are talking about men here 😂 And it's not like young guys don't know what they want They do know what they want they haven't achieved it yet 😂 Ya feel me?
Well I don’t really judge the young guys. I never really thought about dating older ones until my guy came along. But yeah I can understand that, many girls may think that way and be biased.
See now ya feel me Plus I'm not sure if they'll be with those oldies forever cause most of them won't give them sponge bath when they're too old to walk 😂 LOL So few years before that in most cases divorce or affairs will happen 😂😋 Nailed it... 🤘
Still she'll find someone is a lot of cases Whereas our poor old guy will simply wait for someone to give him sponge bath and die waiting 😂 lmao See idc what people do or whoever they be with My point is if you really wanna be with someone then stick with them till the end Relationships are joke nowadays tbh And people judge you for having casual sex 😂 irony right there 🤘😋
I mean I started to like your personality basing my opinion on the questions and statements U pull. then I wrote a bad joke🙂 about realizing that I myself stated myself as an older man for answering this question above 😅 "older man...)
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To an extent all girls biologically crave for a provider as well as for a guy who is at least a few years older. This is normal. And there is nothing wrong with it. But if you combine this natural drive with a shallow and superficial personality, you don't have a girl searching for a "provider" in terms of family-building, but for a provider for some ridiculous lifestyle.
Some men work too much and never get time for relationship or whatever or wanted a hot girl. Later in life now matter how smart you are if you aren't experienced with woman eventually some men are gonna fall in this trap.
My advice just don't listen to your dick.
My Mrs is twelve years younger, and was good with not caring about money at the start. However 8 years later she never worked, or paid into anything and drives around in a brand new jaguar and wears a Rolex. If anyone says anything she just says I never asked for it. Even though she basically did. Oh that looks nice, it but I'd love that. Etc.
I think even people that don't mean to be end up a little that way
I have seen younger girls marry older guys purely for the sake off love. These girls really know the value of truth , honesty , kindness , responsibility and about adding value to the relationship. Without selfless love and ready to care and share , the marriage is sure to collapse. So girls who look for guys for money or materialistic things , are not real girls. They are fake and fraudsters.
That’s good news!
Let's be honest, young women are not attracted to old men in general and old men if they don't know this are incredibly naive but I suspect they do know this, hence why they have no problem spending cash on the young girl.
A woman who is young wouldn't want to date a guy older than her dad unless it's for money , why else would she be with someone who has different goals and thoughts because of the age gap and who doesn't have as much energy as she does also he who is all wrinkly while her body is still nice she doesn't want him for his saggy balls and wrinkly dick she just wants the money. It's disguting i agree
No, the whole gold digger thing is heavily exaggerated.
There's an enormous Sugar Daddy market out there though... wish I'd had the Internet when I was young enough to be one! 😂
In my experience, even as just friends, younger women are more likely to buy me something to eat/drink even without me asking them to. They tend to offer and to be more considerate.
You’ve got good experiences then :)
I suppose it comes with the territory, if you are young, you probably are broke. But fortunately and unfortunately, i've always been broke (hoping to change that soon,,,) and have not fallen into that type of relationship yet..
Those girls are making the most of their looks and the old men are paying for their attention. It's between them, they're all consenting adults so I don't know why you're getting your knickers in a twist... Unless you love old men and they keep trying to pay you when you just wanna hang out with them for the fun of it... otherwise, who cares? They'll make some cash and make an old dude happy. Not like they're kidding themselves it's love...
I'm a middle aged guy. Would I like to experience a young beautiful woman? Of course. Do I think a young woman would want me for me? Probably not.
Then that’s too bad.
If I find one great, but I don't care if the woman I'm with is 20, 30, or 40.
Would you ever hookup with or date a guy in his 40s?
I would, actually I’m in a relationship where my guy is encouraging me to meet dudes. He’s chosen to be exclusive though. We are in a long distance relationship and he realises we have sexual urges from time to time. He wants me to be happy. He doesn’t want to meet others though. But I’m not that big about hooking up, so I might just not do it. I don’t get horny much. It’s just out of the blue.
Dating wise, I wouldn’t. As the age gap difference would be way too much for me.
I understand. Have you met anyone near you?
So you wouldn't date an old guy, but you might sleep with one?
