Older men, is it really rare to find a young girl who won’t ask for your money?

[Richareens]

I see it a lot, many young girls expecting to have their expenses paid for. Because they’re very young and oh so beautiful, they feel very entitled and want to be treated like a princess. Don’t they know that looks don’t last forever and they’ll probably be replaced like nobody’s business when they reach their 30s and 40s? Those type of girls absolutely despise me. And it saddens me when people assume ALL girls, be it young or old, are like that.

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Those type of girls absolutely DISGUSTS me*

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That type of girls absolutely disgusts me* (oh god, I’m having grammar nazi dilemmas)

[Anonymous]

I don't think age is really the factor. All women really want that regardless of how old they are. Men want that too. That's one of the main reasons why men and women get married. People want financial security. I understand what you mean. Some young women do look for older men simply because they want money. That's a big problem for older men who start looking for desperate young women in other countries. I would imagine there are plenty of young women like that in places like Venezuela and Honduras. They just want the money in a man's bank account. They spend most of that money and find another man with plenty of money in his bank account. That's the real reason why so many of the "sugar daddy" relationships don't last. It's easy for a young woman to become infatuated with an older man if he can afford to give her everything she wants for a period of two or three years. The party does have a tendency to end after that period of time unless the guy is making $75,000 or more every year.

[Richareens]

I like to think that those men going to poor countries to actively pursue those really young, uneducated and poor girls are asking for it. But the ones in the more educated parts of the world and those who complain when they don’t get pampered enough, those I find rather annoying. You had good education yet you complain. What will happen to you when you hit your 30s or 40s and find that you’re no longer wanted for your body?

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't complaining. I was giving you an example of what happens to some older men. I don't understand your comment.

[Opinion Owner]

What makes you think I would spend my time and money searching for desperate, young women in other countries? That's a good question too. You obviously don't know anything about me. I already told you that many of the "sugar daddy" relationships don't last. Most men aren't millionaires. I'm not a millionaire.

[Richareens]

I’m not referring to you, I was referring to the gold diggers😂

[Richareens]

You understood my wrong! 😊

[Richareens]

I mean you misunderstood me.

[Richareens]

I was saying those very young girls are complaining, not you.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand what you meant now. I thought you were asking me that question. I've never been in a situation like that. I couldn't answer your question. People do get married because of money. I agree with you though. Money isn't everything unless it's everything to a specific person. Some people are just greedy. Some people want everything in the world, and other people use money as a way to control a relationship. I think it's less likely to happen if the age difference isn't that noticeable. A 47 year old man searching for foreign women who are less than 30 years old is ridiculous. That entire relationship is probably going to be about money if he does end up marrying a foreign woman who is less than 30 years old.

[Welshman2]

I'm reasonably well off and I have, in the past, have had women try to use me for money.

It doesn't work on me and I have found that not demonstrating my wealth is a good way to avoid gold diggers. I still, even at my age, get chatted up and find women will buy me drinks (I do buy back when they do).

But if a woman chats me up and expects me to buy her a drink then she gets nothing from me apart from sarcasm (this usually happens when I have to wear a suit for business reasons and go to a pub or bar)

[Richareens]

That’s wise of you.

[Anonymous]

I tend to like to date older guys, but not really because of their money but I am more interested in their personality and the way they see life (which is way different than guys my age).
I honestly would feel weird if they buy me expensive things, and I always offer to pay my half. So it really depends on the person is what I am trying to say.

[Richareens]

Same! I’d feel uneasy knowing my man bought a really expensive gift. I just don’t expect it at all. That’s good you offer to pay your half, many don’t!

[Opinion Owner]

yeah i own several expensive bags and stuff, but those are brought with my money, I wouldn't want him to buy me those as I would feel uncomfortable, but I am perfectly happy to buy them with my own money.

