My boyfriend won't accept my friend request on Facebook, why?

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So when we met he said he didn't use Facebook much. I saw that he hadn't accepted my friend request but I did not give it much thought. After a while I started noticing that he had commented a winky face on a girls profile whose request he had accepted and though it was a long time back, he constantly changed his profile which meant he was using Facebook. When I confronted him about it he laughed it off and didn't pay me any attention. Once we got into a fight about it and I told him that he either accept my request or I don't talk to him. He deleted his Facebook account. Does that mean he's hiding anything from me? I am not a big fan of social media either but how hard could it be to accept a request?

TheUltimateHermit · Accepted Answer

It’s Facebook. Implying you guys have been together for more than just a couple months, if you already know people in his real life that matter to him, then Facebook doesn’t matter. Maybe he doesn’t want you on there because you’re scrolling through to find where he’s commenting winky faces to chicks from before you were together.

The internet is toxic. Don’t try and bring it into your relationship. Chill.

maddog998 · Accepted Answer

1. Get someone you talk to and hang out with to add him on Facebook (see if he accepts it & make sure he don't really know that friend)
2. When you and your friend hangs out (if she is loyal) get her to flirt with him
3. If he flirts back and asks for photos
4. Leave his ass.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I didn’t add a guy on Facebook either. He thought I was weird and sketchy. But it’s literally because I never use it. What’s the point? He threatened to be done with me if I didn’t add him on social media. Lol. He blocked me. Lol.

Tatia_Del · Accepted Answer

It seems like he doesn't want someone to know about you or he doesn't want you to know about the things he does on there.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

I got to say he is probably hiding something. Did he delete his page or just block you from seeing it.. there is a difference?

IlyaTheImpaler · Accepted Answer

shit lmao you sound like this chick in my class  I have certain friends and I don't want them to know about me and her

omgjassy · Answer

He’s hiding a lot. And I would dump his immature self.

Valhalla1996 · Answer

Oh man! He’s fucking that other chick! He’s probably both though! Have a little trust in your relationship! If you can’t trust your boyfriend then you shouldn’t be with him. It doesn’t mean he’s hiding anything from you! Maybe he just wants a little bit of privacy! People need their space even from their loved ones! A friend request shouldn’t be something you fight over.

kaylamacias · Answer

he is hiding something. you deserve something better

Eazy_E · Answer

It sounds like he is hiding something from you. Sorry to hear that

JonnyTrauma · Answer

Sounds to me he's trying to keep you as a secret and making sure your not on his facebook

IvesRum · Answer

Facebook sucks. Don't read into it too much (be wary though) delete facebook.

Yakasmashi · Answer

Because he is hiding something that is why he won't accept it.. if he didn't hide nothing that means he would accept it

TinaSP · Answer

Sorry.. he is so not our boyfriend. But I bet he has a girlfriend. Not you.

theGuyWithTheThing · Answer

We're talking about facebook here. Not real life.. facebook.

loleitafriez · Answer

My ex did this exact thing. He has something to hide and would rather delete his account than get "rid" of and stop whatever he's hiding (girls, being inappropriate)

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

He's cheating. If he accepts you, then his relationship status is known to all.

redredredneck · Answer

He doesn't want family or friends to know you two are togetther

ItsOnlyAGame · Answer

He's got 2 other women on the go and a baby mother 🤣

sevenwolf · Answer

Look if they are being that sketchy it means they are doing something sketchy. Recast your line, and start fishing again

budlight69 · Answer

Either he's sketchy/hiding something or tbh he could just not check his notifications some guys dont

QueenofCups · Answer

He is definitely hiding something from you.

potatoismee · Answer

Definitely hiding something.  100%

gclark2708 · Answer

Because he thinks you'll stalk his fb probably

MrMAC777 · Answer

He might be... maybe he has a girlfriend?

thottiana · Answer

He’s cheating on you. Most definitely.

urmumbiggei · Answer

XD is this serious? Or are you trolling?

big-ginger98 · Answer

He probably is hiding something

Silverjay · Answer

Oh yeah he is hiding something

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Probably because Facebook fucking sucks.

myselfandi35 · Answer

Yep he doesn't want anyone else to know

punkboiiii · Answer

Nah he's cheating on facebook.

soul_mate · Answer

May be he have some other girlfriend

aestheticsofty · Answer

He’s hiding stuff

WWolf26 · Answer

Something he is hiding

princess8403 · Answer

have something to hide

traumbaum · Answer

Facebook is for old guys. Not forcreal friends

Tutisfainas · Answer

I think he have other girl

BeesNectar · Answer

Yes. Shady is shady.

conncart662 · Answer

He hidein things

bahadirsimsek · Answer

He doesn't like you

090518 · Answer

give him some soace

My boyfriend won't accept my friend request on Facebook, why?

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