I definitely understand your relationship situation
Not yet, I’m not that excited about it. Yes cos dating might mean I’m leading them on when I already see a future with my Boyfriend. I don’t see a point.
I get that
They're just looking for a sugar daddy with no commitment I understand the survival of the fittest but if you're going to use your body shit you should at least let the homie have a feel and make his money worth it otherwise back up and work for your own money lazy fuck
It's rare for the outside to see who's asking and who's offering.
What do you mean?
My cousin is with a guy who is a decade older. She gets showered with gifts and has never asked for anything.
I see, cool for her.
Yes. I hope he doesn't regret anything when she breaks up with him.
I’m sure he won’t if she has been a sweet genuine girl all along to him.
I'm sure he won't either, it's her who's the heartbreaker.
Feels like it's less likely to find a person with an interesting personality. Yes I understand I'm the main problem in this dilemma ^^
What do you mean?
Since it's only my point of view I can talk about, this opinion only tells about my personality. There lies the reason.
I have to be blunt since limited English skills. I've got an abnormal peronality.
Why would you say you have an abnormal personality? Are you insulting yourself?
Nope. I'm actually diagnosed.
Aww, I’m sorry. I think you answered one of my questions before and said you were diagnosed.
Pardon?
You answered something like that in my previous question.
Money is a payoff to date an older, less attractive man.
The guys are getting something they’d never touch without money and the gals have to sex someone they aren’t attracted to. I don’t feel sorry for either of them.
How about girls with boyfriends who aren’t too old and in their end 20s and 30s expecting to be treated like a princess?
Similar. They’ll only get it if the dude is much less attractive.
Haha cool.
I think you have that backwards... They expect to be paid while they are young and beautiful BECAUSE they know they will be left high and dry in their 30's
Yup... this is kind of custom where guy need to pay for everything.. now you need to be little more specific about things that she is expecting from you.. obviously if u are looking for beauty then beauties also looks for money and if u are an older men then first thing that will come into her mind is ur money.. so you need to impress her wid ur money.. then may be in future she will start loving you..
It's funny to read these hyporitical comments.
If an old man goes for a young beautiful woman because of her looks he is just as shallow as her wanting money. They are using each other.
Well the reason girls go for older guys is that they want someone to take care of them in every way possible
Not really.
Please elaborate miss...
I didn’t date my 33 year old boyfriend so I could depend on him financially and make a fuss for not being treated like a princess and getting every damn luxury handbag or clothes or whatever.
Why are you taking it all on yourself?
And I never said it's a wrong thing to do
Nah I’m not offended, just thought I’d correct you a lil😉
See if you'll ask a girl why she likes older guys
She'll be like ”they're mature and knows what they want and all" like seriously? We are talking about men here 😂
And it's not like young guys don't know what they want
They do know what they want they haven't achieved it yet 😂
Ya feel me?
Well I don’t really judge the young guys. I never really thought about dating older ones until my guy came along. But yeah I can understand that, many girls may think that way and be biased.
See now ya feel me
Plus I'm not sure if they'll be with those oldies forever cause most of them won't give them sponge bath when they're too old to walk 😂 LOL
So few years before that in most cases divorce or affairs will happen 😂😋
Nailed it... 🤘
Haha yeah it’s a sad tale for both I suppose.
For both? Umm not in most cases
Those woman can find someone else whereas that guy will probably die alone 😂 LOL
But the woman won’t be young forever, TADA
Still she'll find someone is a lot of cases
Whereas our poor old guy will simply wait for someone to give him sponge bath and die waiting 😂 lmao
See idc what people do or whoever they be with
My point is if you really wanna be with someone then stick with them till the end
Relationships are joke nowadays tbh
And people judge you for having casual sex 😂 irony right there 🤘😋
Sponge bath tho...😂😳
Hahahahahahahaha 😂 LOL
Thanks for the laugh mate🤪😗😂
Pleasure homie 🤘
Richareens, I've just started to like U. Despite the fact that u just called me "older man" with my 31years 😅
Huh?
I mean I started to like your personality basing my opinion on the questions and statements U pull. then I wrote a bad joke🙂 about realizing that I myself stated myself as an older man for answering this question above 😅 "older man...)
It’s not a bad joke don’t worry 😂
😅🙂
Ahahhaha