[Richareens]

That’s refreshing to hear :)

[pookybear123]

I prefer older men. My partner earns twice as much as me but we split everything and treat each other. I’m not after his money. I’m after all the other things such as mutual respect, loyalty etc. Either of our jobs could end tomorrow and I believe we would support each other financially.

[Richareens]

That’s great.

[Logorithim]

My uncle encountered this when he was last on the dating market in his mid-50s.

If an older guys is are flexible on looks, he may be able to circumvent this to a large extent. If he's got to have a very beautiful woman, well, of course there will be lots of competition and of course she will have more leverage and can filter guys out who don't have the money and status she craves.

In many parts of the world, the young attractive woman is being pressured by her family to find a guy with money who will help support the whole family.

[Anonymous]

Lol. I love when guys shit on the girls in these relationships but seriously sit back and look at the dudes. What 22 year old looks at a 45 year old and says oh I love him because we have so much in common. I’m sorry but he’s literally lived two times the amount of life and they experienced childhood literally decades apart. This man is in college when this girl was born. You really think he’s all over her because he thinks she understands him? Not to mention that I doubt there’s that many girl out there who’s super excited to hop in the sack with a man who’s balding, sagging and developing arthritis at the prime shape of her life. He knows 100% what’s going on and he signed up for it. If anyone’s a victim here it’s the girl who’s pretty much being forced into socially acceptable prostitution due to our economies disgusting wealth disparities. I respect a gold digger. She’s mentally tough and does what’s necessary to get the life she wants. However, I’m never going to marry one because unlike those disgusting old farts I find value in more than just a persons youthful appearance. Stop shitting on women for exploiting dumb men.

[Hal2002]

When you have a college age female with an older guy 40 and older, 99% of the time is because he is her sugar daddy.

The term trophy is used for these females, be it a trophy girlfriend or a trophy wife. The thing about these females is, that they know they are in a temporary position and they are out to get the most out of the guy they are with before they get the boot. But there are enough of them that have been able to make the relationship become permanent or walked away with big payoffs at the end of a relationship or gotten a big divorce settlements that encourage other young females to add to their number year after year thinking they can get the same thing.

Most of these female that play the older man game are not dumb, and most will already have a another guy on the hook by the time the guy she is with starts showing signs he is losing interest.

[Richareens]

Interesting input about them not being dumb.

[Unit1]

I'm not old but I agree. Gold diggers are such disgusting subhuman beings. I fucking hate gold diggers like people hate cockroaches!

https://i.imgur.com/AUOSy7Y.jpg

I mean they can do what they do and what they want to do and I'm sure there are desperate horndogs out there, who would pay for that puss. In this case they have found each other. It's just definitely not something for me.
If they're honest about their gold diggery nature, then it's good to be honest about it. But deceivingly gold digging a boyfriend? That is much more than sickening me to the stomach.

Fortunately I didn't see any gold diggers in the past so it's all good. :)

[Richareens]

That’s an adorable pony picture😂

[Unit1]

Did someone say adorable pony?

https://i.imgur.com/kO4gNgr.png

I made it with photoshop. Both of them 😊

[Richareens]

You drew it by yourself?

[Unit1]

Ja, that's what I'm saying. Although i had templates for them.

[Richareens]

That’s still impressive, you’re a pretty good artist! :)

[Unit1]

Thanks ^^

[Richareens]

You’re welcome, keep drawing!

[Unit1]

I will keep it up 🙂

[D_Bone_Steak]

You gotta know how to find the type of woman you want and know how to avoid the types you'd rather avoid. Personally, I'm really good at putting it out there that I'm not generous, and I always pretend to be broke. Gold digging entitled chicks don't even try if you're not what she's looking for (or thinks you're not).

[D_Bone_Steak]

What I meant to say... if she is genuinely interested in just getting your dick because you're the sexiest thang she's had a chance to get in weeks... you don't need to let her know you might actually be able to afford netflix. (Pssst... make her pay for it)

[Richareens]

Lol imagine that look of horror when you ask her if she can buy Netflix.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Personally I'd convince her to get it for herself, then ask to use her account too. Qui Bono right?

That's how my wife gets netflix, from my side-chick's account... I rarely even use it.

[Marco6]

Rare yes, but not impossible. In my experience, women in their early 20's who say they are loooking for a sugar daddy, usually aren't, they just want attention from an older man. Meanwhile, there are other women in their early 20's who don't take the sugar daddy route and just hook up with older men on sites like Tinder.

[Richareens]

And what do you think about the latter group of women?

[Marco6]

What do I think of women in their early twenties who hook up with older guys? That is really not for me to judge... But, I have absolutely no problem with it. Actually, I have been a willing participant. In my 30's I have hooked up with women ranging from 18-58.

[Anonymous]

That's an excuse some failed men use. "I can't get a girlfriend because all girls want money" like shut up. You can't get laid because you're a failure. Same goes to you the oh so honest love over everything type of person. What really disgusts me is women like you with such judgmental mindset.

[Richareens]

And if you aren’t well off either, don’t expect to be treated like a princess either. Ciao!

[Northern_star]

oh dear, its not about failed men at all, trust me.. and definitely not about not getting laid.. its about men with a brain, moral expectations and - god forgive - 'feelings'.

But i can understand your rage either, for the asker is amongst a few special human beings in a world where u are the main stream 🙂 it must be embarassing even to read sy opposed to what u think is normal.

[Richareens]

@Northern_star 😉

[Pink1996]

"Don’t they know that looks don’t last forever and they’ll probably be replaced like nobody’s business when they reach their 30s and 40s"
wow... terrible comment you've made. nice to know you think women have got an expiry date as if they are no longer physically desirable after 30. You're really showing your hate for women. Men know very well when a woman is a gold digger and wants everything paid for, if they want to be with someone like that then thats on them. Also if a woman wants a man to pay for everything then thats on her too and thats none of your business how she conducts her lifestyle.

[Richareens]

Lol I’m showing my hate for women? Oh yay I hate myself too!

[hannakaram]

I am 47 years old.
And my girlfriend is 26 years old.
And she supper beautiful and supper sexy really, kind of beauty which teases all guys.
We are together since 4 years now.
And she never ask me for money, she is dealing with me as I am her idols, her reference, and the experience man who give her the right advises, and following my steps.
I think I am lucky guy. 😎😎😎

[Richareens]

You’re very lucky.

[Kkaos]

The fastest thing to make me swipe left on Tinder is when I see in a girl's bio 'feed me', 'take me on adventures', 'looking for a guy to buy me...'
It may be a joke, it may not be. But the level of self entitlement is insane.

[Richareens]

Didn’t know some people were like that in tinder.

[StableMind]

Yeah it's pretty bad

[CluelesslyClueless]

I once had a girl turn me down after learning I didn't make much by telling me (verbatum)

"I'm tired of being poor."

Fuck her.

[Richareens]

Well she shoulda work her entitled ass off first.

[chc0009]

Yes, since at this moment, most women don't want me. I don't know how these rich men suddenly run into pretty ladies who want them for their money.

Like where do they meet them, do their co-workers introduce them or something? Or do they just call them and wave cash in their face?

[Richareens]

dating sites.

[chc0009]

And all of a sudden they get hooked? Because when I'm on dating sites, I only get the fat or old ones.

[jonesjessica812]

Girls even discriminate there too

[Richareens]

I Guess it depends on where you stay. In Asia, there are plenty of thin girls.

[Meninist]

“And it saddens me when people assume ALL girls, be it young or old, are like that.”

It saddens me when all men are depicted as sexual perverts who can’t keep their hands to themselves, but those women don’t get told otherwise, rather us men get told we should listen and shut up.

[Annie_Mosity]

Shut up...

[Meninist]

@Annie_Mosity oh you

[loveslongnails]

Please define... older men. Age range? Younger girls /// Age range? Is this a predisposed "arrangement" ? Is it understood that there's financial gifts for a girlfriend relationship, or is the girl just pretending to be a real girlfriend and using the guy for his money? Please clarify, because your entire question rests on that clarification.

[StableMind]

If you're like me just say something that applys to both with many possibilities to consider and no clarification to isolate such I just state my mind on all fronts as long winded as that is

[loveslongnails]

@StableMind If you have an arrangement to trade "sugar for money", then that's fine. If you pretend to care and want a relationship simply to be taken care of, or to get money from the guy, then that's bullshit. Simple.

[StableMind]

See just like that lol

[Richareens]

😂😂

[StableMind]

He answered both his questions

[Richareens]

Thanks for answering guys!

[StableMind]

No problem

[motownplayer2000]

It’s also very rare to have a girl now a days even with the younger guys to find a girl that’s willing to work for what they want or need.. they usually will expect a man to do for them period... the tide is shifting, I think. But the traditional way of thinking.. yeah, it’s hurting women.

[Richareens]

The tide is definitely shifting for many.

[motownplayer2000]

I really really hope so.. it would be refreshing for sure!

[Richareens]

Those girls you see in university.. Many of them definitely are working for a good career.

[motownplayer2000]

I believe it... and I support women empowerment

[Richareens]

Aww thank you.

[motownplayer2000]

👍👍👍👍

[TheOtherManOnTheSide]

I've had a couple of young women. (19 and 22) and the one just wanted to learn but for me to last more than the usual 15 seconds that boys her age did. The other one would ask a favour of me, lend her money that never gets paid back, pull her car out of a ditch, use my credit card to pay for a hotel as she pays me cash, give her a ride om my big truck 3 hours away when I'm going there anyway. But I got laid each time so I'm not complaining.

[Richareens]

If she paid back the cash, I Guess that’s fine. And asked for rides where you’re going too, alright too. If you got laid each time, good. But when it gets to a point where you’re broke and she instantly leaves your ass or demand to be treated like a princess with her tits and Pussy hanging out like they’re hella magical and prestigious, not cool.

[TheOtherManOnTheSide]

Ah yes, I understand what you're saying. I agree.

[Bonitaermosa]

I couldnt care about money. Only to know bills are paid.. food in the house... a roof over my head... and sexie guy to play with... but money isn't my happiness, its how comfortable i am with myself and with the man i am sharing my time with at the moment.

[Sailesh7]

Ohhh

[Bonitaermosa]

@Sailesh7 i dated a man that thought i was going for his money... but when he figure out i wasn't and knew i was more happier to do things that didn't cost money... he was shock... but we had different point of views of living so we didn't stay together. Just me.

[VegetaSSB]

Well like you said they will be replaced in no time when they hit their 30´s, so i wouldn´t give a fuck, and of course won´t even get to the trouble of having a relationship with one of those, paid sex once in a lifetime at best if they were very atttractive and willing to accept this term.

[Anonymous]

im 35, not too rich but not poor either.. i dress well, i like to think..

anyway, in the last year i have dated 10 girls aged 18 to 21. 9 of them lost interest when it became clear i wasn't going to buy them a car or pay for their college.

the 1 other girl got punishment from her parents for dating older men, so we stopped seeing each other. she was sweet and normal :(

[Opinion Owner]

don't get me wrong, i'm not greedy.. i'd do what i can to support my girl, but i dont think buying you things is helping you become an independent person.

[Richareens]

There’s nothing greedy about you not buying those entitled bitches a car.

[Chaoseverywhere]

If you have 20x their net worth, of cause they're going to be attached to the "high life". Or maybe they're after you because they see a bunch of hot young gold-diggers chasing you, so they think you have big dick or something. Might aswell enjoy, most of em grow attached to you anyway lol, I always see the guy dump the girl, I rarely hear the girl dump the guy because he got poor. They got there for a reason and they'll stay there. Aslong as they're there, ho's will never leave.